On this episode of Shoot Me Straight, Eddie and Dave sit down with Josh Vanderpool for a raw conversation about leadership, accountability, team dynamics, and what it really takes to earn respect in high-pressure environments.Josh shares what it was like operating in the chaos of war—living side by side with forces where harsh realities were unavoidable, and where decisions weren’t always black and white. That environment shaped how he views leadership today: not as control, but as the ability to operate in the gray and make sound decisions without constant direction.But this conversation goes deeper than the battlefield.Josh opens up about a pivotal moment during selection where he was nearly dropped—not because of performance, but because of how his team perceived him. Instead of blaming others, he took ownership. What followed was a shift in perspective that completely changed how he showed up—not just as a teammate, but as a leader.They break down the difference between leaders who micromanage and those who create independence, why self-awareness is one of the most important traits in elite teams, and how ego can quietly destroy trust if left unchecked.The conversation also dives into the importance of earning your place, respecting the process, and why certain standards exist for a reason. From calling out entitlement to reinforcing what it means to truly belong to something earned—not given—this episode challenges the mindset of shortcuts and surface-level commitment.At its core, this episode is about ownership—of your actions, your perception, and your role within a team. Because in the environments that matter most, you don’t get judged by what you say… you get judged by how you show up.This is a real conversation about leadership, humility, brotherhood, and becoming someone others can rely on when it counts.Josh Vanderpool MARSOC Marine Raider https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-j-vanderpool?trk=people-guest_people_search-cardhttps://jvanderpool.substack.com/podcastFollow Shoot Me Straight:Instagram: @shootmestraightAvailable on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple PodcastsPartners of the Shoot Me Straight Podcast:Elevated Silence– Use code SMASH15https://elevatedsilence.comFirecracker Farmhttps://firecracker.farmAqua Vitae IVhttps://aquavitaeiv.com

In this episode of Shoot Me Straight, we sit down with return guest Terry Wilson to talk about leadership, media narratives, faith, masculinity, and one of the biggest geopolitical topics in the news right now — the rising tension involving Iran.With so much misinformation online, we break down the reality from a veteran perspective and talk about the dangerous line between public opinion, influence, and the impact it can have on the men and women currently serving in the military.We also dive into:• The current Iran situation and what people are getting wrong• Why veterans need to be careful with influence online• Media manipulation and social media misinformation• Supporting troops even when you disagree with the war• Leadership lessons from combat• The problem with modern masculinity• Faith, discipline, and becoming a stronger manThis conversation is raw, honest, and exactly what Shoot Me Straight is about — real conversations that challenge how we think.If you enjoy conversations about leadership, faith, military experience, and current events, make sure to subscribe and join the discussion.Partners of the Shoot Me Straight Podcast:Elevated Silencehttps://elevatedsilence.comFirecracker Farmhttps://firecracker.farmAqua Vitae IVhttps://aquavitaeiv.com#Iran#CurrentEvents#Military#Veterans#Leadership#Masculinity#Faith#ShootMeStraight

On this episode of Shoot Me Straight, Dave sits down with David and Natasha Buchanan for an honest and deeply moving conversation about grief, remarriage, radical obedience, finances, and what it truly means to walk with the Holy Spirit.Both raised in Alaska, David and Natasha grew up learning independence, resilience, and grit. But their real story begins in heartbreak.Natasha was married to a Special Forces soldier who was killed in Afghanistan, leaving her a widow with two young daughters. In the middle of overwhelming grief, she leaned into her faith in a way that went far beyond comfort. She shares what it was like to explain loss to her children, to survive the early days of widowhood, and to wrestle with God in the aftermath of tragedy.Less than a year later, through what they believe was divine orchestration, she met David. Within months, they were married — stepping into a blended family, adoption, and a life built not on security, but obedience.This conversation goes far beyond their testimony. It explores what happens when you truly surrender control. David shares how he felt called not to take on clients in his construction business — and how provision showed up in unexpected ways. Natasha opens up about giving radically after loss, confronting her own mindset about money, and learning that stewardship isn’t about numbers — it’s about trust.They talk about pride, identity after loss, financial pressure, selling everything, and the tension between self-sufficiency and dependence on God. At its core, this episode challenges the idea that faith is about outcomes. Instead, they make the case that obedience itself is the victory — even when you never see the full picture.This is a raw conversation about grief, generosity, rebuilding after loss, and walking in relationship with the Holy Spirit in everyday life.Follow Shoot Me Straight:Instagram: @shootmestraightAvailable on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple PodcastsSponsorsElevated Silence – Use code SMASH15Firecracker FarmAqua Vida IV

