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Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

By: Ruan Willow
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Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.© 2025 Ruan Willow Pink Infinity Publishing LLC and Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Hygiene & Healthy Living
Episodes
  • On the Cusp of the Third Sexual Revolution Plus Adult Sex Ed with Educator Sabrina Baldini
    Mar 28 2026

    Video version. The Audio version originally aired on August 1st of 2025. Season 6, Episode 729.

    The Third Sexual Revolution, & Sex Ed for Adults with Sabrina Baldini.

    Did you know we might be on the cusp of a third sexual revolution? Sex educator Sabrina Baldini shares fascinating insights from her journey transitioning from teaching sex education to kids to launching After Sex Ed, a company focused on adult sexual wellness.

    Through candid discussion, Sabrina explores:
    - The challenges of promoting sex positivity in today's censorship climate
    - How inadequate early sex education impacts adult relationships
    - The pandemic's role in catalyzing sexual awakening, self discovery, personal growth, and exploration
    - The growing demand for authentic, relatable content in adult spaces
    - Historical parallels with previous sexual revolutions (1920s and 1960s)

    Despite social media bans and societal stigma, Sabrina remains committed to fostering open conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Her work bridges the gap between traditional sex education and the real-world challenges adults face in their intimate lives.

    Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual wellness and education? Tune in to this thought-provoking episode that's reshaping how we think and talk about sexuality.

    Estimated Timeline:

    00:00:00 - Sex Education for Adults
    00:01:43 - Challenges of Discussing Sex Education
    00:04:20 - Challenges of Sex Positivity
    00:08:04 - Talking to Kids About Consent
    00:10:00 - Understanding Healthy Sexual Feelings
    00:16:16 - The Rise of the Third Sexual Revolution
    00:22:30 - Impact of Taboo on Sexual Behavior
    00:23:41 - Trends in Authenticity and Romance
    00:26:23 - Exploring Age and Sexuality
    00:30:29 - Impact of Technology on Sexuality
    00:34:18 - Trends in Modern Relationships
    00:37:19 - Online Safety and Dating Apps
    00:38:40 - Concerns About AI in Art
    00:48:54 - Addressing Sexuality and Porn Education
    00:54:47 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality
    00:59:46 - Understanding Fantasy and Sexuality
    01:01:51 - Understanding Emotional Connections in Sex

    Key Takeaways:

    • Adult sexual education is often overlooked, despite the urgent need for discussions on pleasure and consent.
    • The pandemic highlighted and intensified the challenges of censorship in sexual education, affecting adult learners.
    • There is a growing movement, referred to as a third sexual revolution, that emphasizes open dialogue and authenticity in exploring sexuality.

    Sabrina Baldini | Sex Educator, TEDx Speaker & Founder of After Sex Ed

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Oral On Vacation, Around Her World
    Mar 27 2026

    Season 6, Episode 728: This is a replay story. A delectable heterosexual spicy short romance story with teasing oral fun! Perfect for his and for her pleasure! It's another erotica fiction episode for your saucy entertainment pleasure! Listen for indulging in your well-deserved, and much needed self care time! It's your sexuality and it matters! Sexual health is a part of your mental health!
    The story: Around Her World: Marlayna and Jason are headed to their favorite hidden away resort for a long weekend of hotel intimacy and reconnection in their relationship. The teasing fun begins when Jason drops hints about a new oral technique he plans to pleasure Marlayna with once they are in the hotel room. Her anticipation runs wild as their flirting reaches inferno levels on the road trip up north. The culmination of their saucy conversation leaves both members of the couple panting heavy with satiated smiles. The resort holds repeat magic for them! It's sexual magic!

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    42 mins
  • From Crime Scenes to Supernatural Worlds: Alexandria Swanson on Dark Romance and Character-Driven Writing
    Mar 20 2026
    Season 6, Episode 727: The episode starts off with Ruan narrating excerpts from Alexandria Swanson's Dark Romance books, Defiance (affiliate link book link ) and Balance (affiliate link book link, then we chat about writing, crazy sex related stories Alexandria has dealt with in her job, and the lovely parts of publishing as an indie author, but dealing with the crap in a world full of censorship. Ruan's book mentioned, Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook Dark Romance Fantasy Author Alexandria Swanson bio: https://linktr.ee/alexandriaswansonauthor Alexandria has been writing short stories and poems her entire life in journals and had a great idea for a novel. Defiance was the first book she finished, with more to come! Alexandria has her B.A.s in criminology, sociology, and criminal justice with a minor in forensic science. She works as a 911 dispatcher and lives in the Minnesota metro area with her dog and cat, who keep her busy. In her free time, she enjoys rock climbing, hiking, travel and of course, writing. Alexandria is passionate about herbalism and is really bad at surfing, but she considers herself a masochist. Episode Summary: Author Alexandria Swanson shared she draws inspiration from real experiences when writing (though her writing is fantasy, not memoir), including working as a 911 dispatcher, plus with her background in her studies impacting her characters, her supernatural tales feature werewolves, witches, and vampires who have real psychological disorders, and this plays out as fully fleshed out and named in the storyline. We also discussed the crazy stuff...like the bizarre emergency calls Alexandria has handled: sex toys left in ovens, swallowed handcuff keys, and patients making dangerous decisions with household appliances. These real-life incidents are both interesting and intriguing, and a bit comical and shocking! Alexandria's books *Defiance* and *Balance* explore something rarely addressed in fantasy: how centuries-old supernatural beings experience PTSD and mental health challenges. Her pack therapist character Naya treats werewolves dealing with multi-lifetime trauma, while her protagonist Chloe struggles with night terrors based on Alexandria's own experiences. Listen to hear about the cover designer who hand-draws everything, why Alexandria loves editing (yes, really), and the book fair she will attend that podcast host Ruan Willow is hosting in Minnesota, The Honey and Jalapeno Book Fair, My 17, 2026. Topic timeline: Ruan narrates excerpts from Alexandria Swanson's books Meeting an Author at a Book Fair From Journals to Published Author Fiction vs. Reality: Blurring Personal Stories Emergency Room Stories: Handcuffs and Bad Decisions Mental Health in Fantasy and Paranormal Romance The Value of In-Person Book Fairs Censorship, Leaving TikTok Over Algorithm and Ownership Social Media Double Standards and MORE Censorship Finding a Sustainable Writing Routine Pet-Friendly Work Schedule and Writing Rituals Finding Creative Space Away From Home Loving Editing vs. Hating First Drafts Authors Must Review Every Editorial Change Designing Dual Book Covers with Human Artistry AI in Book Covers: Avoiding Hidden Technology Amazon Lost My Book and Pre-Orders! Book Printing Struggles and Independent Solutions Wrapping Up with Alexandria: Books and Social Media Instagram alexandria_swanson_author Affiliate links and Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at ⁠https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/⁠ ⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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    1 hr and 26 mins
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