Episodes

  • 45: What No One Tells You About UTIs After 40

    45: What No One Tells You About UTIs After 40
    Jun 18 2026

    What No One Tells You About UTIs After 40 - Body, Mind, Spirit

    Have you suddenly started getting UTIs in your 40s or 50s and wondered why? You're not doing anything differently, but your body is.

    In this solo episode, Sheri shares her own story of having her very first UTI at 53, and breaks down exactly what's happening in the body, mind, and spirit when urinary tract infections show up in perimenopause and menopause.

    This isn't just about bacteria. It's about estrogen, your pelvic floor, your emotions, and the deeper message your body may be sending you.

    Why do perimenopausal women suddenly get UTIs?

    As estrogen declines in perimenopause, the tissue lining the bladder, urethra, and vaginal walls thins and loses moisture. Thinner tissue means less protection — bacteria adhere more easily and the body becomes more vulnerable. At the same time, the vaginal microbiome shifts, allowing more pathogenic bacteria to take hold. This combination is why so many women who never had UTIs in their 20s and 30s suddenly start getting them in midlife.

    What you'll learn in this episode:

    • Why estrogen loss changes your urogenital tissue
    • Why post-sex UTIs increase significantly in midlife — and the shame spiral that keeps women from talking to their doctors or partners about it
    • Why antibiotics for your last UTI may actually be setting you up for your next one
    • What the emotional connection is to UTI's and the somatic expression of those emotions
    • How examining the spiritual connection can give you clues to what's out of balance, not just in your body but in your life

    What is the emotional connection to UTIs?

    Somatically, the bladder is associated with release and suppression of what needs to be released. Sheri explores the literal and emotional meaning of being "pissed off," what it means to hold everything together for everyone else, and the pattern of putting your own needs last - including something as basic as going to the bathroom when your body tells you to.

    What is the spiritual meaning of UTIs in midlife?

    The bladder and urinary system are connected to the sacral chakra — the energy center that governs water, flow, pleasure, creativity, sexuality, and boundaries. A contracted, dried-out body may be pointing to a sacral imbalance. Perimenopause is also the life stage where we're biologically shifting from nurturing others to nurturing the self. For women who haven't made that turn yet - who are still pouring out without replenishing - UTIs may be one of the ways the body calls that forward.

    This episode is for you if:

    • You've had your first UTI in midlife and wondered why now
    • You've been getting recurrent UTIs and feel stuck in the antibiotics cycle
    • You're ready to look at what your body might be trying to tell you beyond the physical

    We're accepting new members into the Midlife Red Tent! Find the details and join us here: Midlife Red Tent

    Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

    Not Done Yet: A Podcast For Midlife Women with Rachel Perry

    If you're a woman in your 40s to 60s, who’s ready to trade “going through the motions” for a life that actually lights you up...this is your invitation to step beyond the quiet sense that there’s more for you and into a deeper, more vibrant way of living.

    Check out all the details of From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned - a 9 Day Sacred Journey in Peru.

    Find us on instagram:

    @midlifewomenrising
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    31 mins
  • 44: How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt (and the Nervous System Secret No One Tells You)

    44: How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt (and the Nervous System Secret No One Tells You)
    Jun 11 2026

    How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt (and the Nervous System Secret No One Tells You)

    Do you find yourself saying "yes" when every part of you wants to say "no", and then spend hours wondering why? If you feel guilty setting boundaries, you're not weak and you don't lack willpower. In this solo episode, Jen explains why boundaries feel so hard in your 40s and 50s, and why the usual advice to "just set stronger boundaries" keeps failing you.

    If you've ever frozen in a "deer in the headlights" moment and agreed to something you resented seconds later, this episode shows you exactly what's happening in your body, and what to actually do about it.