In this episode of Shoot Me Straight, Dave sits down with Jose Aguilar for a raw and deeply personal conversation about addiction, sexual brokenness, childhood trauma, marriage, fatherhood, and radical redemption through faith.Jose shares his journey from growing up between Texas and Santa Rosa Beach, navigating poverty, instability, and early exposure to addiction — to battling cocaine use, alcohol, pornography, adultery, and pain medication dependency later in life.After surviving a devastating car accident that left him with a broken back, facing the weight of secret sexual sin, and nearly losing his marriage, Jose found himself at a breaking point.What followed was not instant change — but a slow, painful, honest process of confession, small groups, counseling, and surrender.In this episode, Jose opens up about: • Childhood sexual abuse and how it shaped his identity • Addiction to cocaine, alcohol, pornography, and pills • Infidelity and the cost of hidden sin • The power of confession and accountability • Small groups and church community as catalysts for change • Marriage restoration after betrayal • Becoming a father after being told they would never have children • Forgiveness, healing, and confronting generational traumaThis is an unfiltered conversation about shame, freedom, masculinity, sexual integrity, and why real transformation requires vulnerability.Jose also shares the emotional moment he finally told his father about the abuse he experienced as a child — and how that conversation became one of the most healing moments of his life.Content warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual abuse, addiction, infidelity, trauma, and recovery.If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone.Guest ContactJose Aguilar📞 (850) 428-3558Call, text, or leave a voicemail — he’s willing to talk.Follow Shoot Me StraightInstagram: @shootmestraightAvailable on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple PodcastsSponsorsElevated SilenceFirecracker FarmAqua Vida IV Therapy

In this Q&A episode of Shoot Me Straight, Eddie (@eddie_gallagher) and Dave (@davidfields22) tackle some of the most pressing and controversial questions sent in by listeners—covering politics, media manipulation, ICE operations in Minneapolis, the rapid rise of artificial intelligence, faith, fitness, marriage, leadership, and personal responsibility.

The conversation begins with a broader look at whether Americans are truly political or emotionally manipulated by media and social platforms, before shifting into a hard, unfiltered discussion on ICE operations and recent civilian deaths in Minneapolis.

Eddie breaks down why these situations are far more complex than headlines suggest, pointing to training deficiencies, escalation failures, and the danger of allowing politics to override accountability and common sense.

From there, the episode moves into technology and AI—whether it’s making people smarter or more dependent, how fast it’s advancing, and what that means for future jobs, intelligence, and human connection.

The second half of the episode turns inward and personal.

Eddie and Dave discuss the habits that still shape their lives today, the role of faith and discipline, lessons learned from marriage, leadership inside the home, and what it truly means to mature as a man.

Eddie also reflects on physical fitness as a lifelong non-negotiable and why preparation—mentally, physically, and spiritually—matters long after military service ends.

This episode is a wide-ranging, honest conversation about responsibility, discernment, growth, and finding peace in a culture addicted to chaos.

