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The REAL Reason We’re Not Married Yet…

The REAL Reason We’re Not Married Yet…

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Happy Birthday Louise!!! 🥳


Of course, as it’s her birthday we had a few surprises planned… starting with Ryan transforming into Louise’s “ideal man.” Or at least, that was the plan. Let’s just say it didn’t exactly go the way we expected.


We also get into why Louise actually HATES her birthday, and the deeper reason behind it. That conversation takes an unexpected turn, leading to a very honest reveal about why Louise and Ryan still aren’t married… even after being engaged for eight years. This also opens up Ryan’s biggest regret from his proposal.


Things get even more emotional as he shares a series of surprise gifts that leave Louise laughing, and a little teary.


And just when she thinks it’s over, there’s one final surprise… a very special guest crashes the recording to wish Louise a happy birthday. You’ll have to listen to the end to find out who.


00:00 Ryan dresses up to surprise Louise!

00:41 Why Louise hates her birthday

06:03 Louise’s Childhood Birthday Experiences

10:05 The Root of Birthday Discomfort

12:18 Why we aren’t married yet?!

15:57 Louise’s ideal Birthday

18:38 Ryan’s Shocking Engagement Revelation

22:41 Louise’s best birthday feeling

25:03 Dream Birthday Scenario

29:06 Birthday Present Surprises

32:10 A Decade of Birthdays Journey Together

41:28 Advice to Younger Selves

45:28 Mystery guest surprise revealed!


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