After pushing myself to approach 20 women in one day, I set a new goal: 10 approaches spread out over a week to make it feel more natural.

In this episode, I break down what actually happened—where I succeeded, where I hesitated, and what I’m starting to learn about confidence, environment, and mindset. From yoga class to the gym to the dog park, I’m testing what it looks like to build real social momentum instead of forcing it all in one day.

This is what real progress looks like—imperfect, uncomfortable, but moving forward.

I set a goal to approach 20 women in one day—and actually followed through.

In this episode, I break down what happened from start to finish: the easy wins at the dog park, the awkward moments at the mall, and why the bookstore ended up being the best place to meet people. I talk about what worked, what didn’t, and the biggest mistake I made—cutting off a great interaction too early.

This wasn’t about getting numbers or being smooth. It was about getting reps, building comfort, and proving to myself that I can take action instead of overthinking.

If you’re trying to get better with women, this is what it actually looks like in real time—wins, losses, and everything in between.

In this episode, Zane breaks down a simple strategy that’s helping him finally get over his fear of approaching women: “approach and eject.”

Instead of trying to impress, get numbers, or avoid rejection, the goal is just to start conversations and leave—removing the pressure entirely.

Zane explains how this mindset shift is helping him build confidence, take action, and improve through repetition, along with real examples from the gym and everyday life.

This is about going back to basics, getting reps in, and learning how to be comfortable taking the first step.