In this Episode, Dr Ebi Oginni starts with a song-

“Talk to Me” to encourage teens to reach out for help. Dr Ebi, a pediatrician and singer-songwriter, interviews life coach and NLP practitioner Jenny Jarvis, who discusses shifting from shouty, sanction-based parenting to listening, allowing mistakes, and ensuring teens can tell the truth without fear of punishment, plus apologizing when parents get it wrong.

They explore how school environments can be traumatic, issues like phones in schools, the need for teachers to build trust and show respect, and criticism of shaming behavior systems.

Jenny suggests safe-teacher supports, consistent mental health resources, asking students what they need, and simple breathwork, and emphasizes hope and connection in suicide prevention, along with parental self-care.

00:00 Welcome To The Project

00:54 Song Talk To Me

02:53 Emotive Music Interlude

06:13 Meet Jenny Jarvis

07:29 Project Mission Explained

10:04 Teen Focus And School Change

11:02 School Trauma And Phones

13:34 Home Strategy Listen First

18:33 Mistakes And Consequences

22:13 Apologize And Teacher Respect

27:57 Rethinking School Discipline

31:47 Parenting Different Kids

33:17 Kindness Is Strength

35:06 Mental Health Disclosures

37:40 Hugs And Boundaries

40:11 Safe Teacher Network

42:24 Practical Coping Tools

44:31 Validating Teen Dreams

48:34 When Life Feels Hopeless

52:26 Breathwork And Listening

56:54 Self Care And Wrap Up

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