From vibrator myths to dating app disasters, we're breaking down what sex education actually missed.

In this episode, I sit down with licensed psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Sonya Maya to bust myths, challenge performative sexuality, and talk about what real pleasure actually looks like. Sonya breaks down why chemistry does not equate to compatibility, how vibrators actually build nerve endings (not numb them out), and why that whole "if he wanted to, he would" narrative is more nuanced than what other “experts” are trying to put it.

This conversation gets into the science of hormones during sex, the difference between swingers spaces and ethical non-monogamy communities, and why social media is both helping and hurting our sex lives.

We talk about

• why sex is so much more than penis-in-vagina penetration

• why simultaneous orgasms are rare and shouldn't be the goal

• the myth that vaginas get loose from sex (they don't)

• body count, slut-shaming, and why that question reveals more about the asker

• how porn warps our expectations of real sex

• why removing expectations is actually the sexiest thing you can do

If you've been scrolling TikTok for sex advice, watching porn as your primary sex education, or trying to figure out why your dating life feels hollow, this episode will shift your perspective on what good sex actually requires.

Connect with Dr. Sonya Maya

Website: https://www.sonyamaya.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sonyamaya/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonya_maya?lang=en

YouTube: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonya_maya?lang=en

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