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No One Wants to See Your D*ck

A Handbook for Survival in the Digital World

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By: Jess Davies
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 'One of the most important books you'll read this year ' THE NEW FEMINIST

'A bold, unapologetic exploration of modern relationships, self-image, and the complexities of navigating social media and intimacy in today's world' MARIE CLAIRE

Are women asking for it because of their outfits, routes home, profile pictures or social media posts? Or can we finally admit that there might be something wrong with masculinity in the digital world?


The rising popularity of misogynistic content and toxic masculinity influencers combined with a lack of regulation within social media has created a perfect storm. Our increasingly online world has opened women and young girls up to a whole new level of violence that follows them into their homes, schools and workplaces.


In No One Wants to See Your D*ck, women's rights campaigner Jess Davies reveals the shocking realities of this epidemic and what we can do to stop it. Covering everything from cyberflashing and deepfakes to the manosphere and catfishing, Jess offers practical advice and accessible language to help you understand what is happening online, what to do if you become a victim of it and why drastic change is needed now. Urgent and eye-opening, this is a vital toolkit for understanding and putting an end to violence against women.©2025 Jess Davies Gender Studies History & Culture Media Studies Racism & Discrimination Social Sciences Technology & Society

Critic reviews

A bold, unapologetic exploration of modern relationships, self-image, and the complexities of navigating social media and intimacy in today's world.
Jess Davies, the woman you are [...] No One Wants to See Your D*ck, is a testament to her fearless advocacy for all survivors of male violence
No One Wants to See Your D*ck is one of the most important books you'll read this year . . . This is an essential read, not just for feminists but for anyone who cares about the safety and dignity of women and girls. Davies writes with such clarity and purpose, offering space not only for anger but also for understanding. (Ellie Macieira-Fielding)
fierce but empathetic . . . This is an urgent update on toxic, misogynistic behaviour online, and Davies' personal perspective is a necessary one
Necessary and unflinchingly honest. A rallying cry for women's safety online (David Challen)
A needed and powerful voice in the fight against digital misogyny and violence against women and girls. No One Wants to See Your D*ck is an accessible manifesto to fight back against the digital harms facing women and girls across the globe. (Adele Walton, Online Safety Campaigner and Author of Loggin’ Off)
Deeply moving, this book lays bare the reality of online abuse as well as showing us the path towards greater freedom and justice. This book should be compulsory reading in schools, in parliament and every bedroom, helping us to understand the harms of online abuse and what we can do to prevent it. (Professor Clare McGlynn, leading expert on violence against women and girls)
The bible for everyone who is sick of online misogyny (LalalaletMeExplain, Dating and Relationships Educator & Best-selling Author of Block, Delete, Move On)
This book has become my bible. Jess deftly tunes us into the depth of misogyny operating in plain sight across every aspect of our lives, honing our focus on the horrifying connection between digital violence and the real-world hatred women suffer (Jen Cox, author of Women Are Angry)
An important read. Jess not only exposes the scale of online misogyny within the manosphere, but also offers some tangible solutions. The result is an empowering and actionable guide to the digital world. (Patsy Stevenson, award-winning gender equality campaigner)
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An important book which everyone should read/listen to - narrated by Jess herself who expertly balances shocking real life experiences with research and eye-opening - often terrifying insights into a world which exists mostly unseen.. until you, or a loved one are unfortunate enough to be come a victim.

So good I bought it twice

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I have just finished the audio book version and left with so many emotions. Shock, anger, embarrassment, disappointment but ultimately hope.

The author has done an incredible job of lifting the lid on so many elements of online abuse and misogyny, which frankly I was blissfully unaware of. The personal impact of such abuse on the author (Jess Davies) is laid bare in shocking detail.

I think this is such an important book for parents (and even us grand-parents) to understand the online influence on society today and how we can educate those around us.

A "Must listen" to truly appreciate the dangers for women online

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I don't recall how I found out about the upcoming release of this book but after a recent 'difficult' online experience and noticing the unprecedented rise in misogyny I immediately preordered this audio book and have read it completely in about 2 days. I can't say it was an 'enjoyable' read, given the subject matter but it was absolutely fantastic. I believe everybody regardless what gender you are, needs to read this to better understand and educate yourself on the risks that are out there for you and your loved ones (again regardless what gender you or they maybe) and how to combat misogyny and how to prevent young men from being swept up in the red pill pipeline. At times the book was terrifying, at times uplifting but despite all of that I do actually feel hopeful. I feel Jess Davies did a superb job writing and narrating the book. You could sense the emotions being felt by Jess Davies, the shock, disbelief, fear, compassion, hope and empathy all whilst still narrating in a measured tone. Huge kudos to Jess Davies for accomplishing that, I bet that was incredibly difficult. Just listening to the audiobook caused me to blurt out expletives, shock, disgust etc LOUDLY. I am now going to recommend everyone I know to read this book. Truly hats off to you Jess Davies, you are a complete legend!

Wow just Wow

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Great book, well written, and sobering stuff. Men need to get up and do something!

Great book!

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Jess' work is very important for anyone who wants to understand the extent of online misogyny, invasions of digital privacy and intimate image abuse. This was a well researched, engaging book that both links the issues to Jess' own personal experiences and the wider implications for society. Well worth the listen! I hope Jess produces more feminist deep-dive books in future.

Important book for the current online era

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