Because I Said So
Why Society Is Childist and How Breaking the Cycle of Discrimination Towards Children Can Change the World
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Sarah Ockwell-Smith
Summary
Society is making great strides in increasing awareness of oppression and injustice, but one group remains mistreated: children.
Commonly recommended parenting and discipline methods treat children in ways that would cause uproar if adults were treated similarly. Children's needs and feelings are frequently dismissed and ignored by adults. Children are taught to blindly obey adults in the name of 'respect', although respect is so rarely shown to them.
We are a society that is afraid of treating children kindly, as evidenced by the almost constant uproar and ridicule of the 'gentle parenting' movement.
In this timely book, bestselling author and parenting expert Sarah Ockwell-Smith blends childcare history, sociology, psychology and current affairs to raise awareness of childism - the unconscious discrimination of children in our world - and why it impacts everybody.
Essential for parents, carers, teachers and anybody who works with children, Because I Said So! is both a thought-provoking guide and an urgent call to action. It will help you to understand your own upbringing and how this has shaped your beliefs and behaviour; prompt you to consider the prevalence of childism in society today, so that you can change the way you look after the children in your care or reinforce the approach you are already taking; and consider how we can transform the way our society treats children to create positive, lasting change for generations to come.
Childism is an issue that has been ignored and avoided for far too long. If we want to change the world for the better, we must start with treating our children better.
Critic reviews
'A provocative new book which challenges every aspect of modern parenting' Daily Mail
'A vital read, not just for parents but anyone who values the next generation' Psychologies
I totally appreciate that this book is pushing the boundaries and understanding of parenting and I for one salute it.
This book may not sit well with some as they will feel that it is “having a go” at their own parenting choices and/or those of their parents. And that’s okay, keep reading/listening.
I’ve had the book on pre order through audible since I first saw about it. And it hasn’t disappointed.
Fantastic. Pushing the boundaries.
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If you believe in equality and justice then this book is a must read!
She makes children human in this book
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Life changing
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I think it’s an important book not only for parents and teachers but for anyone who interacts with other humans!
At times, it is not an easy listen as I dug deep and examined my life - past, present and future. But Sarah manages to balance that uncomfortableness with deep compassion and understanding.
This is a powerful manifesto of the world I wish my daughter to live in.
The best parenting / human-ing book I’ve read
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Thank you 🙏
Such an important book
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