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Not As We Planned

Not As We Planned

By: Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris
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Summary

New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon.

Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about.

From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all.

Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid.

If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com


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Episodes
  • I Trusted Him 100% Until I Checked His Phone

    I Trusted Him 100% Until I Checked His Phone
    May 13 2026

    We discuss our most toxic traits in a relationship, when you get warned about your partner on your wedding day and when we discuss that two happy homes is better than one unhappy home!

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    44 mins
  • How Many Red Flags Did I Ignore?

    How Many Red Flags Did I Ignore?
    May 6 2026

    We discuss your pettiest reasons you stopped seeing someone, we hear about the suspicions of someone who thinks her partner may be sleeping with her former best friend and ignoring TOO many red flags.

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    51 mins
  • I Was Ghosted 5 Years Into Our Relationship | Not As We Planned Podcast

    I Was Ghosted 5 Years Into Our Relationship | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Apr 29 2026

    We go down memory lane with all our previous relationships, you share the BRUTAL ways you were dumped, changing the way we date with the 3 men dating approach and when your partner decides he no longer wants a baby… but you’re now pregnant

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    40 mins
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