The fight that won't close isn't behind you — it's inside you.

Every unresolved argument stays in the body as a low-grade stressor. It shows up as 3 AM wake-ups, tight chest, and exhaustion with no clear source. In this conversation, Dr. Danielle Zanzarov, PhD, sits with conflict resolution coach Rod Jeter — creator of YBAngry — to talk about what unfinished conflict actually costs the nervous system, and how his structured game helps couples resolve decades of disagreements in under an hour.

What this episode covers:

1. Why every unfinished argument registers as a stressor your nervous system is still running.

2. How the YBAngry game removes emotional charge from the most loaded conversations.

3. The specific steps that finally make people feel heard — sometimes after 30 or 40 years.

4. Why most people are worse communicators than they think, and what the game does differently.

5. Rod's three free tips to stop arguing, available now at ybangry.com.

About | Roderick "Rod" Jeter — Conflict Resolution Coach & Creator of YBAngry After traditional counseling failed, Rod created YBAngry (pronounced "Why Be Angry") — the relationship game where all you have to do to win is play. He designed YBAngry to help couples stay together, one issue at a time. Rod's game approach helps couples overcome seemingly insurmountable disagreements that have lasted decades, in just minutes. No fuss. No drama.

Resources mentioned:

Order the YBAngry Game: https://ybangry.com/?ref=DANIELLE-753B

YBAngry Website: https://ybangry.com/

3 Free Tips to Stop Arguing: Visit ybangry.com and scroll to the '3 free tips' link — enter your first name and email to receive a short video.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrrodjeter/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrrodjeter

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrrodjeter

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Why do you wake up at 3 AM every night and struggle to fall back asleep?

It's not insomnia the way you've been told — and it's not a character flaw. Your body is doing something specific in the early morning hours, on a clock.

If you fall asleep fine but snap awake at 3 or 4 AM with a racing mind — the to-do list, the worry, the thing you said years ago — this episode is for you. Dr. Z walks through what's actually happening: the early-morning cortisol rise, the overnight blood sugar dip, and a nervous system stuck in "survival mode" that reads all of it as a threat and pulls you wide awake at the lightest stage of sleep.

You'll learn why melatonin, blackout curtains, and "just relax" haven't worked, what your 3 AM wake-up is really signaling, and the daytime and evening shifts that actually lower the alarm — so your body stops treating a normal night like an emergency.

This isn't about forcing sleep. It's about helping a dysregulated nervous system feel safe enough to keep it.

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FREE GIFT: The 21-Day Nervous System Calibration is designed to help you begin shifting out of survival mode and back into a state of regulation. go.southbaywellness.com/calibration

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More than 80% of women in perimenopause and menopause never get adequate care — and the most common explanation for that number is almost entirely wrong.

The story we tell is that these women didn't advocate for themselves. That they stayed quiet, put everyone else first, didn't make the appointment. Dr. Z has sat across from thousands of these women over nearly 20 years in practice. Most of them did go. They made the appointment. They sat in the chair and said the hard thing out loud. They just got sent home with nothing.

In this episode, Dr. Z, PhD — functional medicine and nervous system regulation practitioner at South Bay Wellness — walks through what's actually behind the data, why the conventional system is structurally unable to see what perimenopause looks like on labs, and what it costs a woman psychologically when she's told everything is normal when her body is clearly saying otherwise.

In this episode:

1. Where the 80% figure actually comes from — including findings from a 2025 Mayo Clinic study on midlife women and menopause symptom treatment gaps, and what the lead researcher said about the current state of care.

2. Why women who did seek help still appear in the data as women who never sought care — and what that gap reveals about how the system counts what it misses.

3. What conventional labs are built to detect and why perimenopause falls structurally outside the range of what standard diagnostic panels can see.

4. The psychological cost of medical dismissal — why being told 'everything looks normal' doesn't just leave women without answers; it trains them to disbelieve their own internal signals.

5. What body-led care actually looks like: treating symptoms as signals worth reading, not malfunctions to silence or performance metrics to optimize.

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FREE GIFT: The 21-Day Nervous System Calibration is designed to help you begin shifting out of survival mode and back into a state of regulation. go.southbaywellness.com/calibration

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Most people have tried to change something about their health and watched it quietly fall apart by day nine — or day two. Not from a dramatic failure. Just a slow fade.

