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93. Why You’re Not Taking Action (Even When You Know What to Do)

93. Why You’re Not Taking Action (Even When You Know What to Do)

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Summary

If you’re in a spot where you know exactly what step you want to take next, but you just can’t get yourself to do it, this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, I’m diving into what really gets in the way after you’ve already done the hard work of figuring out your next steps. Because let’s be honest, clarity isn’t always the problem. Taking action is.

I walk through three of the most common (and sneaky) barriers that keep us stuck: overwhelm, fear of failure, and fear of success. These are the things that show up right when you’re on the edge of moving forward and they can feel incredibly convincing if you don’t know how to spot them.

We talk about what it looks like to feel overwhelmed by the size of your goals, especially when there’s grief or regret about not starting sooner. I also share why fear of failure isn’t just about “failing,” but about being seen trying, caring deeply, and stepping outside of your comfort zone.

And then there’s fear of success, which doesn’t get talked about enough. The pressure, responsibility, and expectations that come with growth can feel just as scary as failing. So if you’ve ever found yourself holding back right before things start working, this might be why.

This episode is your reminder that you don’t need perfect conditions to begin. You don’t need to feel fully ready. And you definitely don’t need to be good at something before you start.

You just need to take the next step.

🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Knowing what to do isn’t the same as doing it and that gap is where most people get stuck

  • Overwhelm often comes from focusing on the entire journey instead of the next step

  • It’s normal to feel grief or regret about not starting sooner, but staying stuck won’t change that

  • Fear of failure is often really about being seen trying, caring, and possibly getting it wrong

  • You are allowed to be bad at something while you learn

  • Growth is usually slower and messier than we expect and that’s normal

  • Fear of success can show up as pressure, responsibility, or worry about maintaining results

  • You don’t have to commit forever, you can pivot, change, or quit if something no longer fits

  • At some point, you have to decide you are “prepared enough” and learn by doing

🎯 What I Want You to Do Next

Pick one thing.

Not ten. Not the whole plan. Just one step you can take today, even if it feels small or imperfect. Then go take it!

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