The human cost of leading schools. We see you, we hear you.

There is a moment in leadership that no one prepares you for. It isn’t your first inspection or your first safeguarding crisis it’s the moment you realise the role has changed you. It changes how you think, how you carry responsibility, and how you hold decisions that don't have clean answers.

In this episode, Jane and Jacqui are joined by Dr. Jill Berry, a highly experienced former headteacher, researcher, and author of Making the Leap. We dive into the "lead-in" period that tricky space between getting the job and formally stepping into it and discuss why the current system often fails to support leaders once they are in post.

With 78% of senior leaders reporting stress and over half considering leaving the profession, we move the conversation away from "resilience" and toward wellbeing as infrastructure.

In this episode, we explore:

• The Systemic Gap: Why preparing for headship is only half the battle, and why the real work starts with service-based support.
• The Lead-In Period: Balancing your current loyalty with your future accountability.
• Imperfect Leadership: Learning to be tolerant of yourself and accepting that no one expects their leader to be infallible.
• Building the Bridge: Why the first few months are intense and why you have to build your leadership "as you walk on it".
• Support as a Right, Not a Rescue: Moving from reactive support when things go wrong to proactive Reflective Supervision and coaching from day one.

Key Reflection for Leaders:

"A new leader has to build the bridge as they walk on it." — Robert Quinn

The Question: If a new member of staff was silently observing how you handle urgency and scrutiny, what would they conclude about how safe it is to struggle in your school?

Resources Mentioned:

• Jill Berry: Making the Leap: Moving from Deputy to Head
• Steve Mumby: Imperfect Leadership
• Lucy Kelly: Reimagining the Diary
• Joanna Povil: Kind Leadership
• James Pope & Kate Smith: Heads Up for Head Teachers

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If this episode resonated with you, please share it with one leader who is carrying the weight of the job in silence.