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He's Just Not That Into You

The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

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He's Just Not That Into You

By: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
Narrated by: Liz Tuccillo, Greg Behrendt
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 Celebrating twenty years since its release, He’s Just Not That Into You remains a game-changer, offering no-nonsense advice for how to spot when a guy just isn’t interested—saving you from wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationships. Inspired by a memorable episode of the iconic show Sex and the City, it holds its ground as the best relationship advice you'll ever get!

For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.

He’s afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he’s intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.

Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that—despite good intentions—you’re wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they’d like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.

The truth may be, He’s just not that into you.

Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, “You're not the one.” But their actions absolutely show how they feel.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo’s wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, “I’m in love with you and want to be with you.”

He’s Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman’s night table. It knows you’re a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start “figuring him out,” consider the glorious thought that maybe, He’s just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo; (P)2004 Simon & Schuster Audio Love, Dating & Attraction Personal Development Relationships Self-Esteem
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A frank, useful guide to dating that I wish I’d read earlier than I did

A heavy dose of reality

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I liked this. help me to deal with the end of a situationship. Hard truths that will alleviate pain when you embrace the truths.

Helpful. Really good insight for female/male view

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This is stuff we all know as smart, intelligent women but we still fall for the shitty excuses & crap relationships so this is essential listening. Greg is hilarious & his straight-talking advice really does hit the necessary spot. I've listened to it twice in 2 weeks already & will carry on listening to it until I can recite every word from memory ... & stay away from losers!

Great advice

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Made me giggle and definitely get over the two exes I’ve managed to collect over the summer. Warmly recommend. (Would love to see an updated ‘post-Facebook era’ version though!)

Funny

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An overdose of self confidence for strong independent women. Funny and so entertaining. Highly recommend it.

An overdose of self confidence!

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