We have some good news and some bad news.

The bad news: we were recently threatened with court orders and legal proceedings regarding our last episode, and we have been forced to remove it from all platforms.

The good news: we have just hit 400 YouTube subscribers organically and crossed over 250,000 views across our platforms! Thank you to everyone who has supported the journey so far. We could not have reached this milestone without your comments, likes, and shares.

In this quick update, Heath flies solo (with Buddy) to explain what happened , why we took the "Hurt People Hurt" episode down , and what you can expect for the rest of Season 1 and the upcoming Season 2.

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After 10 rounds of IVF and 10 heartbreaking miscarriages, Luke and his partner were told they had a 1% chance of ever becoming parents.

In the conclusion of their gruelling path to parenthood, Luke opens up about the silent trauma of recurrent pregnancy loss from the male perspective. He details the emotional pivot to using a known egg donor, navigating the strict legal hurdles of South Australian IVF law, and the incredible moment a close friend stepped in to change their lives forever.

But the struggle didn’t end with a positive test. Luke recounts a traumatic mid-pregnancy medical emergency that threatened everything, and the long, terrifying road through the NICU with their premature twins... yes, twins!

Finally, Luke breaks down his "Service the Engine" philosophy. He explains why men need to prioritize their mental health earlier in the fertility journey, and why seeking professional counseling isn't a weakness—it’s mandatory maintenance to keep your relationship united when life is at its most fragile.

If you missed Part 1, go back and listen to the start of the journey!

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Facing a 1% Chance: Donor Paths, US Market, and Male Identity in Fertility

5:44 - Strict SA Donor Laws and a Close Friend's Offer of Help

9:39 - The First Donor Attempt Fails, But They Kept Pushing Forward

15:55 - A Second Donor Brings Hope and Successful Embryo Freezing

19:09 - Keeping the IVF Journey Private and the Male Taboo Around Fertility

22:10 - Traumatic Mid-Pregnancy Haemorrhage and the NICU Journey with Twins

26:57 - Reflecting on the Journey's Worth and Prioritising Mental Health

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For 18 months, Luke and his partner smiled through the pain of watching friends build families while secretly fighting a grueling, $100,000 battle just to have a chance.

In Part 1 of this incredibly raw conversation, Luke opens up about the crushing reality of 10 failed IVF cycles. From the intense physical toll of daily scans and day surgeries to the silent grief that almost broke them, we break down what the fertility industry looks like from the inside. When the medical options ran out, they were handed a devastating ultimatum: walk away, or accept an egg donor.

If you or someone you know is navigating the isolating world of infertility, you are not alone. Reach out to us on our socials and let us know your story. Part 2 also out now!

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Unpacking the Male Experience of IVF

02:20 - From Natural Attempts to Assisted Fertility

05:24 - Navigating Emotional Burdens in IVF

08:22 - The Highs and Lows of Each IVF Round

14:41 - The $100k Cost and Silent Grief

22:24 - Facing the Reality of Needing an Egg Donor

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Are you staring at the ceiling in the middle of the night wondering if it's all worth it? In this episode, Heath and Luke unpack the heavy reality that keeps business owners and single dads awake at night.

We put it all on the table—from the crushing stress of managing staff and navigating financial pressures, to the quiet, heavy doubts of single parenting and wondering if you're making the right life choices. We also debate the reality of "manifesting" versus actual hard work, and share actionable strategies to stop overthinking and get out of your own head before it ruins your week.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - What Keeps You Awake at 3 AM?

02:14 - Navigating Business Stress and Financial Pressures

05:34 - The Unique Doubts of Single Fatherhood

10:14 - Reconciling Life Choices and Learning from Mistakes

15:40 - The Clash: Manifesting Dreams or Hard Work?

22:34 - Practical Strategies to Overcome 3 AM Spirals

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What does it actually take to build a successful concreting business from the ground up? In this episode, we sit down with Steve Reeves from SR Construct to unpack the raw reality of scaling a blue-collar business.

It’s not just about moving dirt and pouring concrete. Steve gets real about the brutal early morning starts, the massive lifestyle changes required to succeed, and the daily grind of balancing a trade business with showing up for your family. We also dive deep into mindset, uncovering your core values, and putting your mission and purpose into actual practice on the job site.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - From Surf Instructor to Concreter: John's Influence

05:56 - Social Media, Scaling, and Business Growth Challenges

16:10 - Leading with Purpose: Understanding Staff Values

24:44 - The Highs and Lows of Commercial Concreting

33:33 - Property, Lifestyle, and Future Financial Decisions

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What is the true cost of building a successful trade business from scratch? Is it possible to balance a 50-hour work week with family life, especially when you are in business with family?

In this very special episode of A Brother's Mind, Heath and Luke welcome their first-ever guest: Chris Reed from Reed Brothers Electrical in Adelaide.

This is a raw, unfiltered look into the reality of scaling a trades-based business in the current economic climate. Chris opens up about the unique dynamics of running a massive operation alongside his brother, the discipline required to put in the hard yards, and the brutal reality facing many tradies today: dealing with major builders going bust owing money.

Topics covered:

• The origin story of Reed Brothers Electrical.

• The pros and cons of a sibling business partnership.

• The truth about work/life balance when working 40-50+ hours a week.

• Navigating the crisis of builders going under and financial resilience.

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When you are fighting for your child's life, the value of time changes forever. Heath opens up about the harrowing reality of his 18-month-old daughter Poppy’s three-year chemotherapy marathon.

We discuss what it actually takes to survive life in the hospital ward, the brutal reality of "scanxiety," and the immense collateral damage it causes—including navigating a marriage breakdown and having to completely restructure a business just to stay afloat. How do you keep moving forward when your world is falling apart?

If you've had to navigate a family crisis while keeping a business alive, let us know how you managed it over on our socials.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - The Gut-Wrenching Diagnosis and Immediate Hospital Return

5:07 - Navigating the Three-Year Chemotherapy Marathon and Emotional Toll

14:19 - Life in the Hospital Ward and Poppy's Toughest Moments

20:29 - The Immense Sacrifices: Family, Business, and Marriage Breakdown

26:56 - Living with Scanxiety and Redefining the Value of Time

31:41 - The Anti-Climactic 'All Clear' and Enduring Life Lessons

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It's Heath's turn in the hot-seat as he explains how he built his business Bathrooms By Design, riding the wave of success and how in an instant his family's life was changed when they received the news no parent ever wants to hear.

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