    In this episode:

    • Why boundaries get harder in midlife. As estrogen fluctuates in perimenopause and declines in menopause, you lose a key buffer against stress, making chronic overcommitment more harmful to your health than before.
    • The research linking poor boundaries to illness. Jen unpacks Dr. Gabor Maté's three traits that predict who gets sick: selflessness, suppressed anger, and over-conforming to who society says you should be.
    • Why it isn't really guilt, and isn't your fault. What women call "guilt" is often obligation, shame, or fear of being a "bad person." The real driver is nervous system dysregulation: the fawn and freeze responses.
    • What the fawn response is. Less known than fight-or-flight, fawning is a people-pleasing survival response wired in childhood. It's a subconscious program like "if everyone's happy, I'm safe."
    • Why boundary scripts don't work alone. When your nervous system is activated, your body overrides your brain. Lasting change comes from somatic tools and subconscious reprogramming, not rehearsing the perfect words.
    • A 3-part reflection to start today: notice where you feel it in your body, name the emotion (guilt, obligation, shame, fear), and uncover the hidden narrative running underneath.

    Questions this episode answers:

    • Why do I feel guilty when I set boundaries?
    • How do I set boundaries without feeling guilty?
    • What is the fawn response and how do I stop people-pleasing?
    • Why is it harder to say no during perimenopause and menopause?

    Free download: Download our free boundary-setting scripts here.

    Mentioned in this episode:

    • Our first international retreat in Peru's Sacred Valley — midlifewomenrising.com/peru
    • Theta healing and somatic nervous system work inside the Midlife Red Tent

    If you're a woman in your 40s to 60s, who’s ready to trade “going through the motions” for a life that actually lights you up...this is your invitation to step beyond the quiet sense that there’s more for you and into a deeper, more vibrant way of living.

    Check out all the details of From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned - a 9 Day Sacred Journey in Peru.

    Find us on instagram:

    @midlifewomenrising
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    27 mins
  • 43: You Don't Have a Hormone Problem. You Have an Alignment Problem.

    43: You Don't Have a Hormone Problem. You Have an Alignment Problem.
    Jun 4 2026
    You Don't Have a Hormone Problem. You Have an Alignment Problem.What happens to your body when you stay in a misaligned life?Most women in perimenopause assume their symptoms - exhaustion, brain fog, sleepless nights, gut issues, anxiety - are purely hormonal. But there's a layer most doctors don't address: chronic misalignment, and the stress response it creates in your body.In this episode, we break down exactly what staying in a life that doesn't feel right is costing you — physically, emotionally, and spiritually — and what to actually do about it.Why misalignment makes perimenopause symptoms worseIn your 20s and 30s, estrogen helped buffer your stress response. In perimenopause, that buffer is gone. The same level of pressure, resistance, or misalignment that felt manageable at 35 now hits your nervous system completely differently.When you're doing something that doesn't feel aligned, whether it's a job, a relationship, even a life that feels like someone else's, your nervous system registers it as a threat. It moves into fight-flight-freeze. And your nervous system governs your hormones. That means:Cortisol rises, often at the wrong times of daySleep becomes harder and more disruptedHot flashes, mood swings, and gut issues intensifyAnxiety or low-grade depression surfaces — often without a clear causeThe key insight from this episode: It's not just your hormones fluctuating. It's your nervous system — dysregulated by a life that doesn't feel true to you — making everything worse.What does "feeling misaligned" actually feel like?You might not use the word misaligned. It might sound more like:"I feel like I'm on Groundhog Day""I should be grateful, so why don't I feel it?""I don't know what I actually want anymore""I can't keep going like this, but I don't know what to change"Jen shares honestly in this episode that even knowing what she knows, she's currently living this - working a side hustle that doesn't feel aligned, feeling the physical and emotional cost of it in real time. That's not a failure. That's what this transition period actually looks like, and it's more common than most women admit.The emotional costs women don't talk aboutLiving out of alignment doesn't just affect your body. Over time it costs you:Your relationships: you give your best hours to things that drain you, and the people and things you love get what's leftYour sense of self: the longer you wear a "work mask," the harder it becomes to remember which version of you is realYour intuition: every time you override your gut, you lose a little more trust in itYour full emotional range: when you suppress desire because you "should be grateful," you end up flattening your entire emotional experienceWe make an important distinction here: gratitude and desire are not opposites. You can be genuinely grateful for your life and still want something more. Suppressing that desire doesn't make you more grateful, it just makes you less alive.Why women in perimenopause suffer in silence at workOne of the most important conversations in this episode: the silent spiral many women in their 40s and 50s experience professionally.Brain fog makes us forget things in meetings. Exhaustion makes us slower. We work harder and longer to compensate, which raises cortisol further. We don't tell anyone at work because we're afraid it will affect our career trajectory. So we hold it in, push through, go home, work more, sleep badly, and start the whole cycle again.The spiral grows until something breaks — and for some women, that something is their health.Can misalignment cause physical pain?Sheri shares a personal story in this episode about debilitating hip pain that appeared — not once but twice — when she was most out of alignment. Through a ThetaHealing session with Jen, they traced the pain back to the emotional and energetic cost of moving in a direction her soul wasn't ready for.The hips and knees are associated with movement, security, and moving forward. When you're being pushed forward in a direction that doesn't feel right, the body sometimes responds.This isn't mystical — it's the body-mind connection that research increasingly supports.What actually helpsThe answer isn't a complete overhaul of your life overnight. It's:Recognizing the cost — which is what this episode is designed to help you doGetting back in touch with your intuition — not overriding it with "I should be grateful"Taking micro steps — one aligned choice at a time, not a full life demolitionStepping outside your environment — because you cannot get perspective on a picture you're still standing insideAbout the Peru retreatEverything we discuss in this episode is what our November retreat in the Sacred Valley, Peru is designed to address but at a depth that daily life doesn't allow. Check out From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned here.Nine days. Ten women. A deliberately designed container to let your body regulate, release what you've been carrying, ...
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    40 mins
  • 42: Why "I Need a Vacation" Is a Sign Something's Wrong (And What To Do About It)