The common conclusion? You don't have enough discipline. You're not motivated enough. Something's wrong with you.

Dr. Z is here to correct the record.

In this episode, Dr. Z breaks down the actual mechanism behind follow-through — and it has nothing to do with willpower. Using the most boring example possible (brushing your teeth), she unpacks why the habits that stick are the ones you've stopped deciding about, and exactly how to apply that same logic to the health goals that keep falling apart.

What You Will Learn From This Episode:

1. Why willpower is a terrible foundation for any health plan — and what the research actually says about self-control fatigue

2. The daily decision trap: how turning your commitment into a recurring vote is a guaranteed path to quitting

3. Why "I'll do it when I feel motivated" is functionally a plan to fail

4. The five practical steps to make a new health habit automatic — starting embarrassingly small

5. The single most important rule when you miss a day (and you will miss a day)

If you've ever started a wellness program with real momentum and watched it dissolve into nothing — this episode is about what actually happened, and what to do instead.

Download your FREE TRUE Wellness Checklist here: https://go.drdee.com/checklist

FREE GIFT: The 21-Day Nervous System Calibration is designed to help you begin shifting out of survival mode and back into a state of regulation. go.southbaywellness.com/calibration

Schedule a FREE discovery call with Dr. Z and our team: https://go.southbaywellness.com/schedule-call

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Foundayo just got FDA approval. Which means a lot of women who never thought about a GLP-1 medication — because the needle was a hard no — are now thinking about one. The conversation in midlife wellness changed overnight.

In this solo episode, Dr. Z is not here to tell you whether to take a GLP-1. She's here to give you what she has not seen anyone else give you: a clinical, body-led framework for how to think about this decision before you make it. Not after.

What you'll discover in this episode:

1. Why the shift from injectable GLP-1s to an oral pill is changing who considers them, and why convenience is not a framework.
2. What these medications actually do in the body, what they cannot do, and why a quieter appetite is not the same thing as a healed system.
3. The numbers no one is putting in the marketing — including how much weight returns within a year of stopping, and what portion of what you lost was muscle.
4. Why midlife weight gain is rarely just about weight, and what a body-led conversation about it actually sounds like.
5. The five questions Dr. Z wants every woman to sit with before she makes a decision about a GLP-1 — so that whatever she decides, she decides it clearly.

Download The GLP-1 Conversation — Dr. Z's full briefing on the research, the lawsuits, what these medications do in the body, and what your body already knows how to do on its own: https://go.southbaywellness.com/glp

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FREE GIFT: The 21-Day Nervous System Calibration is designed to help you begin shifting out of survival mode and back into a state of regulation. go.southbaywellness.com/calibration

Schedule a FREE discovery call with Dr. Z and our team: https://go.southbaywellness.com/schedule-call

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Energy healing, emotional blocks, and nervous system release — what if the reason nothing is working isn't a strategy problem? What if you are not stuck — you are just blocked?

In this conversation, Dr. Z sits down with Stu Weintraub — shamanic and Reiki energy healer, TEDx speaker, founder of Waves of Love Wellness, and the creator of the Center for Child-Safe Divorce. Stu's work lives at the exact intersection of everything True Wellness explores: the body, the nervous system, emotional patterns, relationships, and the deeper question of what it actually means to live from the heart. His message is simple and profound: you are not broken. You are not stuck. You are blocked. And when those blocks are cleared — everything else the functional medicine, the supplements, the strategies — can finally work.

This is one of those episodes that meets you exactly where you are.

WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER

• Why unresolved emotion — grief, resentment, fear, heartbreak — can block physical healing even when you are doing everything else right

• What energy healing actually is, why the body is an electrical being, and how emotional splinters get embedded in the system over years of unprocessed experience

• Why self-love cannot be the starting point — and what has to come first before it can take root

• The hidden cost of identity collapse: what happens to high achievers when the title, the role, and the relationship are suddenly gone

• Why disconnection — from source, from each other, from the earth — is the root of most modern suffering, and what Stu's Waves of Love method does to restore it

ABOUT STU WEINTRAUB

STU WEINTRAUB is a shamanic / master reiki energy healer, social impact entrepreneur and TEDx speaker. In addition to being a “Warrior Peace-Advocate for Kids Caught in the Crossfire, Stu is the Founder of Waves of Love Wellness, The Center for Child-Safe Divorce and Waves of Love, International. His mission is to help people live, love and lead from their hearts.

