Last week I told you my story. This week I want to talk about yours.

Because whether you have been losing weight and feel strangely anxious about it, or you have been stuck and doing things in secret you would never do in the daylight, I think the same belief is running in the background. And once you see it, so much of the struggle starts to make a different kind of sense.

This episode is for two women. The one hanging on by her fingernails as the weight comes off. And the one in the CVS parking lot who does not fully understand why she keeps ending up there. Both of them are dealing with the same thing underneath. And this episode names it.

What You'll Learn in This Episode

• Why weight loss can feel dangerous even when it is working
• How the belief "it's not safe to be fully me" shows up differently depending on where you are in your journey
• Why secret eating is not a discipline problem and what it actually is
• Why you cannot lose your way into feeling worthy, and what actually changes the verdict
• The brain science behind why trying harder keeps backfiring
• How to start building safety one small honest choice at a time

Key Takeaway

You are not doing it wrong. You are covered. And there is a very big difference between those two things. The woman underneath the hiding, the patterns, and the protection has been there the whole time. The sun has been shining. This episode is about starting to let her out.

Listen If You've Ever Thought...

• "Why do I feel more anxious the more weight I lose?"
• "I keep eating in secret and I don't fully understand why."
• "I just want to feel normal around food."
• "I'll finally feel okay about myself when I reach my goal weight."
• "I know what I want to do. Why can't I just do it?"

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Your brain doesn’t care if you’re hungry. It just tastes SO good and you just want it.

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Also, check out my first book: You Are A Miracle

Have you ever felt like you've been holding back a part of yourself? Like there's a version of you that keeps almost showing up fully, and then something pulls you back.

You get a little smaller. A little more careful. A little more acceptable.

This episode is different from anything I've shared before. It's personal. It's honest.

I'm taking you inside a trip to California that turned into something much bigger than a work event. Through a coaching session in front of twelve people, a three hour kitchen table conversation with a Jewish rabbi, and a string of signs that were impossible to ignore, I came home with a declaration I've been afraid to make.

I'm done hiding. And I want to know if you are too.

What You'll Learn in This Episode

• What the "crime of outshining" is and why it might be running quietly in the background of your life
• Why a moment at a childhood birthday party shaped decades of playing small
• What a rabbi said about my book that stopped me in my tracks
• Why the light you're looking for has been inside you all along
• What it means to choose life, choose light, every single day

Key Takeaway

The safest thing you can possibly be is who God made you to be. Not the smaller, more acceptable, more careful version. The whole thing. This episode is me saying that out loud for the first time, and inviting you to consider where you might be doing the same thing I was.

Listen If You've Ever Thought...

• "I feel like I've been holding something back but I don't know what."
• "I'm afraid if I show up too fully, people will think I'm too much."
• "Why does being seen feel so scary, even when things are going well?"
• "I've been waiting for permission to just be myself."
• "I know there's more in me. I just don't know how to let it out."

Part 2 is coming next week. And it gets very specific about how all of this shows up in your weight loss. You won't want to miss it.

PS: Ever had that moment when you just WANT it?

Your brain doesn’t care if you’re hungry. It just tastes SO good and you just want it.

If that’s you, then download the guide I JUST WANT IT. IT TASTES SO GOOD at:

confidentbody.coach/wantit

Get the book my new book LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss

Also, check out my first book: You Are A Miracle

Somewhere between Friday night and Sunday afternoon, things went sideways.

Your brain found a crack in the rules and said, “Now's my chance.”

And by Monday you were standing in the kitchen feeling defeated, wondering how you ended up right back where you started.

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

The problem is that diet culture trained your brain to treat certain foods as forbidden. And forbidden things feel exciting the second no one's watching.

This episode is about understanding why that happens, and what to do instead.

We dig into the 6 most common mistakes that cause weight loss to fall apart, and why fixing them has almost nothing to do with what's on your plate.

What You'll Learn in This Episode

• Why your brain says "now's my chance" the second you're alone
• How treating your plan like a rulebook sets you up to fail
• Why all-or-nothing thinking turns one overeat into a whole day
• The real reason waiting for the perfect time keeps you stuck
• Why shame makes weight loss harder, not easier
• How self compassion is actually a more effective strategy than self criticism
• Why weight loss is more about how you think than what you eat

Key Takeaway

Food impacts your body exactly the same whether you're alone on a Saturday or sitting at a dinner table with your family. So if the rules feel different when no one's watching, the real work isn't about the food. It's about the story your brain is telling. And that story is worth getting curious about.

Listen If You've Ever Thought...

• "I was doing so well and then I just blew it."
• "Why do I eat things when I'm alone that I'd never eat otherwise?"
• "I'll start fresh on Monday."
• "I don't know why I keep doing this."
• "I just need more discipline."

PS: Ever had that moment when you just WANT it?

Your brain doesn’t care if you’re hungry. It just tastes SO good and you just want it.

If that’s you, then download the guide I JUST WANT IT. IT TASTES SO GOOD at:

confidentbody.coach/wantit

Get the book my new book LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss

Also, check out my first book: You Are A Miracle