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Being The Head

Being The Head

By: Creators Jacqui Le Maitre and Jane McNally
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A podcast that lifts the lid on school leadership, its pressures, its pitfalls, and the price we pay for keeping it all together. Comments so far.... "listening to this podcast has been a real game changer for me. It captures the real high and lows of being a head." "Ive just listened to your amazing podcast. It resonated so much and I felt like I was with you in the conversation." "Keep up the good work." "Thank you for investing your time in your leadership podcast. It has really resonated with me." "Its a great listen." "Your podcast is incredibly important. "Creators Jacqui Le Maitre and Jane McNally
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  • Episode 48 Ofsted what we are learning so far with Trevor Davies.
    Jun 22 2026

    Episode Summary

    In this episode, we strip back the bureaucratic veneer of the new inspection framework. Moving past the official guidance, we look at the human reality of the transition from a single-word "verdict" to a nuanced "conversation".


    The early data from the first batch of published report cards is stark: only 2% of schools achieve the "exceptional" marker, while 55% sit firmly at the "expected standard". Yet, for schools in high-deprivation areas, the system remains structurally tilted—they are three times more likely to be flagged for "needs attention," triggering rapid monitoring visits before leaders can even breathe.


    We dive deep into the reality of the "spiky profile," the performance anxiety of the new 90-minute video call, the shift from whole-school deep dives to intensive vulnerable child case sampling, and the intense pressure placed on the "staff nominee". This isn’t a survival guide; it’s a dedicated thinking space to help you protect your professional judgment under a framework that has merely changed clothes.


    We don't do 5-step checklists for happiness. Instead, consider these structural realities:

    • The "Expected" Disappointment: If the system tells you that "expected" is a high bar, but your community, your governors, and your own professional pride feel deflated by it, how do you insulate your staff from that sense of underwhelmed achievement?


    • The 90-Minute Micro-Scrutiny: The Monday morning call is now an on-camera observation of your posture, your fatigue, and your immediate body language. How do you step onto that stage without transmitting system anxiety down to your middle leaders?


    • The Illusion of Shared Load: When utilizing the new "staff nominee" role, are you genuinely sharing the leadership load, or are you simply exporting system trauma onto an already overloaded colleague?


    • The Silent Observer: If a new teacher watched how your leadership team handles urgency, data spikiness, and governor anxiety this week, what would they conclude about how safe it is to struggle or be honest in your school?


    • The Realities of the "Spiky Profile": The final framework replaced clear, specific statements with ambiguous phrasing like “generally” or “on the whole”. This ambiguity reintroduces individual inspector subjectivity, where a single trigger in one area creates a domino effect across your entire report card.


    • Deep Dives vs. Case Sampling: Inspectors no longer want to look at beautiful curriculum folders. Instead, they forensically track six vulnerable children directly into every single lesson to test your inclusion infrastructure.


    • Managing Up (The Governor Gap): Governors are frequently laypeople who are interviewed alone and fear the "spiky profile". Cliched responses won't hold up; leaders must explicitly coach a core team, grounding them in the school's true context.


    • Trevor’s Red Pen on School Development Plans: A school evaluation form should be no more than 3 to 4 pages; a learning improvement plan should be capped at 5 to 6 pages, focusing intensely on a maximum of three key priorities. Speak in the clear, authentic language you use in your corridors every day, and watch out for AI-generated compliance text that detaches strategy from human reality.


    Being the Head provides leadership support and assurance designed to protect professional judgment and establish wellbeing as infrastructure, not an add-on. You cannot work yourself to exhaustion to fix a broken system.


    • Contact- beingthehead@gmail.com


    • Join the Community: Access our reflective supervision spaces and download our one-page tactical framework mapping tools. Through Kit.com page:

      https://being-the-head.kit.com/c9db721fe7


    "The human cost of leading schools. We see you, we hear you."

    If this episode provided some much-needed breathing room, please subscribe, leave a review, or share it with a colleague who needs to hear that they are doing enough.



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    56 mins
  • Episode 47 Beyond the Register De-escalating System Anxiety and Building Real Belonging with Katie Langley
    Jun 15 2026

    Beyond the Register: De-escalating System Anxiety and Building Real Belonging


    Special Guest: Katie Langley (National Attendance and Belonging Lead, Academy Transformation Trust)

    The Department for Education watches school registers in real time via mandatory automated data sharing. Persistent absence is sitting near 18% nationally, severe absenteeism has soared by 171% since the pandemic, and disadvantaged students are three times more likely to be persistently absent.

