• #226 - The Labor of Dying
    Jun 23 2026

    What if the hardest financial planning work isn’t about numbers—but sitting with someone who’s dying? Rose Zealand reframes birth and death as parallel forms of “labor,” involving both the individual and their circle of care. She exposes a critical gap in traditional planning: when a midlife diagnosis hits, technical advice collides with shock and emotional shutdown. As both CFP® and death doula, she works in that space—where timing matters more than urgency. Push too fast, and clients retreat. Move with readiness, and real progress begins. Her insight is clear: money shapes care, but presence and trust determine whether planning can actually happen.

    #FinancialPlanning #FinancialTherapy #EstatePlanning #EndOfLifePlanning #DeathDoula #CFP #FinancialAdvisor #CarePlanning #LegacyPlanning #LifeTransitions #MoneyAndEmotions #BehavioralFinance #FinancialWellness #PersonalFinance #FinancialEducation #Caregiving #TrustAndPlanning #ClientRelationships #MidlifeTransitions #FinancialConversations #MoneyMatters #EmotionalWellbeing #WealthPlanning #FamilyCare #FinancialProfessionals #FuturePlanning #FinancialHealth #LifePlanning #RoseZealand #LoveAndMoneyPodcast

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    30 mins
  • #225 - Training for the Moment Money Gets Messy
    Jun 9 2026

    Under the leadership of Dr. Megan Ford, the University of Georgia is training the next generation of financial therapists in a way few institutions can. Inside the Love and Money Center, financial planning students and couple and family therapy students learn side by side—sometimes even sitting together with real clients as money stress and relationship conflict unfold in real time. Rather than separating numbers from emotions, Dr. Ford’s model teaches future professionals how deeply intertwined they are and how to collaborate when those worlds collide. With low- to no-cost services for the community and structured supervision for students, this isn’t just interdisciplinary education—it’s the intentional shaping of a new profession

    #FinancialTherapy #FinancialTherapist #MoneyAndRelationships #FinancialPlanning #CouplesTherapy #FamilyTherapy #BehavioralFinance #MoneyMindset #FinancialWellness #FinancialEducation #UniversityOfGeorgia #FutureOfFinance #MoneyStress #RelationshipHealth #PersonalFinance

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    30 mins
  • #224 How IFS Helps Financial Planners Create Real Change
    May 26 2026

    Why do smart, capable people ignore advice they genuinely believe is good for them? In this episode, Joy Slabaugh—a CFP® and Certified Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapist—joins the conversation to explore why behavior change rarely comes from better information alone. Joy explains how IFS helps financial planners understand the internal conflicts people experience around money, and why working with “parts” often succeeds where logic, pressure, and persuasion fail. The discussion reframes the advisor’s role—not as fixing or convincing—but as facilitating self-led clarity, trust, and follow-through, offering a powerful framework that benefits both the people seeking help and the professionals who serve them.

    #financialtherapy, #behavioralfinance, #moneymindset, #internalfamilysystems, #IFStherapy, #moneypsychology, #financialplanning, #advisorlife, #clientbehavior, #behaviorchange, #emotionalintelligence, #selfleadership, #mindsetmatters, #moneyhabits, #financialwellness, #trusttheprocess, #innerwork, #clientrelationships, #financialadvisor, #psychologyofmoney, #decisionmaking, #humanbehavior, #moneycoaching, #professionaldevelopment, #advisorypractice

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    31 mins
  • #223 The Financial Industry’s Blind Spot – Trauma – with Joy Slabough
    May 12 2026

    What if some of our most persistent money problems aren’t budgeting issues at all—but trauma responses we’ve never named? This conversation pushes past polite financial talk and questions some deeply held beliefs: that healing has to hurt, that more money means more fulfillment, and that trauma is either everywhere or nowhere at all. Joy offers a sharp critique of both the financial industry’s emotional avoidance and the therapy world’s discomfort with money, arguing that both miss what’s actually happening in people’s nervous systems. The result is an unflinching look at how money becomes unsafe, why shame keeps people stuck, and how labeling—or mislabeling—trauma can either support healing or quietly sabotage it.

    #financialtherapy, #moneymindset, #moneytrauma, #traumainformed, #nervoussystem, #financialwellness, #emotionalwealth, #moneyandmentalhealth, #healingandmoney, #traumahealing, #moneybeliefs, #financialhealing, #shameandmoney, #psychologyofmoney, #mindsetshift, #innerwork, #emotionalintelligence, #wealthconsciousness, #moneyhabits, #financialfreedomjourney, #somatichealing, #selfawareness, #behavioralfinance, #moneystories, #healingjourney

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    29 mins
  • #222 The Emotional Wiring Behind Every Money Decision with Ed Coambs
    Apr 28 2026

    Money has a way of exposing parts of us we’d rather not see, and as Ed Coambs, CFP, CFT makes clear in this conversation, wealth doesn’t protect us from that. Together, Rick and Ed unpack why money anxiety grows right alongside income, how attachment styles quietly shape our financial decisions, and why couples keep having the same money fights no matter how smart or successful they are. Through personal stories and hard-earned insight, they reveal the uncomfortable true story behind money stress—it’s rarely about spreadsheets and strategies, and almost always about safety, shame, connection, and the emotional wiring we bring into every financial choice.

