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Stepmonster

A New Look at Why Real Stepmothers Think, Feel, and Act the Way We Do

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Stepmonster

By: Wednesday Martin
Narrated by: Cris Dukehart
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Summary

What makes stepmothering so hard? And why are we, as people and a culture, so hard on stepmothers? How can we make it easier?

Stepmonster is a truly unique and groundbreaking book for women with stepchildren, men with kids who repartner, adult stepchildren, and anyone who cares about them. It is a comprehensive, cross-cultural, research-based reconsideration of stepfamily dynamics - from the perspective of the stepmother. How does she think, act, and feel, and why? Part no-holds-barred memoir of stepmothering in the trenches, part analysis of why stepmothering is tough and steps women with stepkids can take to thrive, Stepmonster has been hailed as "the thinking woman's guide to stepmothering" and "life altering", igniting conversations, controversy, and changes in how we perceive and experience stepmothering.

©2009 Wednesday Martin (P)2015 Tantor
Parenting & Families Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Step Parenting
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"[Martin's] well-researched work delves into the animal world, fairy tales, psychology, and sociobiology...." ( Library Journal)
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So refreshing to have the SM's needs and feelings considered. So worth a listen.

Finally putting the stepmother's feelings first!

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This is a must for all involved in blended families. Honest, realistic, hopeful and very thorough.

Realistic and extremely helpful

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It is what every stepmom should listen to, to understand herself and the situation better.

Very helpful

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Thoroughly researched and often painfully candid. Being a stepmother is hard, but this book can help you find a way through it. Wish I’d found it sooner!

So helpful

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Really interesting and well researched look at the plight of stepmothers. Great prep for my impending marriage to a man with three kids!

Essential reading for Stepmums and adult stepkids

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