Motivation got you started… but commitment is what gets you across the finish line.

In this episode of Lead Like a Girl, we dive into the often-overlooked phase of personal growth and success: the boring middle. It’s the part no one talks about—the weeks, months, and sometimes years between setting a goal and seeing the results.

We share real-life stories about staying committed when motivation fades, why discipline matters more than inspiration, and how accountability can help you push through setbacks. Whether you're building a business, pursuing a fitness goal, advancing your career, or simply trying to keep promises to yourself, this conversation will help you stay focused when the excitement wears off.

• Why the “boring middle” is where most people quit

• How commitment differs from motivation

• The role accountability plays in long-term success

• Practical ways to build discipline into your daily routine

• How to plan for obstacles before they happen

• Why small wins create massive momentum over time

• The importance of saying no to protect your goals

• Strategies for staying engaged when progress feels slow

• “Plan for what can go wrong.”

• “Start small, celebrate wins.”

• “Plan your routine to avoid boredom.”

00:00 – Introduction and Personal Reflections

03:25 – Post-Wedding Life and Commitments

06:14 – The Challenge of Commitment

09:03 – Understanding Accountability and Discipline

11:44 – The Boring Middle of Commitment

14:41 – Fear and Its Impact on Commitment

18:40 – Commitment and Accountability

21:51 – Setting Realistic Goals

28:00 – Navigating the Boring Middle

33:33 – The Importance of Saying No

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If you've ever felt stuck between starting and succeeding, this episode is your reminder that progress isn't always exciting—but it is worth it.

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Who says the best chapters of life happen before 40?

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of Lead Like a Girl, Jamie shares her personal journey of finding love, embracing vulnerability, and preparing to get married at 50. From navigating heartbreak and learning from past relationships to discovering the power of healing, self-awareness, and courage, this conversation is a reminder that life doesn't come with an expiration date on happiness.

We dive into the realities of second chances, wedding planning stress, blended families, and the lessons that only come with experience. Whether you're rebuilding after disappointment, chasing a new dream, or wondering if it's too late to start over, this episode will encourage you to trust your journey and embrace what's next.

Because sometimes the most beautiful love stories begin when you least expect them.

• Why courage is required to pursue happiness at every age
• The lessons Jamie learned from past relationships and engagements
• How healing and self-awareness create healthier relationships
• Red flags, relationship wisdom, and trusting your instincts
• Wedding planning expectations versus reality
• Managing stress and staying focused on what truly matters
• Navigating blended families and communication challenges
• Letting go of other people's opinions and living authentically
• Why it's never too late for love, growth, or new beginnings

• "Pay attention to red flags."
• "Healing is a work in progress."
• "It's never too late for love."

00:00 – Introduction and Guest Credibility

01:02 – Courage, Happiness, and Second Chances

02:00 – Wedding Excitement and Personal Growth

03:03 – Red Flags and Relationship Warning Labels

05:09 – Refusing to Stress Over Wedding Details

10:55 – Jamie's Love Journey and Past Engagements

12:40 – Meeting the Right Person at 50

14:17 – Self-Discovery, Healing, and Growth

19:21 – Letting Go of Others' Opinions

21:04 – How Past Relationships Shape Us

22:57 – Healing Timelines and Moving Forward

26:02 – Wedding Planning Stress and Resilience

27:31 – Funny Wedding Disagreements and Unexpected Costs

30:10 – Wedding Day Nerves and Excitement

31:48 – Celebrating Love and New Beginnings

34:01 – Jamie's Mother's Inspiring Wedding Story

36:12 – Communication and Blended Family Lessons

37:43 – Final Encouragement and Closing Thoughts

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We all do it. We all hate that we do it. And yet — here we are, still comparing ourselves to literally everyone.

In this episode, Coralyn, Jamie, and Jessica are getting into the comparison spiral — why your brain is wired for it, why social media pours gasoline on the whole thing, and why you're always measuring your behind-the-scenes against everyone else's highlight reel.

They're getting honest about negative self-talk, the environments that keep you stuck, and the one mindset shift that might actually break the cycle.

Spoiler: it starts with cheering for other women instead of quietly resenting them. Yes, really.

If you've ever opened your phone and immediately felt behind — this one's for you.

What they cover:The biology of comparisonWhy social media is designed to make you feel behindHow negative self-talk fuels the spiralGratitude and self-awareness as actual toolsHow to build a circle that lifts you up

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