    #financialtherapy, #moneymindset, #moneyandrelationships, #attachmentstyles, #financialstress, #moneyanxiety, #couplesandmoney, #relationshipgoals, #emotionalintelligence, #behavioralfinance, #psychologyofmoney, #mentalhealthawareness, #traumainformed, #innerwork, #healingjourney, #moneyhabits, #financialwellness, #wealthmindset, #financialplanning, #moneycoach, #selfawareness, #growthmindset, #therapytools, #couplestherapy, #communicationmatters, #moneystory, #financialhealth, #personalfinance, #emotionalhealth, #mindsetshift

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    30 mins
  • #221 How Your Enneagram Type Is Running Your Money
    Apr 14 2026

    Most of our money struggles don’t start with numbers—they start with personality. In this conversation, Rick sits down with Khara Croswaite Brindle to explore how each Enneagram type relates to money in strikingly different ways. Achievers often tie worth to financial success, helpers give until their own security erodes, loyalists manage money through anxiety and vigilance, and enthusiasts stay focused on what’s next rather than what’s sustainable. Through stories, research, and lived experience, the discussion reveals that money behaviors are rarely about discipline or intelligence—they’re about protection. When we understand how our Enneagram type views safety, control, belonging, and freedom, money stops being a moral issue and becomes an invitation to self-awareness and compassion.

    #financialtherapy, #moneymindset, #enneagram, #enneagramtypes, #personalgrowth, #selfawareness, #moneystory, #behavioralfinance, #emotionalintelligence, #mentalhealthmatters, #therapytools, #innerwork, #healingjourney, #moneyhabits, #financialwellness, #mindsetshift, #traumainformed, #selfcompassion, #growthmindset, #moneymindsetcoach, #therapistsupport, #burnoutrecovery, #financialhealth, #psychologyofmoney, #wealthmindset, #personaldevelopment, #consciousliving, #moneyandemotions, #enneagramcoach, #financialfreedom

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    30 mins
  • #220 The Hard Truth Khara Croswaite Shares About Financial Therapy
    Mar 31 2026

    Financial therapy isn’t about having the right tools—it’s about having the courage to face your own money story first. In this conversation, Khara Croswaite speaks candidly about burnout, money avoidance, and the quiet damage that can happen when helpers skip their own inner work. Through her path from mental health therapy to financial therapy, a hard truth emerges: we can’t ethically ask clients to go places we refuse to go ourselves. Rick reflects on why vulnerability—not polish or credentials—is what builds trust, why so many therapists struggle with money in silence, and how financial therapy often becomes a second career precisely because it demands depth, humility, and lived experience.

    #FinancialTherapy #FinancialLifePlanning #MoneyPsychology #BehavioralFinance #HumanFirst #BeyondTheNumbers #InnerWork #MoneyStory #MoneyWounds #EmotionalMoney #EthicalPractice #DoYourOwnWork #SelfLeadership #InternalFamilySystems #IFS #PartsWork #SystemsThinking #FamilySystems #IntegrativePsychology #PersonalDevelopment #SelfAwareness #InnerClarity #EmotionalAwareness #HealingJourney #SelfDiscovery #FutureOfFinance #ProfessionalDevelopment #FinancialProfessionals #TherapistsOfInstagram #SecondCareer #PurposeDrivenWork #DeepListening #ClientCentered #MoneyAndRelationships #RelationshipPatterns #TrustBuilding #TransformationalConversations #BurnoutRecovery #TherapistBurnout #MoneyAvoidance #VulnerabilityInLeadership #AuthenticConversations #RealTalk #DeepConversations #ThoughtLeadership #HumanCentered #LivedExperience #FinancialWellbeing

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    31 mins
  • #219 - Stop Guessing Your Enneagram—Ask Your Parts Instead
    Mar 17 2026

    What if the fastest path to your Enneagram type wasn’t testing or theory—but listening to your parts? In this conversation, Rick Kahler and Enneagram veteran Joan Ryan explore a powerful, emerging approach: using Internal Family Systems (IFS) as a direct pathway to accurate Enneagram typing. Joan explains how the Enneagram offers a reliable map of core motivations, while IFS provides the method to investigate them from the inside—by working with managers, protectors, and long-held fears. Together, they show how identifying which parts prioritize certainty, bonding, or agency can reveal your true Enneagram center and type, often correcting years of mis-typing. It’s a client-led, curiosity-based process that replaces guessing with inner clarity—and deepens both personal growth and financial therapy.

    #Enneagram #InternalFamilySystems #IFS #PersonalityAndParts #SelfUnderstanding

    A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive our money decisions.
    Join Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT™, as he blends practical financial wisdom with the emotional insights that shape our choices. Discover how financial therapy can help you make money decisions that truly align with your values..

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    31 mins