    42: Why "I Need a Vacation" Is a Sign Something's Wrong (And What To Do About It)
    May 28 2026

    Why Needing a Vacation Is a Sign Something's Wrong (And What To Do About it)

    If you're living for the weekend or counting down to your next vacation, this episode is a gift, albeit an uncomfortable one!

    Needing a vacation so badly isn't a rest problem, it's a signal. In this episode, we get honest about the quiet, persistent emptiness that can hide inside a "good life," and why more achievements, better goals, and longer holidays will never fill it.

    In this episode we cover:

    • Why needing a vacation is actually a symptom and the vacation isn't actually the solution
    • The achievement trap that keeps high-achieving women stuck and still unfulfilled
    • The guilt of wanting more when you "should be grateful", and why this is quietly destructive
    • "Work you" vs. "vacation you", and the truth about which one is actually real
    • What living in alignment genuinely feels like (it's not as difficult or flashy as you think)
    • The hot tub analogy: why vacations offer temporary relief but can't reach the root cause
    • The counterintuitive move that creates lasting change - and why it's not another goal or achievement

    Resources mentioned:

    • 📖 The Gap and the Gain — Dan Sullivan & Benjamin Hardy
    • 🌿 Peru Retreat: midlifewomenrising.com/peru
    • 🎙️ Episode 39 — Why women don't leap toward the life they want

    If you're a woman in your 40s to 60s, who’s ready to trade “going through the motions” for a life that actually lights you up...this is your invitation to step beyond the quiet sense that there’s more for you and into a deeper, more vibrant way of living.

    Check out all the details of From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned - a 9 Day Sacred Journey in Peru.

    Find us on instagram:

    @midlifewomenrising
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    35 mins
  • 41: Unhinged: What Your Aching Hips Are Really Trying to Tell You

    41: Unhinged: What Your Aching Hips Are Really Trying to Tell You
    May 21 2026

    Unhinged: What Your Aching Hips Are Really Trying to Tell You

    If your aching hips are keeping you up at night (or from walking normally during the day) this episode is for you. We go three layers deep into midlife hip pain: the physiology most doctors skip, the emotions stored in the pelvic area, and the energetic truth your hips are trying to speak.

    Hip pain in midlife is one of the most common - and most misunderstood - symptoms women experience. Most of the conversation stops at bursitis. But your body is not that simple, and neither are you.

    In this episode, we go three layers deep into:

    • the science of what's actually happening in your joints: including the estrogen connection most doctors don't explain, the psoas muscle nobody talks about, and the vicious sleep-pain-inflammation loop
    • the emotional anatomy of the hips: what the identity shake-ups, suppressed anger, and nervous system dysregulation have to do with your pain
    • the energetic truth: how both the sacral and root chakras map directly onto your hips, and what a blocked or imbalanced energy center in this area is really asking you to look at

    This isn't about managing your symptoms. It's about listening to what they're trying to tell you.

