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Do You F*cking Mind?

Do You F*cking Mind?

By: Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach
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Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.

On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!

Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.

Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR

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Episodes
  • When is it time to stop being the family fixer? + How to know if you should fight for someone or let them go.
    May 28 2026

    In this episode, I answer three listener questions. From the impact of artificial intelligence on future generations to navigating toxic relationships and setting boundaries with family members, this episode covers it all.

    I talk about how to find hope in a world where technology is rapidly changing the way we live and work and how important it is to teach children to be adaptable and independent. When to know when it's time to let go of a toxic partner and how to set healthy boundaries with family members who may be causing emotional distress.

    Tune in to hear the full conversation and discover how to take control of your life and make the choices that are right for you.

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    29 mins
  • P*rn addiction and what it is doing to your relationship - when to stay and when to leave
    May 25 2026

    A Marriage on the Brink: Navigating Porn Addiction and Relationship Dynamics

    Episode 503

    In this episode, I delve into a deeply personal question from a listener who's struggling to cope with her husband's porn addiction. I talk about the devastating impact of this addiction on relationships, and the importance of prioritising your own own well-being.

    This ep covers the complexities of porn addiction, its effects on intimacy and trust, and the challenges of recovery. I go into the need for accountability, therapy, and a willingness to confront the underlying issues driving the addiction. AND the importance of setting boundaries and communicating needs clearly in a relationship, and the dangers of gaslighting and manipulation.

    A key takeaway from this episode is that recovery from porn addiction is a long-term process that requires effort, commitment, and support.

    If you're struggling with a partner's porn addiction or feeling trapped in a toxic relationship, this episode offers a much-needed dose of reality and hope.

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    40 mins
  • The psychology behind the slower, softer life, and why we are seeing more people return to this
    May 21 2026

    In a world where social media reigns supreme, it's easy to get caught up in the endless scroll and lose sight of what truly matters. But what if you could break free from the cycle of comparison and distraction, and find a sense of calm and clarity in a world that's increasingly chaotic?

    This episode is all about the psychology of the slow life, where we're talking about moving away from addictive content and towards longer, more intentional forms of media. In this episode I talk about the benefits of stepping away from social media, including improved focus and attention, lower anxiety and stress, and a greater sense of presence and connection with the world around us.

    I also go into the importance of being mindful of our attention and how it's being used, and how we can start to make changes to our social media habits to prioritize what's truly important to us. And of course some practical tips and advice for anyone looking to start their own journey towards a slower, more intentional life.

    If you're feeling overwhelmed by the demands of social media and want to find a more balanced way of living, this episode is a must-listen. Join me over the next 30 days to explore the benefits of a slower pace of life, and discover how you can start to make changes to your own social media habits to focus on what truly matters.

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    41 mins
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