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Are you feeling emotionally numb and you don't know why? Are you doing all the right things, and feel exhausted? This episode is for you. You're not falling apart. You're not in crisis, but just going through the motions and feeling nothing. That is a subconscious program running the show, and that's not a I need to be doing more problem. And if you're a mom, there's a good chance your kids are running a version of all of this too.

EPISODE SUMMARY: Sari opens with a real life recent story, coming home exhausted, being reactive with her oldest daughter, and the conversation the next morning that changed everything.

Her daughter was doing all the things. Good grades, chores, helping out. And she still was feeling unloved. She believed her younger sister was loved more, because she saw that her sister didn't have to earn it.

Sound familiar?

In this episode, Sari unpacks the subconscious agreement that so many high-functioning, anxious women are looking through life without realizing it: if I do more, I'll be loved more. She breaks down how this belief was formed in early childhood, why it keeps running on autopilot no matter how much you accomplish, and why 95% of your daily thoughts are recycling the same quiet story you made up about yourself when you were small.

She also speaks directly to moms: your children often mirror the subconscious program you modeled during their earliest years. Learning to see the agreement in them, and ask the right question instead of reacting to the behavior, is one of the most powerful things you can do for yourself and for them.

She closes with a guided breathing and visualization exercise to help you meet the younger version of yourself who first made that agreement — and begin to choose something different.

This is not about doing more. It is about finally seeing the lens you have been looking through.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:

• Why you feel emotionally numb even when you're doing everything right — and the subconscious program driving it
• What the agreement or belief you're looking through life actually is — and how to identify yours
• How subconscious programs get formed between birth and age eight and why they keep running without you knowing
• Why your children often mirror the agreements you modeled during your most anxious years — and how witnessing theirs can heal both of you
• The difference between conditional love (earned) and unconditional love (already yours)
• Why self awareness is the first crack of light — and why it is not enough on its own
• Why hypnosis and subconscious work reaches what conscious effort and surface-level tools cannot
• A simple breathing and visualization practice to meet the younger version of yourself who made the agreement

REFLECTION:

1. What is the agreement or belief you are looking through life right now? What lens are you seeing everything through?
2. When did that agreement start? How old was the version of you who made it?
3. If you replaced that lens with unconditional love, how would you move through your day differently?
4. For the moms: what subconscious belief might you be watching play out in your child that you recognize from your own story?

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