Part 2 continued of Ep 4:

Last ep you spoke on something: selflessness and selfishness… a lot of people confuse them… but we need both for balance. Can you explain what you meant? Also, what are 5 selfless acts men can do while being selfish in a healthy way-

How can we handle that guilt in a healthy way?

• Realize when you are craving what you’re used to vs what you need to crave
• Journal your feelings before you text them or call
• A lot of people don’t mention this… pray your urge away

What did we realize?

The Inner Fight: Is this fixable? Pride and ego can block what’s fixable.

Am I looking for perfection or do I deserve to move forward?

I’m never looking for what’s perfect, just reciprocating effort

We have to make sure we don’t confuse love with saturated entitlement mixed with who we know. That who we already know mindset will keep you stuck in positions with ppl who do not deserve you or who will never provide the appreciation your efforts deserve. I never want a man to think just because I love you I won’t save me. If you love yourself you will self preserve too.

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