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#348 The Reality of Buying a Business — What No One Tells You

#348 The Reality of Buying a Business — What No One Tells You

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What's it really like to buy a business? Not the Instagram version. Not the "Lamborghinis and Dubai" version. The real version. In this episode, Jonathan brings together a panel of experienced dealmakers at Riverside Studios, all of whom have completed multiple acquisitions across sectors including property, construction, accountancy, engineering, and more. What follows is one of the most honest conversations you'll hear about business buying. Behind the Scenes: Real Deals, Real Numbers This isn't theory. These are people who have actually done it: 11 deals in 5 years£17M group revenue£26M in acquisitions underwayMultiple buy-and-build strategies across sectors And yet, despite the success… every single one of them has faced setbacks, stress, and deals falling apart. The Truth: Deals Fall Apart (Often at the Last Minute) One of the clearest messages from this episode: Expect things to go wrong. You'll hear examples like: Deals collapsing on the day of signingSellers changing their mind at the last minuteLawyers slowing everything downWeeks (or months) of work disappearing overnight One dealmaker shares how they: Rebranded a businessBuilt a websiteSpent £15,000 preparing …only for the seller to walk away at the final moment This is normal. The Emotional Reality Buying a business isn't just strategic, it's emotional. High highs when deals progressLow lows when they fall apartConstant uncertainty As one dealmaker puts it: It's a rollercoaster. Expect to strike out more than you succeed. If you're not prepared for that, it will catch you out. Seller Problems You Don't Expect Even after completion, challenges don't stop. Real examples from the episode include: Sellers sabotaging the business after sellingNegative reviews being posted by the former ownerDirectors staying on and disrupting operationsInternal conflict damaging performance These are rarely talked about, but they happen. How to Protect Yourself The panel shares practical ways to reduce risk: Avoid keeping sellers as directors unless absolutely necessaryUse deferred consideration tied to performanceStructure agreements so sellers are incentivised to help, not hinderUse clear consultancy agreements instead of vague ongoing rolesDefine responsibilities and expectations upfront The key idea: Alignment matters more than goodwill. Deal Flow: The Numbers Game No One Warns You About Another reality check: Finding the right deal takes volume. Thousands of lettersHundreds of conversationsSingle-digit response rates Even then: Most responses won't lead to dealsMany opportunities won't stack upPersistence is essential But there's nuance: Some deals happen quicklyOthers take yearsLuck plays a role The only constant is this: You need to keep going. Persistence vs Stubbornness This episode draws an important distinction: Persistence = keep moving forwardStubbornness = repeating what doesn't work Successful dealmakers: Learn from failed dealsAdjust their approachDelegate and outsourceFocus on higher-value activity They don't just "try harder" They get smarter Why Most Business Owners Stay Stuck A powerful theme emerges: Most business owners: Grow slowlyStay in their comfort zoneChase small improvements While dealmakers: Think biggerUse acquisition to scale fasterDouble or triple revenue through deals The difference isn't intelligence. It's mindset. The Hidden Barrier: Your Own Thinking One of the most striking insights: Your growth is limited by what you believe is possible. Many people unconsciously cap their successThey return to familiar "safe" levelsThey self-sabotage without realising To grow, you have to: Redefine what "normal" looks likePush beyond your current identityThink at a different level Key Takeaways If you're considering buying a business, take this seriously: 1. It's not glamorous Ignore what you see online. This is hard work. 2. Deals will fall apart Build resilience. Expect setbacks. 3. Sellers can become problems Structure deals to protect yourself. 4. Volume matters More conversations = more opportunities. 5. Learn and adapt Don't repeat the same mistakes. 6. Think bigger Acquisition is a faster path than organic growth. 7. Your mindset sets the ceiling If you don't change how you think, nothing else changes. If you're serious about buying a business – and avoiding the mistakes Jonathan outlines – book a free Clarity Call with one of his team: 👉 dealmakers.co.uk/clarity You'll get 15 minutes of expert insight to help you decide which next step is right for you – whether that's attending a Deal Club evening, joining the 3-day Foundation Programme, or stepping straight into the Mastermind. Subscribe & Review If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. It helps more future dealmakers discover the show – and succeed in their first business acquisition.
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