On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince speaks with Andy Parrillo of Parrillo Investors about the importance of investors understanding the fees that financial advisors charge to manage their money, and the true all-in cost of investing in mutual funds and ETFs. Andy shares a bit on the history of these fees, and advocates for investors to have their advisors provide performance reports showing their returns after fees, against the performance of the appropriate benchmark. Andy also discusses how investment portfolios can have too little risk as well as too much, investing behavioral pitfalls, market timing, fear-driven decisions, and staying the course through downturns. For more resources, including Andy·s book Beat the Wealth Management Hustle, visit parrilloinvestors.com

Key Topics:

01:10 Why Fees Matter

02:57 Legacy Fee Model

04:58 Index vs Advisor Value

05:44 Fee Calculator Demo

10:35 Compounding Fee Drag

13:16 Basics of Staying Invested

15:03 Measuring Risk Tolerance

17:44 Behavioral Finance and Fear

19:22 Bear Markets and Staying Course

23:11 Advisor Value and Advantage

24:23 Diversification and Global Shift

27:12 DIY Strategy and Buffett

28:52 Market Timing Myth

30:02 Closing Thoughts on Knowledge

Key Links:

• https://parrilloinvestors.com/

• Beat the Wealth Management Hustle

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince talks with Financial Accountability Coach and founder of Cimifly Money Cecil Williams, about how he began investing in 2008 as more of a ·gambler,· using options, margin, and day trading, before later shifting (after getting married) to a disciplined, long-term approach that helped his accounts grow significantly. Cecil describes re-learning fundamentals through an investing course, using dollar-cost averaging and auto contributions into a mix of tax-advantaged and regular accounts. He shares lessons on temperament, volatility, and aligning risk with family responsibilities, emphasizing that ·small money invested consistently beats big money invested emotionally.· Cecil also explains his CASH framework (Clarity, Accountability, Structure, Habits). For more on Cecil and access to his free resources, including the Confident Investor Blueprint, go to cimiflymoney.com

02:02 From Gambling to Investing

04:08 Accounts and Automation

07:00 Painful Lessons Learned

09:18 Risk Tolerance at Home

12:29 CASH Framework for Clarity

15:48 Start With the 401k Match

17:33 Small Money Compounds

20:21 Financial Accountability Coach

22:53 Two Core Investing Tips

27:34 Boring Investing and Fun Money

31:30 Resources and Closing Thanks

Key Links:

• https://cimiflymoney.com/resources/

• https://www.facebook.com/cimiflymoney/

• https://www.instagram.com/cimifly_/

• https://www.linkedin.com/in/cecilvwilliams/

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince talks with David Nassief, who went from being fired and nearly broke at 63, to achieving a seven-figure net worth by 69. David explains how decades of procrastination, market timing, and inconsistent 401(k) contributions left him unprepared, then describes how he rebuilt by turning off financial ·noise,· studying extensively, and creating a one-page ·Wealth Compass· with nine trail markers and five North Star principles, to stay focused and avoid shiny-object mistakes. David discusses how he attributes his results to investing a large portion of income monthly, using low-cost index funds, and taking advantage of market volatility to buy more when markets fell. They also discuss the destructive impact of fees, skepticism of market forecasts, the challenge of getting back in the market after timing exits, and David·s key tips: get out of debt, follow the money, and prioritize self-education. Check out David·s free PDF compass and book for details at onepagewealthcompass.com.

Key Topics:

01:30 From Fired to Millionaire

02:22 Decades of Money Mistakes

03:24 No Plan No Future

06:06 Building the Wealth Compass

08:35 Two Funds and Volatility

14:33 Why Market Timing Fails

15:47 Job Loss and Commission Pivot

16:28 Nine Markers and Principles

20:49 Fees Advisors and Termites

25:43 Two Tips Debt and Skepticism

28:49 Education and Staying Disciplined

31:24 Book, Compass, and Final Encouragement

Key Links:

• https://onepagewealthcompass.com/

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince·s guest is Dr. Danica Cicmil, a PhD in finance and financial educator, who helps beginners overcome fear of investing through basic education on subjects such as compound interest, and understanding inflation risk. Dani discusses starting your investing journey by taking a ·money snapshot,· using personal goals (travel, buying a home, or building a trust fund for children) to motivate investing without extreme deprivation, and how knowing fundamentals helps consumers evaluate financial advisors. Dani also explains the basics of investing through the use of Exchange Traded Funds (ETFs), and discusses her financial coaching which focuses on beginners·especially women. Check out Dani work on YouTube and Instagram, links are in the show notes.

Key Topics:

01:06 Compound Interest and Inflation

02:37 Money Snapshot and 20% Rule

03:47 Emergency Fund Then Invest

05:21 Why Investing Matters

07:03 Too Late to Start?