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Limiting beliefs, midlife reinvention, self-sabotage, and inherited fears — what if the voice telling you to stay small was never even yours to begin with?

In this episode of TRUE Wellness with Dr. Z, Dr. Z sits down with Susan Houston — TEDx speaker, podcast host of Done Pretending, and the woman who walked away from a 19-year career to finally stop living under someone else's ceiling. Susan's work focuses on one of the most invisible forms of self-sabotage women experience: the secondhand beliefs, inherited judgments, and borrowed fears absorbed from parents, partners, and authority figures — mistaken for personal truth and carried for decades.

The perfectionism that started with a B+ on a third-grade report card. The identity swallowed by years of people-pleasing and caregiving. The inner critic that says you are too old, too much, or not ready — that belief was never yours to carry.This episode is for every woman in midlife, perimenopause, or menopause who feels that quiet inner nudge saying there is more — and has not yet given herself permission to go after it.

What You'll Discover:

1. What secondhand beliefs are — and how to tell the difference between an inherited limiting belief and an actual personal truth

2. Why the most dangerous inner critic is the one that sounds exactly like your own voice — and how to trace it back to its real source

3. How women in midlife are uniquely positioned to break free from self-imposed ceilings, reclaim their identity, and stop outsourcing their self-worth

4. Susan Houston's Four Truths framework for women who are done pretending — and what each truth reveals about where you actually are in your reinvention

5. Why fear is not a stop sign — it is often the clearest signal that you are walking directly toward your real purpose

Connect with Susan Houston:

Done Pretending Podcast — available on all major platformsMasterclass

+ 60-Day Cohort: thesusanhouston.com

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FREE GIFT: The 21-Day Nervous System Calibration is designed to help you begin shifting out of survival mode and back into a state of regulation. go.southbaywellness.com/calibration

Schedule a FREE discovery call with Dr. Z and our team: https://go.southbaywellness.com/schedule-call

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The information in this episode is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Dr. Z and her guests share perspectives and suggestions, not diagnoses or treatment. Always consult your own qualified provider.

Personalized nutrition, DNA testing, and nutrigenomics — the science that finally explains why the same diet, supplement, or caffeine habit works beautifully for one person and completely backfires for another. Dr. Z sits down with the researcher behind it all.

If you have ever followed all the right advice, eaten clean, taken the supplements, and still not gotten the results you were promised, this episode is the explanation you have been waiting for. Dr. Ahmed El-Sohemy, Professor of Nutritional Sciences at the University of Toronto and Founder of Nutrigenomix Inc., breaks down the science of nutrigenomics in plain language: how genetic testing is changing the way practitioners personalize care.

WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER

• What nutrigenomics actually is — and why it finally explains the maddening inconsistency of nutrition research
• The caffeine gene: why coffee increases heart attack risk in 50% of the population and lowers it in the other 50%
• MTHFR demystified: what this overhyped gene actually means, what it does not mean, and why folate intake can completely eliminate its risk
• Why your genes are not your destiny — and how the right dietary information can abolish even significant genetic vulnerabilities
• The micronutrients most people never test for — vitamin C, D, B12, choline — and why not knowing your genetic risk for deficiency is silently affecting your long-term health

ABOUT DR. AHMED EL-SOHEMY

With over 200 peer-reviewed publications and more than 400 invited talks delivered worldwide, Dr. El-Sohemy is one of the world's leading researchers in identifying genetic markers that predict individual response to dietary factors. He has served on Health Canada's Scientific Advisory Board and multiple international expert panels, and is the recipient of awards for research excellence from the Canadian Nutrition Society, the American College of Nutrition, and the American Nutrition Association.

Check out nutrigenomix.com

You can order your Nutrigenomix genetic test here: https://go.southbaywellness.com/geneticstest

Use coupon code TRUEWELLNESS at checkout to get $50 off your test.

Download your FREE TRUE Wellness Checklist here: https://go.drdee.com/checklist

FREE GIFT: The 21-Day Nervous System Calibration is designed to help you begin shifting out of survival mode and back into a state of regulation. go.southbaywellness.com/calibration

Schedule a FREE discovery call with Dr. Z and our team: https://go.southbaywellness.com/schedule-call

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The information in this episode is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Dr. Z and her guests share perspectives and suggestions, not diagnoses or treatment. Always consult your own qualified provider.