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I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Third Edition

Understanding the Borderline Personality

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I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Third Edition

By: Jerold J. Kreisman, Hal Straus
Narrated by: Kevin R. Free
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 The revised and expanded third edition of the bestselling guide to understanding borderline personality disorder—with advice for communicating with and helping the borderline individuals in your life.


After more than three decades as the essential guide to borderline personality disorder (BPD), the third edition of I Hate You—Don’t Leave Me now reflects the most up-to-date research that has opened doors to the neurobiological, genetic, and developmental roots of the disorder, as well as connections between BPD and substance abuse, sexual abuse, post-traumatic stress syndrome, ADHD, and eating disorders.

Both pharmacological and psychotherapeutic advancements point to real hope for success in the treatment and understanding of BPD.

This expanded and revised edition is an invaluable resource for those diagnosed with BPD and their family, friends, and colleagues, as well as professionals and students in the field, and the practical tools and advice are easy to understand and use in your day-to-day interactions with the borderline individuals in your life.


* This audiobook includes a downloadable PDF with a resource guide from the book. Mental Health Mood Disorders Personal Development Personality Disorders Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Health Inspiring Substance abuse
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I learned a lot from this book. I’m going to read it again as there is a great deal of valuable information.

Excellent case studies

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The book is a useful step towards understanding the behaviours of such a person who is considered, to have a borderline nature towards the personalities of others, of of course, of their own.

insightful, well read, useful step forwards...

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It is difficult to see that a more thorough and frank book could be written on this disorder.

Brilliant...

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I'd already done some quite intensive reading on BPD so a lot of this was familiar, but there was some interesting new things. SETUP techniques seem useful, and I would have liked more approaches like that in the book.

At times the book drifted into politics and social science and made claims which it didn't seem to substantiate and which seemed more reflective of the authors' political views than of objective fact, and the relevance wasn't clear.

All in all a good book, but you need to be able to think critically and reject some of the books more questionable points.

Pretty good, some parts dubious/irrelevant

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Great book, well researched with a very objective and rounded viewpoint. With a good open perspective around limitations as well as good point for treatment 🙏

Very informative

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