Dr. Rob and Tami answer participant questions about boundaries, chronic betrayal, and recovery timelines. They address the pregnant partner, the betrayed spouse with an STD, and the mother of teens who wants to keep her children from following down the path of addiction and betrayal.

TAKEAWAYS:

[1:30] Can ketamine EMDR help my betrayed wife?

[7:10] I'm pregnant. Should I stop checking in on his recovery?

[14:35] Boundaries are set to keep you safe.

[16:58] Why should he stop acting out when it has increased the intensity of our sex life?

[24:09] Can an addict like me actually come out of this on the other side?

[34:10] Am I really the victim?

[36:52] How can I build trust after chronic betrayal?

[40:26] He acted out in my one deal-breaker way. Now what?

[47:30] How do couples recovery from sexual betrayal and compromised health?

[50:48] How can I talk to my boys so they don't go down the same path as their father?

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss

Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss

Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss

Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss

Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.

QUOTES

• "He should be showing you with his actions when his recovery is solid."

• "He's going to do what he's going to do whether you ask or you don't."

• "You have to do what you need to do to take care of you regardless of what he does."

• "Addicts are always either moving forward in recovery or sliding back."