    You are going to discover:

    • Why estrogen loss accelerates cartilage breakdown in all the joints
    • What the psoas muscle is, and how chronic stress keeps it permanently locked
    • The sleep-pain-inflammation loop and how to start breaking it
    • Why the hips are the body's emotional storage unit for the key stressors that hit right in the middle of life
    • The role of suppressed anger in hip tension and why midlife women carry so much of it
    • The connection to the sacral chakra and what happens when it's blocked

    Stay until the end because I'm going to give you one simple practice (no, it's not a stretch or mobility movement) that you can do in 10 minutes to alleviate hip pain.

    The Midlife Red Tent

    If you can't seem to shake your hip pain - or any other joint pain - the missing piece is almost always the emotional and spiritual layers. Inside the Midlife Red Tent, we go deep on exactly this: not just the physical solution but the stories behind the symptoms, and the practices that create real change. We're accepting new members now, so join us here: Midlife Red Tent details

    If you're a woman in your 40s to 60s, who’s ready to trade “going through the motions” for a life that actually lights you up...this is your invitation to step beyond the quiet sense that there’s more for you and into a deeper, more vibrant way of living.

    Check out all the details of From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned - a 9 Day Sacred Journey in Peru.

    Find us on instagram:

    @midlifewomenrising
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    28 mins
  • 40: Stop Trying to Get Back to Who You Were. Do This Instead.

    40: Stop Trying to Get Back to Who You Were. Do This Instead.
    May 15 2026

    Stop Trying to Get Back to Who You Were. Do This Instead.

    If you've ever looked in the mirror and thought "I don't recognize myself anymore", this episode is for you.

    In midlife, everything shifts. Your body changes. Your energy isn't what it was. Your kids leave. Your roles evolve. And suddenly the identity you've spent decades building - the strong one, the capable one, the one who holds it all together - starts to feel like it's slipping away.

    But here's what we discovered through working with women in the Midlife Red Tent: what most women are experiencing isn't an identity crisis at all. It's a worthiness crisis.

    And that distinction changes everything.

    If you're feeling like you just want to go back to being your 35-year-old self who could handle it all, this episode is going to blow your mind. You're going to find out:

    • Why midlife women feel like they've "lost themselves", and the real reason it's happening
    • The sneaky way patriarchal conditioning, productivity culture, and the glorification of self-sacrifice set us up to fall apart in midlife
    • The Downward Spiral of Unworthiness: how a change in capacity leads to self-worth collapse (and why pushing harder makes it worse)
    • The 5 most common mistakes women make when trying to reclaim their former identity
    • The powerful reframe that separates identity from worth and why this is the key to everything
    • What it really means to be "strong" in midlife (hint: it's not about doing more)
    • Why your worth is not - and has never been - tied to your productivity, your role, or how much you can carry

    "Most women aren't actually trying to reclaim their identity. They're trying to reclaim the version of themselves that once made them feel worthy."

    We've been conditioned to believe that being needed, productive, capable, and composed is what makes us valuable as women. So when midlife changes the terms — when the body slows down, the kids leave, the emotional bandwidth shifts — we interpret it as failure.

    We don't lose ourselves in midlife. We lose our grip on the identity we mistakenly believed made us worthy.

    And that is very good news — because your worth was never up for debate.

    If you are ready to reclaim your worth instead of chasing an identity that never served you in the first place, it's time to sign up for From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned, our epic retreat in Peru! The deadline to get in is coming up so act fast!

    Can't retreat with us? You can still get reclaim your worth inside the Midlife Red Tent by joining us TODAY.

    If you're a woman in your 40s to 60s, who’s ready to trade “going through the motions” for a life that actually lights you up...this is your invitation to step beyond the quiet sense that there’s more for you and into a deeper, more vibrant way of living.

    Check out all the details of From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned - a 9 Day Sacred Journey in Peru.

    Find us on instagram:

    @midlifewomenrising
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    41 mins
  • 39: The 3 Hidden Patterns Keeping You From a Life That Feels Fulfilling

    39: The 3 Hidden Patterns Keeping You From a Life That Feels Fulfilling
    May 7 2026

    The 3 Hidden Patterns Keeping You From a Life That Feels Fulfilling

    We've heard many midlife women talk about their second chapter in three key ways:

    • “I should be happy… my life is pretty good. But something’s missing”
    • “I just need to get through this next phase ____ ” (fill in the blank - kids through college, next project, next 5 years etc)
    • “I know I’m meant for more, but I can't start over at this point in my life”

    This episode will help you understand why.

