• 39. Love To Offer Our Lives
    Jun 28 2026

    On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis introduce love as a collective superpower, arguing that love’s fullest power is not individual or confined to isolated couples or the nuclear family but lives on the scale of community and collective freedom. Drawing from Angela Davis’s autobiography, they highlight how her story centers collective support and love as forces that propelled her political commitment. They share 3 “North Stars” and call for social relations where all are loved and no one is sacrificed.


    • Love Is Collective
    • Love Beyond Individualism
    • Tapping Into Presence


    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

    You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.

    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
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    Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

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  • 38. An Unreasonable Love (Go Knicks!)
    Jun 21 2026

    On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis celebrate the New York Knicks winning their first NBA championship in 53 years, and how sports and fandom connects to the legacy of collective love and teamwork. Using Alexis’s Dad’s Knicks loyalty as a metaphor, they offer three north stars about how love is it’s own reason and answer a listener question about whether or not it makes sense to have a goal oriented approach to relationships.


    • Love Unreasonably
    • Lessons From Knicks Fandom
    • Chrysalis Purpose Roadmap


    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

    You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.

    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
    https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

    Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

    And connect with us on the channels below!


    RESOURCES

    https://sangodare.podia.com/

    alexispauline.com

    sangodare.com

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    20 mins
  •  37. Urgent versus Important
    Jun 14 2026

    On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful.


    • Urgent vs Important Explained
    • Scarcity and Stolen Time
    • Rest, Boundaries and ‘Passing It On’


    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
    https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

    Because love is living with purpose join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

    If you are in Durham, join us for Black Feminist Revival services the last Sunday of the month at Northstar Church of the Arts.

    Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.



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    https://sangodare.podia.com/

    alexispauline.com

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    29 mins
  • 36. We Go Together (Announcement)
    Jun 9 2026

    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

    Join before June 19th (Juneteenth!) to be at our first virtual hangout session. #datenight

    You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.

    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
    https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

    Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

    And connect with us on the channels below!


    RESOURCES

    https://sangodare.podia.com/

    alexispauline.com

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    6 mins
  • 35. Love To Shake It Up
    May 17 2026

    In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis define what it does and doesn’t look like to spend intentional time together. They distinguish vacations, staycations and jaunts and how they draw distinction and boundaries between these experiences and work and family trips. They recount a recent jaunt involving deep conversations, play, and a near–EV battery mishap and cite Gwendolyn Brooks on blooming in the whirlwind. They answer a listener question about play and how levity builds agility, flexibility, and rediscovery.


    • Jaunt Vacation Staycation
    • Calendar Boundaries
    • Anniversary Jaunt Reflections
    • Announcements and Farewell


    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
    https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

    Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1


    Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.



    RESOURCES

    https://sangodare.podia.com/

    alexispauline.com

    sangodare.com



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    19 mins
  • 34. I Love Every Age Of You
    May 10 2026

    In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore non-linear time, queer time, and the practice of loving every age of oneself and one’s partner. Using a conflict about an expensive pillow after mattress shopping, they discuss feeling unseen, re-parenting each other, and how multiple selves show up in adult life, while clarifying boundaries and rejecting any justification of harm to minors. They offer three “North Stars” and answer a listener question about date night as ritual. They announce a May 24 Revival service in Durham and June cohort registration for Chrysalis Life Purpose Roadmap.


    • Love Every Age
    • Timeless Love Lessons
    • Intergenerational Orientation
    • Boundaries and Date Night as Ritual



    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
    https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

    Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

    Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.



    RESOURCES


    https://sangodare.podia.com/

    alexispauline.com

    sangodare.com



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    25 mins
  • 33. Love to Hold It Down
    May 3 2026

    In a live episode at North Star Church of the Arts in Durham, Sangodare and Alexis use a seafaring metaphor to explore what it means to be “anchored in love”. They unpack how preparation, resourcing and kindness can keep a “love ship” steady through change. They discuss identifying resilience strategies before you need them, discerning when to move versus be still, and remind us that being able to access our tools matters as much as the tools themselves.


    • Anchoring in Love and Forgiveness
    • Stress Responses and Resourcing
    • What’s Shared and What’s Kept Sacred


    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
    https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

    Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

    Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.



    RESOURCES


    https://sangodare.podia.com/

    alexispauline.com

    sangodare.com



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    25 mins
  • 32. Love Through The Dark
    Apr 26 2026

    In this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare explore the idea of the “dark night of the soul,” through poetry and a very literal dark-night story of their own. They offer three “North Stars” to help listeners return to love even through the darkness, and answer a listener question about a time they each had to “compost” habits and beliefs that did not serve their highest purpose.


    • Navigating spiritual Darkness with grace
    • Elks and Motel Madness
    • Composting Limiting Beliefs and Behaviour



    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534

    For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
    https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship

    And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1

    Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.



    RESOURCES


    https://sangodare.podia.com/

    alexispauline.com

    sangodare.com



    CONNECT WITH US


    Facebook

    Instagram

    Website



    Produced by Wowow Podcasts

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    25 mins