Why do so many women still change their last names when they get married — and what does it really cost? In this Women’s History Month episode, Robin and Deborah trace the surprising origins of the tradition (from medieval coverture laws that erased a woman’s legal identity) all the way to today’s debates around passports, voting rights, and the proposed SAVE Act.

We explore the emotional, professional, and bureaucratic hurdles women face when changing (or keeping) their names, share powerful historic stories of rebellion (like Lucy Stone), and discuss how modern politics could create new barriers for millions of married women.

Whether you kept your name, changed it, or are somewhere in between — this episode is a thoughtful, eye-opening look at identity, tradition, and power.

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

We’re back with another Am I the Asshole roundup — and this batch is wild. Robin and Deborah dive into four juicy Reddit stories: a husband who suddenly wants to stay married after losing his job, a friend who got left with the Uber bill after a surprise, someone peeing standing up in a traffic jam, and a wedding where guests were begging for a cash bar.

We debate the marriage drama, questionable decisions, loyalty fails, and tiny moments that reveal big character — with our usual mix of laughs, real talk, and the question we always ask: was that classy… or straight-up crass?

Whether you’re here for the petty drama or the serious boundary talk, this one’s full of chaos you’ll want to discuss with your group chat.

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

What if someone in 2126 digs up a time capsule we buried in 2026? Robin and Deborah are building the ultimate one today... the artist we can’t stop playing, the movie we quote nonstop, the gadget glued to our hands, the snack we’d fight over, the wellness trend we’re all faking, and the fashion we swear is “timeless”.

We’re laughing about what defines 2026 right now, getting sentimental about what we hope survives, and wondering what future humans will think of us.

It’s nostalgic, silly, a little deep, and 100% us.

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

Celebrate Women's History Month with Robin and Deborah on The Art of Classiness Podcast! Discover trailblazing women who shattered "ladylike" expectations.

Meet Susanna Salter, America's first woman mayor (1887, Argonia, Kansas). Nominated as a prank by men mocking the temperance movement, she won by a landslide and led competently, proving women could govern without drama, 33 years before suffrage.

Then, sail with Jeanne de Clisson, the fierce Lioness of Brittany. A noblewoman turned pirate after her husband's brutal execution by the French king. She built a "Black Fleet," terrorized the English Channel, and avenged him with ruthless raids, leaving survivors to spread tales of her wrath.

From prank-turned-power to vengeful privateer, these stories highlight rebellion, resilience, and redefining classiness. Laughs, inspiration, and friendship vibes included!

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

What really makes a relationship last — and what causes it to crumble? In this deep but relatable dive, Robin and Deborah break down the six key pillars of a strong partnership using real examples from Love Is Blind Season 10 couples (and a few throwbacks).

We explore:

• Effective communication
• Resilience through conflict
• Lifestyle compatibility & adaptability
• Shared life goals & values
• Mutual commitment & ongoing growth
• Emotional support from family & friends

  
  

Whether you’re in a relationship, dating, or just curious what makes love work long-term, this episode is your blueprint — grounded in real couples and real talk.

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

After all the chaos in our own lives this week, we’re turning our attention to the chaos of strangers and family drama with some juicy Am I the A**hole? stories. We’ve got four wild tales lined up... from a husband’s sick mom and a neighbor who can’t read property lines, to wedding grudges that won’t die and a husband who really should’ve chosen his words more carefully.

We debate the red flags, the emotional labor, the grudges that won’t die, and who handled it with class… and who’s straight-up the Asshole. So grab your judgment hat and maybe a glass of wine, because it’s time to decide who handled it like an adult and who went completely off the rails!

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

Love Is Blind Season 10 brings an older cast, and women who know exactly what they want. No more confusion, no settling, just clear boundaries and high standards. Robin and Deborah break down why this season feels different: the women standing on business, supporting each other in the pods, and refusing to ignore red flags. We discuss the real-life benefits of waiting until your 30s to marry, more self-awareness, financial stability, emotional maturity, and stronger support systems, and whether 9 days in the pods is ever enough time to choose a partner.

From the couples to the questions they should’ve asked (and the ones we wish they did), this episode is your honest, relatable guide to love, clarity, and why “knowing your worth” is the ultimate 2026 dating flex.

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Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to mean romance or loneliness. In this episode, Robin and Deborah reframe the holiday with two empowering, partner-free paths:

Galentine’s Day (Feb 13) your friendship date: group love with the girls, nourishing hangs, relaxing rituals, and celebrating the women who refill your tank.

Valentine’s Day (Feb 14) your self-love date: solo outings, cozy nights in, self-care, and contentment with your own company.

We explore why strong female friendships and self-love make us pickier in relationships, give us emotional safety, and let us choose love on our own terms with laughs, real talk, and simple ways to make February feel good.

Whether you’re planning a Galentine’s hang, a solo self-date, or just soaking in anti-Valentine energy, this episode is your reminder that love starts with you and your people.

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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!