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Not As We Planned

Not As We Planned

By: Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris
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When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com


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Episodes
  • Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast

    Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Mar 26 2026

    Carly shares a deeply emotional update while trying to hold everything together.


    We hear from a woman in a sexless marriage considering an affair with her boss, a chaotic dating story involving a back-door escape, and a shocking discovery that points to a partner cheating.


    Plus, a powerful anonymous confession from a mum who admits she’s been gaslighting her own son.

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    42 mins
  • Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast

    Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Mar 19 2026

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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast

    When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Mar 12 2026
    Tash shares the hurdles she’s had to face during her break-up, when you stick by your partner through his addiction, a man shares an extremely moving explanation of his addiction, and needing the courage to walk away from a man who has allowed you to carry him through your whole relationship.

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    44 mins
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