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The Big O

The ultimate sex and relationship guide from Twitter guru and LaidBare podcast host Oloni

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The Big O

By: Oloni
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With exclusive bonus audio material! Oloni discusses dilemmas from real women and imparts her indispensable advice.

‘The reigning sex and relationship guru of Twitter’ VOGUE

Are you ready to have the best sex of your life?

Oloni – Twitter’s famous sex and relationships educator – is on a mission to empower women to explore, express and embrace their sensual, sexy selves.

The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the – sex – life we’ve always dreamt of.

With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you – and educate you – on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sex toys, to kinks, virginity, sexual identities, and sex positions you won’t know how you ever lived without.

Everyone and every body needs Oloni in their life, even if they don’t know it yet…

So ladies, shall we have some fun…?

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‘The internet’s favourite agony aunt’ Stylist
‘The voice of female sexual empowerment’ New Statesman
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This book is so informative, I definitely feel more confident sexually and have only just started trying new things including sex toys!

Really great book EVERYONE should read

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this was such a good read. Very descriptive and a one of a kind.

Very informative

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Beautiful brave and informative. Great read with so many gems. keep doing what you’re doing babes xx

Amazing and refreshing

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So refreshing and empowering. Thank you Oloni for a great read. I have smiled and laughed and smiled some more 🫶🏾

Simply amazing

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This book was so good, it’s so empowering and informative. I just recently had sex for the first time and I’m so ready and confident to start my sexual journey. Would recommend to a friend… in fact I already have!

I keep going back

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