    When the system responds to a complex mental health crisis with automated monitoring, the pressure lands directly on the headteacher’s shoulders. In this episode, we step away from the panic of the percentages. Joined by system leader Katie Langley, we explore how to move from treating attendance as a compliance metric to understanding it as a child's story. We unpack practical, structural shifts—from learning outside the classroom to the intentional integration of service dogs—that disrupt the compliance trap and build environments where children genuinely feel safe, known, and valued.

    We don't provide 5-step checklists for happiness. Instead, consider these structural realities:

    • The Compliance Instinct: When data tracking tightens from above, your natural instinct as a leader may be to tighten control and demand compliance. How do you build the psychological safety within your trust or school to resist that panic and pivot back to relational connection?

    • The Welcome Threshold: Think about the literal and verbal language used at your school gate tomorrow morning. Are your most vulnerable children being greeted with compliance corrections (like uniform checks), or are they receiving a relational intervention that regulates their nervous system before they cross the threshold?

    • The Environmental Wall: For a highly anxious child, a traditional four-walled classroom can be an overwhelming space before any learning even begins. How are you structurally utilizing your outdoor environment—not as an early-years novelty or a pastoral add-on, but as a core vehicle for academic engagement and regulation?

    • Attendance as Communication: Just as we look at behavior as communication, we must look at attendance as communication of an underlying unmet need. Using structured mechanisms like "Attendance Connection Plans" shifts the focus from percentage tracking to barrier removal.

    • Sticky Learning Outside the Classroom: Moving the curriculum outdoors isn't just "forest school" play. Taking abstract tasks (from Year 6 Greek myths to Year 10 contextual mathematics) into nature removes spatial pressure, unlocks critical thinking, and creates experiential, "sticky" memory that directly impacts writing and engagement.

    • The Co-Regulation Infrastructure: Utilizing a highly trained service dog like Hero at the school gate isn't a gimmick; it is a deliberate, non-judgmental intervention designed to lower anxiety and co-regulate a child in meltdown.

    • The Cost of Hiding: Leadership culture takes time to build. Trying to fit the mold of a "tough," invulnerable leader costs far more than the risk of leading authentically with compassion, clarity, and empathy.

    Being the Head provides leadership support and assurance designed to protect professional judgment and establish wellbeing as infrastructure, not an add-on. Stamina is not a strategy; managing your energy is.

    • Resources: https://being-the-head.kit.com/c9db721fe7

    • Support Katie’s London Marathon Run for the NSPCC:

      https://lnkd.in/efNFWW3u

    • Connect with Katie Langley: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katie-langley-6782a079/

    "The human cost of leading schools. We see you, we hear you."


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    41 mins
  • Episode 46: Reclaiming the Professional Soul Moving from Framework to Frontline with Adam Kohlbeck
    Jun 8 2026

    The Consistency Trap: Quality Assurance or Professional Theft?

    When did "consistency" become the ultimate goal of school leadership? In our drive to stabilise the floor and protect our schools from high-stakes vulnerability, have we accidentally built a concrete ceiling that suffocates teacher autonomy and professional joy?

    In this episode, we sit down with Adam Kohlbeck to dissect the true human cost of compliance-driven leadership. We don’t talk about "managing workload" with individual fixes; we challenge the systemic pressure that weaponises consistency into compliance.

    What we unpack in this episode:

    • The Autonomy Paradox: Why forcing a unified pedagogical identity across your school might actually be a form of professional theft.
    • The Structural Shield: How leaders can move from policing compliance to absorbing system pressure, creating true psychological safety for their staff.
    • The Bravery Checklist: Moving away from performative "non-negotiables" to evaluate if an initiative is context-right, sustainable, and worth your leadership capital.

    If you are a leader currently caught between the demands of the system and the preservation of your team's professional soul, this episode is your thinking space.

    Connect with Us:

    • Join the conversation on LinkedIn using the #BeingTheHead framework.
    • Get resources https://being-the-head.kit.com/c9db721fe7
    • Discover how we support school leaders through sustainable infrastructure: Explore the Being the Head Leadership Support and Assurance offer.
    • Watch clips and full episodes on You tube https://www.youtube.com/@beingthehead

    The human cost of leading schools. We see you, we hear you.



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    43 mins
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