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Becoming the Pastor's Wife

How Marriage Replaced Ordination as a Woman's Path to Ministry

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Becoming the Pastor's Wife

By: Beth Allison Barr
Narrated by: Connie Shabshab
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As a pastor's wife for twenty-five years, Beth Allison Barr has lived with assumptions about what she should do and who she should be.

In Becoming the Pastor's Wife, Barr draws on that experience and her expertise as a historian to trace the history of the role of the pastor's wife, showing how it both helped and hurt women in conservative Protestant traditions. While they gained an important leadership role, it came at a deep cost: losing independent church leadership opportunities that existed throughout most of church history and strengthening a gender hierarchy that prioritized male careers.

Barr examines the connection between the decline of female ordination and the rise of the role of pastor's wife in the evangelical church, tracing its patterns in the larger history (ancient, medieval, Reformation, and modern) of Christian women's leadership. By expertly blending historical and personal narrative, she equips pastors' wives to better advocate for themselves while helping the church understand the origins of the role as well as the historical reality of ordained women.

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An important read to understand how the church in the west, particularly the USA has ended up where it has. The contrasts of men forgiving abusers but eternally condemning women because of “the sin of Eve” were particularly hard to read. I wish it had developed more on the impact of this concept of the pastors wife in other countries and in non white churches. But perhaps that’s another book or two!

Important, eye opening critique of the effects of complementarianism

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