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He Said, She Said

He Said, She Said

By: Staying Relevant Productions
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Louise Thompson and Ryan Libbey are entering their most open chapter yet…


He Said, She Said brings listeners into honest, unfiltered conversations about life as partners, parents and individuals, including a new fertility journey they’ve chosen to share.


From relationships to parenting and the realities of growing a family, Louise and Ryan explore the big stuff with openness and vulnerability, balanced by lighter moments from everyday family life.


New episodes every Wednesday. Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. Plus watch on YouTube from 5pm!


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Episodes
  • The REAL Reason We’re Not Married Yet…
    Mar 25 2026

    Happy Birthday Louise!!! 🥳


    Of course, as it’s her birthday we had a few surprises planned… starting with Ryan transforming into Louise’s “ideal man.” Or at least, that was the plan. Let’s just say it didn’t exactly go the way we expected.


    We also get into why Louise actually HATES her birthday, and the deeper reason behind it. That conversation takes an unexpected turn, leading to a very honest reveal about why Louise and Ryan still aren’t married… even after being engaged for eight years. This also opens up Ryan’s biggest regret from his proposal.


    Things get even more emotional as he shares a series of surprise gifts that leave Louise laughing, and a little teary.


    And just when she thinks it’s over, there’s one final surprise… a very special guest crashes the recording to wish Louise a happy birthday. You’ll have to listen to the end to find out who.


    00:00 Ryan dresses up to surprise Louise!

    00:41 Why Louise hates her birthday

    06:03 Louise’s Childhood Birthday Experiences

    10:05 The Root of Birthday Discomfort

    12:18 Why we aren’t married yet?!

    15:57 Louise’s ideal Birthday

    18:38 Ryan’s Shocking Engagement Revelation

    22:41 Louise’s best birthday feeling

    25:03 Dream Birthday Scenario

    29:06 Birthday Present Surprises

    32:10 A Decade of Birthdays Journey Together

    41:28 Advice to Younger Selves

    45:28 Mystery guest surprise revealed!


    🗓 New episodes every Wednesday


    📩 We’ve got a NEW email!

    Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.

    We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.


    🩵 Follow us everywhere

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    And of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.

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    48 mins
  • Why We Clash (and Still Make It Work)
    Mar 18 2026

    This week we’re recording on the eve of our long-awaited trip - and let’s just Louise and Ryan approach holidays VERY differently...


    We chat honestly about how travelling as parents hits differently, the mental load of planning, and why even a dream getaway can come with nightmares (literally).


    Louise opens up about adjusting to life with a stoma bag and how it’s impacted confidence around things like swimwear and holidays, while Ryan shares what it’s been like supporting from the sidelines.


    We also finally dive into love languages and how those differences can affect us. Add in our Type A vs Type B approach and… yes, there are clashes. One thing we do agree on - the online storm surrounding the Bonnie Blue viral pregnancy story and what it says about the world our children are growing up.


    We also share where our heads are at when it comes to future family planning and the difficult decisions that come with it during uncertain times.


    🗓 New episodes every Wednesday


    📩 We’ve got a NEW email!

    Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.

    We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.


    🩵 Follow us everywhere

    Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcast


    And of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    57 mins
  • What our 4-year-old REALLY thinks of us...
    Mar 11 2026

    This week on He Said, She Said, we’re chatting all about sleep habits, mums, and welcoming a very special (and very small) guest to the podcast…


    We kick things off with a catch-up on our trip to Scotland and what travelling with a four-year-old is really like.


    Then we dive into a surprisingly heated debate about sleep… which leads to talking about our own sleeping habits, snoring accusations, and whether couples should ever share a bed in the first place.


    With Mother’s Day around the corner, we spend some time reflecting on mums - from embarrassing childhood moments and the things we definitely took for granted, to the moment you realise your mum is just… a person.


    And finally… please welcome our youngest guest ever. Leo joins the pod to give his honest review of what mummy is really like at home and we put mum vs dad to the test in a game to see who actually knows Leo best.


    Spoiler: the answers are not what we expected.



    🗓 New episodes every Wednesday


    📩 We’ve got a NEW email!

    Want to get involved? Email HSSS@srproductions.co.uk or slide straight into our DMs @hesaid.shesaid.podcast.

    We want it all. Your dilemmas, questions, voice notes, stories and opinions. If it’s pod-related, we’re listening.


    🩵 Follow us everywhere

    Instagram | TikTok | Youtube @hesaid.shesaid.podcast


    And of course… don’t forget to subscribe, follow, rate and review.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    52 mins
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