10:27 Start Small and Automate

12:26 Balanced Money Mindset

14:51 50 30 20 Revisited

17:35 Job Security and Divorce

19:19 How Much to Know

24:39 ETFs Explained Simply

29:09 Bonds Costs and Inflation

30:31 Where to Follow Dani

Key Links:

https://www.danicacicmil.com

https://www.youtube.com/@dr.danicacicmil

https://www.instagram.com/dr.danicacicmil/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/danica-cicmil-b672882a6/

https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.danica.cicmil

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On this episode, Vince talks with private investigator and cybersecurity expert Robert Siciliano, about some of today·s biggest threats to individuals building wealth. They discuss how AI and deepfakes are making voice and video fraud harder to detect, fueling a surge in high-dollar consumer scams, how emotions, loneliness, and default human trust drive victimization, and the importance of situational awareness and self-knowledge of vulnerabilities. They also discuss reframing security as risk management rather than paranoia, and practical defenses such as using password managers with unique passwords, enabling two-factor authentication, credit freezes, and VPNs on public Wi-Fi. Learn more at protectnowllc.com, and check out Robert's podcast The Security Guy & CIA Spy Podcast, and his book Identity Theft Privacy: Security Protection and Fraud Prevention.

Key Topics:

01:58 AI Deepfakes Threat

03:43 Six Figure Scam Wave

04:53 Spotting the Tells

06:10 Why We Trust

09:17 Situational Awareness

10:46 Security vs Paranoia

14:56 Money Mule Job Scam

17:49 Romance Crypto Traps

19:16 Boomer Wealth Target

20:52 Data Breaches at Scale

22:02 Loneliness Exploited

22:51 Romance Scam Reality

23:17 Why Smart People Fall

24:47 Loneliness Fuels Denial

27:06 Security Like Health

29:29 Passwords Made Simple

30:59 Core Digital Defenses

33:26 Freeze Your Credit

35:04 Layered Protection Tools

36:23 VPNs and Device Updates

38:03 Resources and Wrap Up

Key Links

• https://protectnowllc.com/

• The Security Guy & CIA Spy Podcast

• Identity Theft Privacy: Security Protection and Fraud Prevention

• Robert Siciliano (@robertsiciliano) • Instagram photos and videos

• Robert Siciliano: Cyber Security Speaker & Personal Security Expert (@CyberAwarenessExpertSpeaker) • Facebook

• Robert Siciliano CSP, CSI, CITRMS - YouTube

• Robert Siciliano - #1 Best Selling Author & Cyber Security Speaker | LinkedIn

• Robert Siciliano (@robert_siciliano) | TikTok

• Robert Siciliano (@robertsiciliano) • Threads, Say more

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince·s guest is Anil Gupta (AKA ·The Love Doctor·), an author, speaker, and relationship coach, who says many relationship breakdowns·especially around money·stem from lack of authentic communication and emotional safety. Anil shares the story of his 2008 financial collapse, and how his wife·s supportive response changed everything, leading him to build a speaking and media career. They discuss how financial conflict is often miscommunication, the importance of listening and responding (not reacting), and ensuring your partner has input on financial decisions, while also making them feel loved and respected. Anil then shares info on his books, virtual coaching, and resources at meetanil.com, to help develop and polish these skills

01:05 Meet the Love Doctor

02:29 Relationship Expert Mission

04:10 Money Fights and Safety

05:54 Rock Bottom to Breakthrough

09:28 Budget Talks Without Blame

13:55 Support Over Compromise

20:11 Money Stories and Paris

25:50 Build the Communication Muscle

31:22 Books Coaching and Programs

36:35 Final Kindness Challenge

Key Links

• https://meetanil.com/

• https://www.instagram.com/anilgupta_lovedoctor

• https://www.facebook.com/AnilLoveDoc

• https://www.youtube.com/@AnilLoveDoc

• https://www.linkedin.com/in/anilgupta-lovedoctor/

• https://gitnux.org/marriage-happiness-statistics/

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince wraps up his conversation with relationship coach Brett Jones. This time around, they talk about money discussions and trust, anxiety and defensive spirals, resentment and repairing connection, and Brett's book and resources. For more on Brett book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org,

00:56 Security Scanning vs Fixing

01:50 Why Conversations Differ

03:16 Anxiety and Defensive Spirals

04:52 Presence Over Fixing

10:38 Money Decisions and Trust

16:12 Resentment and Repairing Connection

20:21 Samurai Love Resources

24:35 Final Takeaways and Links

Key Links:

• https://www.relationshipcode.org/

• Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships

• Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook

• Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos

• Brett P, Jones | Linkedin

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On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince's guest is relationship coach Brett Jones. Brett and Vince discuss relationship skills. and how communication breakdowns—especially around money—can drive conflict and even divorce. Brett shares the story of how his first marriage collapsed, which led him into 30 years of relationship coaching. We also discuss why "love is not enough," how men and women often communicate differently, and how money conversations can trigger safety and security concerns, leading men to shut down when they hear criticism. For more on Brett, his book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org

Key Topics:

01:42 Why Relationships Need Skills

02:55 Brett's Story and Divorce Stats

07:47 Money Fights and Divorce Patterns

11:36 Why Men Check Out

14:24 Safety and Money Conversations

18:19 Budget Talk Mistakes Men Make

22:44 Letting your Partner Influence Decisions

Key Links:

• https://www.relationshipcode.org/

• Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships

• Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook

• Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos

• Brett P, Jones | Linkedin

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