You want dating to feel like something you're in charge of, that is going your way, not something that's happening to you. That shift-- from anxious hustle to magnetic momentum-- is what this episode is about.

This week on The Feminist Dating Show, Lily breaks down the three levels of dating energy and exactly how to move from bothered and stressed to unbothered in your love life.

Inside episode 272:

• The three levels of dating energy-- student, bothered CEO, unbothered CEO-- and the specific behaviors that tell you where you actually are right now
• Why the bothered CEO over-personalizes rejection and outsources decisions (and how to stop)
• The SOP system that removes anxious decision-making from your dating life entirely
• How to use jealousy and comparison as a compass pointing toward what you want instead of proof that you're behind
• The ACK method: a three-step framework for getting back to unbothered when rejection happens

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