Christmas and the holidays are a fun and festive time for many. But for incest survivors, a traditional family get-together can bring on sad feelings and emotions. Today, Susie reads from Grace Davis' Abuse Survivor's Guide to the Holidays. The book includes helpful tips, ranging from how to stay centered to staying sober to taking note of who your chosen family is. And it reminds that, as an adult, your abusive family members are part of the past!

Next, in our ongoing "Tell me your Sex Story" segment, Susie continues to ask all those nosy personal questions to another willing listener. This week "Frank" gets into the sexual confession booth with Susie to talk about sex and aging. How many ways can you work with a "soft on"? When is seeing a sex professional therapeutic versus extravagant? And just why - oh why - are big breasts so yummy?

Then in our "Try This at Home" mailbag, Susie tackles a listener's unusual case of "cramped penis". Our letter writer says, "Help! After 15 minutes of having an erection, I feel the need to stretch my penis. What's going on?

Have a question? You can call Susie's hotline at 831-480-5110. And you can send your confidential questions - plus requests for free samples and blog banners! - to susie@susiebright.com. [Episode 460, December 17, 2010]

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