    In the last episode (Part 1), we unpacked what the industry is getting wrong when it comes to midlife, health, and fulfillment. In this episode, we go deeper.

    There are a few different reasons why you might be feeling like you're not living your absolute best life and we're going to help you identify your specific block.

    You are going to discover:

    • Why some women stay comfortable but unfulfilled
    • Why others keep postponing what they really want to do… and end up burned out
    • Why clarity alone doesn’t lead to change
    • What actually keeps women circling what really lights them up instead of diving in

    An extraordinary life doesn't just show up one day. Nor does it happen by thinking more, learning more or waiting for the “right time”.

    It happens when you:
    👉 step out of your current environment
    👉 interrupt your patterns
    👉 and experience yourself differently

    Because that’s what creates a true shift - alignment plus action.

    You can keep living a ho-hum life, pushing through until you retire, or circling what you know you really want...but over time, that gap between the life you’re living and the life you feel called to only gets wider.

    Your environment reinforces who you’ve been. Your roles, responsibilities, and relationships all pull you back into the same patterns. Which is why so many women know they want something different… but don’t move.

    This is exactly why we created our retreat in Peru: From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned.

    It's not about escaping your life. It’s about stepping out of it just long enough to:

    • reconnect to what’s actually true for you
    • shift the version of you that’s been holding everything together
    • and go home with a clear, aligned and inspired plan to step into your most lit-up life

    Check out the details for Peru here. (8 spots left at the time of this recording)

    If you're a woman in your 40s to 60s, who’s ready to trade “going through the motions” for a life that actually lights you up...this is your invitation to step beyond the quiet sense that there’s more for you and into a deeper, more vibrant way of living.

    Check out all the details of From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned - a 9 Day Sacred Journey in Peru.

    Find us on instagram:

    @midlifewomenrising
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    45 mins
  • 38: What the Wellness Industry is Missing About Midlife

    38: What the Wellness Industry is Missing About Midlife
    Apr 30 2026

    What the Wellness Industry is Missing About Midlife

    If you feel like you've been doing everything “right” in midlife - following all the biohacking and longevity advice, doing the vision boards and manifesting techniques and doing the personal work or therapy to uncover your blocks - but something still feels off… it probably is.

    But here's the thing, you're not doing anything wrong. It’s just that what you’ve been told to focus on might be missing the point.

    In this episode, we break down what the midlife wellness and personal growth industry is really teaching - and why so many women still feel unfulfilled, disconnected, or what they're next chapter will look like, despite following all the advice.

    You are going to find out:

    • Why optimizing your health doesn’t automatically create a life that feels good
    • The hidden message behind “just get through this phase” (and why it keeps you stuck)
    • Why vision boards and manifestation don’t work the way you’ve been told
    • The self-awareness trap… learning without actually changing anything
    • The real reason midlife can feel like something is missing, even when everything looks good on paper

    In this episode, we're going to show you why you can:

    • Take all the supplements
    • Do all the mindset work
    • Understand your patterns

    …but if the life you’re living isn’t aligned with who you are, your body will feel it and resist it.

    It’s not one big thing. It’s the accumulation of everyday misalignments:

    • Saying yes when you mean no
    • Staying in roles that no longer fit
    • Ignoring what you actually want

    Over time, that disconnect shows up in your energy, your health, and your overall sense of fulfillment. And here’s what we believe:

    👉 A better life doesn’t come from optimizing everything around you.
    👉 It comes from living in alignment with what’s actually true for you.

    That's what makes us different.

    We're looking for 5 adventurous midlife ladies who are ready to really lean into their most lit-up, extraordinary life to join us at From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned Retreat in Peru! Check out the details here.

    If you're a woman in your 40s to 60s, who’s ready to trade “going through the motions” for a life that actually lights you up...this is your invitation to step beyond the quiet sense that there’s more for you and into a deeper, more vibrant way of living.

    Check out all the details of From Autopilot to Soul-Aligned - a 9 Day Sacred Journey in Peru.

    Find us on instagram:

    @midlifewomenrising
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    44 mins