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My Lovely Wife

A Memoir of Madness and Hope

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My Lovely Wife

By: Mark Lukach
Narrated by: Josh Bloomberg
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Mark and Giulia fell for each other in their teens, married in their 20s, and didn't realize what their love would demand of them until Giulia suffered a terrifying and unexpected psychotic break at the age of twenty-seven. Hospitalized for almost a month, she was tormented by delusions and paranoia. Upon release, she sunk into an extended suicidal depression during which Mark, struggling to support Giulia, was torn between the demands of keeping her safe and following doctor's orders, and honouring her independence and making her feel loved.

Eventually, Giulia fully recovered, and the couple had a son. Soon after Jonas was born, Giulia had another breakdown, and then a third a few years after that. Pushed to the edge of the abyss, everything the couple had once taken for granted was upended. In My Lovely Wife, Mark Lukach takes us through these harrowing years with compassion and candour, as he and Giulia renegotiate their relationship, anchored by an abiding devotion to each other and their family.

A story of the fragility of the mind, and the tenacity of the human spirit, My Lovely Wife is, above all, a love story that raises profound questions: How do we best care for the people we love? What and who do we live for? Breathtaking in its honesty, radiant with compassion, written with dazzling lyricism, this intensely personal odyssey offers much-needed insight into the caregiving side of mental illness, and affirms the power of love.

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A dazzling, loving and hugely courageous book (The Times)
A compassionate and deeply honest account (Guardian )
This gorgeous memoir gives readers a raw and unvarnished account of what it’s like to live with and love someone with a severe mental illness. There are moments of gut-wrenching sadness—but, ultimately, the story is hopeful, even triumphant. This book basically tore out my heart and then lovingly sewed it back in place (Susannah Cahalan, author of Brain on Fire)
It’s possible that understanding the terrifying and excruciating process of being placed in a mental institution can be best understood by the person who loves you most. Mark Lukach lyrically transforms our understanding of love, mental illness, patience, and devotion in this stunning memoir which chronicles falling in love with a woman whose mental condition eventually changed their lives forever. With moving and touching prose, this book truly describes what it’s like to have the picture of your life smashed in an instant and subsequently reassembled miraculously. (Mayim Bialik, PhD, neuroscientist, actress and New York Times bestselling author)
It absolutely gutted me. It was so many things at once: an adorably devoted love story, a memoir of mental illness, an admittance of anger and guilt, a story of resilience. It offered a perspective I feel is underserved in mental health writing, and while I found it hard emotionally to continue at times, it will stay with me for a long time. – Nikki Goerz (New York Times – Readers Recommend their Favorite Books of 2017)
An honest and rewarding memoir of a couple’s compassion and love for each other (Kirkus)
Honest and heartfelt, My Lovely Wife tells the difficult story of a marriage tested by mental illness, and reminds us that true love is never easy (Kyle Boelte, author of The Beautiful Unseen)
My Lovely Wife is a compelling memoir and a heartrending tale of love, madness, and redemption. Like a long-distance trail runner, Mark Lukach embarks on a harrowing journey deep into the woods of psychosis and through the dark twists and turns of his wife’s illness and gradual recovery. But his loyalty to her never wavers, and his story is a testament to the healing power of love and endurance. (Stuart H. Coleman, author of Eddie Would Go)
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I cried, I laughed & I pondered. As a mental illness sufferer with a husband & sons, this book helped me face my fears head on. But mostly it gave me hope. I'm well now but the dark clouds always seem to circle. You've gotta ride the waves & their story really did help me see that once more. Yes

Wow!

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Beautifully narrated. Reminds you how fragile life can be but how much love can bring. A beautiful memoir of a very likeable couple.
if you are interested in learning about mental health in a family context this is essential reading. Reminds us of how impacted upon loved ones are when someone cherished is mentally unwell.
Beautiful.

As life affirming as it is heartbreaking

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It would have been good to hear more from the wifes perspective. Theres a lot of resentment as well as love here, l feel sorry for the husband but more so for the wife as she cant help whats happening to her or stop it.

interesting

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A must read! Describes a husband's battles with a wife who has mental illness brilliantly. Great insight!

Brilliant

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Great narrator, very sad story, but the devotion and determination of Mark shines through, so ultimately this is a positive presentation of bi-polar.

The many sides of mental illness are described in forceful detail which is almost unbearable at times but so accurate and compassionately perceived. I read it because I have experienced hospitalisation for major depression and anxiety, and could so well relate to about half of Giulia's journey. Psychosis is another realm however, and my heart went out to her.

Gripping and devastating

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