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In this episode of Shoot Me Straight, Eddie (@eddie_gallagher) and Dave (@davidfields22) sit down with Dennis Price, a retired Marine Force Recon Scout Sniper, Ranger, and founder of Heroes for Humanity, to talk about combat, faith, transition, trauma, and turning pain into purpose.Dennis shares his journey from growing up under the poverty line in Pennsylvania to serving nearly two decades in Marine special operations, including Force Recon, Scout Sniper, multiple combat deployments, and Ranger School. But this conversation goes far beyond military achievements.After a series of life-altering events, including being pulled from a Tier One unit, the birth of his daughter with rare medical conditions, a forced transition out of the military, and facing the darkest moment of his life, Dennis reached a breaking point. What followed was a radical transformation rooted in faith, responsibility, and service.That transformation led to the founding of Heroes for Humanity, a nonprofit organization conducting precision rescue missions, humanitarian aid, disaster response, and anti-human-trafficking operations around the world, while also helping veterans rediscover purpose after service.This is a raw, unfiltered conversation about leadership under pressure, losing identity after the uniform comes off, faith in the darkest moments, veteran suicide, and why service does not end with a DD-214.Content warning: This episode includes discussion of combat, war, suicide, trauma, and veteran transition challenges.Guest linksInstagram: @heroes.4.humanityWebsite: [https://TheHeroesForHumanity.org](https://TheHeroesForHumanity.org)Follow Shoot Me StraightInstagram: @shootmestraightAvailable on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple PodcastsSponsorsElevated SilenceFirecracker FarmAqua Vitae IV

In this episode of Shoot Me Straight, Eddie (@eddie_gallagher) and Dave (@davidfields22) sit down with Sam Brasfield(@droppedbomb), a retired Navy EOD officer with over 36 years of service, to talk about combat, leadership, transition, and finding purpose after the uniform comes off.Sam shares his journey from enlisted sailor to EOD officer, multiple combat deployments in Iraq, defusing hundreds of IEDs, and leading teams in some of the most dangerous environments in the world. But this conversation goes far beyond war stories.After retiring from the Navy, Sam hiked the Appalachian Trail as a way to decompress, reflect, and reset — a transition that reshaped how he views service, identity, and life after the military. That journey ultimately led him to his current mission: helping build Veterans Lodge, a first-of-its-kind campus focused on healing veterans and their families — mentally, physically, and spiritually.This is an honest, grounded conversation about leadership, purpose, faith, burnout, transition struggles, and why so many veterans feel lost after service — and what can actually help.⚠️ Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of combat, war, suicide, and veteran transition challenges.Watch. Listen. Decide for yourself.

Links: https://www.veteranslodge.com/https://www.facebook.com/share/1CpsCysymn/?mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://irp.cdn-website.com/f44b5a0d/files/uploaded/Veterans+Lodge+Brochure+Download.pdfhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/sam-brasfield?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app📌 TOPICS COVERED• Navy EOD & combat deployments• Defusing IEDs and car bombs in Iraq• Leadership and responsibility under pressure• Transitioning out of the military• Hiking the Appalachian Trail after retirement• Loss of identity, purpose, and direction• Veteran suicide & mental health• Faith, reflection, and personal growth• Veterans Lodge & helping veterans heal with their families📲 Follow Shoot Me StraightInstagram: @shootmestraightAvailable on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts

In this episode of Shoot Me Straight, Eddie (@eddie_gallagher) and Dave (@davidfields22) sit down with Kimberli (@kimberlih20s) Howard for one of the most emotional and powerful conversations we’ve ever had.Kimberly shares her life story — growing up in the LDS church, navigating guilt and shame, surviving sexual trauma, multiple marriages, and years of depression — before recounting the moment that changed everything: the sudden death of her five-year-old son, Keaton, in a tragic boating accident at Lake Powell.She opens up about the phone call no parent should ever receive, the guilt that follows unimaginable loss, and the long road through grief, trauma, and mental health struggles. This conversation also explores therapy, faith, plant medicine, identity, and what it means to rebuild your life after everything falls apart.This is a raw, honest discussion about loss, resilience, and learning how to live again after trauma.⚠️ Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of child loss, trauma, and suicide.Watch. Listen. Decide for yourself.📌 TOPICS COVERED• Losing a child in a boating accident• Grief, guilt, and trauma• Growing up LDS & religious shame• Depression, mental health & healing• Therapy, plant medicine & recovery• Finding purpose after loss📲 Follow Shoot Me StraightInstagram: @shootmestraightAvailable on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts