You audit everything else that matters — your numbers, your team, your health. So why is your love life the one place you keep blaming the apps, the city, and "no good men"? In this episode, Amanda runs a live love audit with her client Kate: a four-part walkthrough of the patterns, filters, and quiet standard-slips that keep smart women stuck in talking stages that go nowhere. By the end, you'll have a standards reset and a seven-day plan to run the play yourself.

Key Takeaways

• Why the problem isn't the apps, your city, or a shortage of good men — it's the strategy you've been dating without
• The CEO shift: slow to hire, fast to fire, never rehire — and how to apply it to your love life
• How to require clarity early instead of chasing it for months
• The three places you're over-giving, and how to match a man's effort instead of out-running it
• A standards reset you can write down today, plus a seven-day action plan

Chapters

• 00:00 — What a love audit is (and why you stop blaming everything else)
• 02:25 — Audit 1: Your patterns — the last three men and how they made you feel
• 09:30 — The red flag women normalize, and why you fire fast
• 11:00 — Audit 2: Your filters and the CEO shift
• 17:00 — "I'm looking for a relationship, not a pen pal" — slow to hire, fast to fire
• 24:56 — Audit 3: Energy and behavior — over-giving, chasing clarity, abandoning standards
• 37:00 — There's no shortage of good men. You're ignoring the ones who show up.
• 38:30 — Audit 4: Your standards reset
• 41:30 — Your seven-day action plan
• 44:00 — Listener Q&A: attraction, leading someone on, and calling it sooner

Links

• 🧲 Free training — Magnetic Attraction: set up a dating profile that only attracts high-value men → https://www.bravesinglemoms.com/pl/2148731615
• 📞 Book your personal Love Audit with Amanda → https://calendly.com/d/cn4j-kd2-5g5

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