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#41. Boundaries Are Foreplay-The Secret to Mind-Blowing Intimacy at Any Age

#41. Boundaries Are Foreplay-The Secret to Mind-Blowing Intimacy at Any Age

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In this episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Laurie Handlers to explore boundaries as the foundation for extraordinary intimacy, why your best sex might still be ahead of you, and how to create desire that doesn't fade—even after decades together.

Laurie shares her journey of finding her soulmate at 67, breaks down the 3-step boundary formula that transforms relationships, and explains why couples are "endangered" and what it takes to save them.


What You'll Learn:

• Why finding love at 67 taught Laurie what she didn't know at 27

• The 3-step boundary formula that makes intimacy hotter

• How people-pleasing kills desire and what to do instead

• Why couples are going extinct and how to become extraordinary

• What Tantra actually is (beyond the marathon sex myth)

• How sexuality becomes a portal to healing

• One 5-minute practice to reconnect tonight

• Why your best sexual years might still be ahead of you


Guest Bio


Laurie Handlers is a bestselling author, international retreat leader, and relationship visionary with over 40 years of experience in sacred sexuality, empowerment, and transformational education. Featured in the New York Times and on Bloomberg Canada, she's spoken before thousands and been a guest on countless podcasts, summits, and media platforms.


As host of two long-running podcasts—Tantra Cafe and Sex and Happiness (15 years!)—Laurie has spent decades challenging taboos and inspiring embodied self-love through humor, honesty, and deep wisdom.


Her current passion? Saving couples from extinction. After finding the love of her life at 67, she now teaches singles and couples how to attract, ignite, and sustain extraordinary love.


📖 Author of:

• Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy (International Bestseller)

• Sex & Happiness Over 60: It Only Gets Better!

🎓 Lead Facilitator for the International School of Temple Arts (ISTA) since 2008

🌐 Website: lauriehandlers.com

📧 Email: laurie@butterflyworkshops.com

🎁 FREE Download: lauriehandlers.com

Instagram: @laurie.handlers


Host Bio


Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.

She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.


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