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First Round's on Me

First Round's on Me

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Join Hannah and Joe Feminella as they sit down together, or with special guests, and dive into the messy, beautiful world of connection across every area of life. They don’t just talk about it—they live it, sharing raw personal stories, best-friend-level advice, and insights that’ll make you stop and think. Reflecting their belief that authenticity is key to genuine connection. Whether you’re building a circle in a new city, keeping a partnership strong through big seasons, leading a team, or simply craving more meaning in your week—this is your space. New episodes drop every Monday!First Round's On Me Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • You’re Not “Just a Mom”
    Mar 30 2026

    In this episode of First Round’s On Me, we dive into one of the most honest conversations about motherhood, ambition, and identity.Laura Alcantara Landsburg shares her journey of losing herself for 15 years in marriage and motherhood—and how she rebuilt her life through art, creativity, and emotional release.We talk about:The guilt of wanting more than motherhoodLosing your identity in relationshipsBurnout in corporate vs entrepreneurshipStarting over after divorceWhy women shouldn’t have to chooseThis is a raw, real conversation about becoming yourself again.🎧 Watch the full episode and subscribe for more real conversations.00:00 Intro01:20 Artist vs Entrepreneur03:00 Breaking & Rebuilding Workshops05:00 Turning Pain Into Art07:00 Why Breaking Things Feels Good09:30 What Meditation Really Is14:00 Art as Therapy16:00 Burnout & Relationships18:00 Losing Yourself in Marriage21:00 Pandemic Identity Shift25:00 Motherhood vs Career30:00 Corporate Burnout Truth34:00 Entrepreneurship Reality35:30 Starting Over From Nothing36:50 Finding Yourself Again38:40 Teaching Kids Through Struggle39:00 Say Yes or Say No40:30 Biggest Lesson

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    43 mins
  • He Won Survivor & $1M
    Mar 16 2026

    Kyle and Maggie Fraser join the show to talk about winning Survivor, saying yes to uncomfortable opportunities, and building a marriage through pressure, change, and big life decisions.Kyle shares what it was like winning $1 million on Survivor, how the experience affected their relationship, and why saying yes to things that scare you can completely change your life. We also talk about friendships, moving to New York, career risks, marriage, and why strong relationships are built in the hard moments.This episode is about partnership, ambition, and trusting the path even when you’re not sure where it leads.Watch until the end for one of the best conversations we’ve had about relationships and life decisions.Subscribe for more episodes of First Round’s On Me.00:00 Survivor Winner & $1M02:45 Applying for Survivor06:10 Reality TV vs Real Life09:00 How They Met in Law School12:00 Marriage & Arguing as Lawyers15:00 Being Apart Changed Everything18:00 Relationships Through Hard Times22:00 Friends, NYC & Community27:00 Compromise in Marriage30:00 Perfect Night Out Game37:00 Saying Yes Changed Life42:00 Final Thoughts

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    43 mins
  • The Power of Saying Yes in New York
    Mar 2 2026

    In this episode of First Round’s On Me, it’s just Joe and Hannah — diving into friendships, vulnerability, spontaneity, and why saying “yes” might be the most powerful habit you can build in New York City.

    They talk about male friendships and why affection and vulnerability can feel taboo for men — and how that shifts as you grow older. What makes a friendship real? How do relationships evolve when you get married, have kids, or move cities?

    Then the conversation turns to something that’s shaped Joe’s entire life and career: the power of saying yes. From spontaneous nights in New York to investor meetings that changed the trajectory of FROME, they break down how some of the biggest moments in life come from leaning into discomfort instead of avoiding it.

    They also draft the ultimate NYC night out, debate old fashioneds vs tequila, and play a rapid-fire “Say Yes or Say No” game inspired by life in the city.

    This episode is reflective, funny, and a reminder that the best things in life rarely happen when you stay home.

    💬 In the comments: What’s something you almost said no to — but are so glad you didn’t?


    00:00 – Male friendships & vulnerability
    03:00 – Real friends vs surface-level connections
    07:00 – Social anxiety & leaning into discomfort
    10:00 – The investor dinner story
    13:00 – Why saying yes changes everything
    16:00 – Vegas spontaneity & following intuition
    18:30 – Australia, timing & the butterfly effect
    19:30 – Favorite New York nights
    20:50 – NYC Night Out Draft
    24:00 – “Say Yes or Say No” rapid fire
    27:45 – Outro & 10K milestone

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    28 mins
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