What does real chesed actually look like behind the scenes?

In this unforgettable episode of the None of Your Business Podcast, Michael sits down with Alan Rosenstock, the longtime leader of Tomche Shabbos of Rockland County, for a raw and deeply human conversation about poverty, dignity, responsibility, and the hidden struggles many families face every day.

Alan shares how a single act of helping a family in need turned into one of the largest community support organizations in the Jewish world. From food distribution to job placement, career training, and crisis intervention, this episode explores what it truly means to help people rebuild their lives — not just survive.

The conversation also dives into leadership, parenting, faith, resilience, entrepreneurship, and the emotional toll of carrying an entire community’s struggles on your shoulders. Along the way, Alan reveals the surprising lessons he learned from Steve Jobs, the importance of accountability in charity, and why every person has the ability to make a difference.

This is a powerful episode about compassion, purpose, and the people quietly changing lives every single day.

00:00 - The Hidden Struggles Families Face
00:47 - Meet Alan Rosenstock & Tomche Shabbos
04:45 - Growing Up & Learning Chesed
10:30 - How Tomche Shabbos Started
15:00 - Helping People Beyond Food Boxes
19:45 - Does Charity Enable People?
25:00 - Family, Parenting & Responsibility
28:00 - The Debate Around Helping Others
31:15 - The One Speech Alan Regrets
36:15 - Handling Emotional Burnout
40:45 - The Steve Jobs Lesson That Changed Everything
44:45 - What the Community Still Needs Most