Do you struggle with overcoming grudges or finding meaningful conversations that truly resonate with your soul?

In this episode, Jesse De Leon dives into the necessity of forgiveness and the importance of spiritual growth in our everyday lives. 🕊️ Jesse breaks down how gossiping can hinder our progress and how practicing the art of listening can open doors to unexpected friendships and new opportunities. From his recent encounter with a fighter pilot to his personal tips on maintaining a healthy, balanced lifestyle, Jesse provides a roadmap for anyone feeling stuck or searching for direction.

If you need a gentle nudge to let go of the past and embrace a future filled with peace, this episode is for you. Learn to silence the noise, focus on your potential, and cultivate stronger bonds with those around you.

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00:00 Introduction and Podcast Vision

01:12 The Power of Confession

03:50 Trusting the Holy Spirit

05:55 Overcoming Lingering Grudges

08:21 The Dangers of Gossip

11:20 Mastering Active Listening

13:13 The Fighter Pilot Story

14:38 Making New Friends

15:19 Skincare and Health Tips

16:59 The Importance of Reading

Host Jesse de Leon dives deep into the spiritual and emotional journey of coming out of the "dark closet" and into a life of authenticity. Using the story of King David and his own powerful experience in the confessional, Jesse explains how fear often acts as a barrier to our true purpose. 🕯️ This episode offers a compassionate roadmap for those struggling with guilt or feeling like a "perpetual liar," proving that your perceived imperfections are exactly where God's light wants to shine. Join us for a discussion that is as liberating as it is heartfelt. 🙏

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00:00 Introduction to The Knowing

01:05 Facing the Darkness of Shame

02:18 The Power of Vulnerable Confession

03:32 Lessons from the Anointing of David

05:40 Overcoming Fear and Running Toward the Roar

07:22 Living as Children of Light

08:21 Jesse's Journey: Coming Out of Secrecy

09:44 Healing Through Family Acceptance

10:45 Breaking Free from Addiction

12:15 Understanding Unanswered Prayers

13:40 The Freedom of Being Known by Friends

15:10 Men and the Courage to Love

16:15 Defeating the Shadows of Self-Loathing

17:35 Choosing to See the Heart of Others

18:10 Conclusion: Walking Together in the Light

Join Jesse de Leon for an uplifting discussion on the art of giving—not just of your resources, but of your time and your heart. Jesse reflects on his recent experiences supporting family and friends through the grieving process, offering a masterclass in "brutal honesty" vs. "loving truth." He shares a touching story about encouraging a widow to find her inner light and reminds us that love doesn't die just because a body does. This episode serves as a roadmap for anyone looking to deepen their relationships through intentional listening and selfless acts of service. Whether it's helping a neighbor or simply holding space for a friend's tears, you'll learn why every "little bit" of yourself you give matters more than you know.

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00:00 Introduction to The Knowing Podcast

00:52 Welcome back with Jesse de Leon

01:13 Asking the Question: Are You There?

01:39 Supporting a Sister Through Grief

02:29 The Sacred Power of Tears

03:32 Finding the Holy Spirit in Mourning

04:42 The Intuition of Visiting Family

05:22 Healing Properties of Nature and Gardening

06:44 The Importance of Energetic Reset

07:54 Listening to Strangers and Loved Ones

08:38 Honesty vs. Delivering Messages with Love

10:00 The Impact of Small Monetary Gifts

10:25 Honoring a Life at Funeral Services

12:23 Finding Hope in Lasting Love

13:49 Drawing Strength from Community Support

15:34 Why Memories Never Truly Fade

16:58 Actionable Steps for Meaningful Connection

17:49 Final Encouragement and Closing Remarks

Jesse de Leon gets honest about doubt, grace, and the emotional weight of guilt in this powerful episode of The Knowing. He tackles the hard questions: Why does God allow suffering? Why do we struggle to forgive ourselves? And why is faith so challenging even for believers?

Through stories about family, missed goals, personal slumps, and everyday setbacks, Jesse reminds us that belief doesn't require perfection—it requires hope. He explains how shame keeps us stuck, but grace allows us to rise again tomorrow. If you've fallen short in your fitness, relationships, faith, or purpose, this conversation will help you release the heaviness and move forward with courage.

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00:00 Why Is Faith So Hard?

01:15 What Is Faith & Grace?

02:30 The Gift You Can't See

03:25 Why Do Bad Things Happen?

04:30 Understanding God's Permitting Will

05:40 Parenting, Love & Letting Go

07:00 Faith During Life Transitions

08:45 Even the Disciples Doubted

10:20 Give Yourself Grace

11:30 Does Faith Mean Giving Up Fun?

12:45 The Power of Self-Forgiveness

14:15 Breaking Free From Shame

15:30 Falling Short of Goals

16:45 Slumps, Support & Accountability

17:45 Run Toward the Struggle

18:45 Receiving Unseen Grace

19:40 Start Again Tomorrow

How much are you willing to invest in your future health and happiness today? Jesse de Leon opens up about the reality of turning 62 and why he believes you are your own best investment. This episode dives into the crucial intersection of financial planning and physical well-being, urging listeners in their 20s, 30s, and 40s to start planning now. Jesse discusses the "rainy day" realities of home maintenance, the transition from expensive vintages to $15 wine gems, and the importance of whole foods over statins. He offers a vulnerable look at the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, admitting to times of overspending and the discipline required to course-correct. By looking at retirement through the lens of spirituality and common sense, Jesse provides a refreshing perspective on aging with grace and intention.

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00:00 Introduction to The Knowing Podcast

00:48 Facing the Reality of Retirement

01:13 Feeling Young While Turning 62

01:34 Health and Diet as Investments

02:14 Defining "Enough" for Your Future

02:48 Calculating Real Retirement Expenses

04:13 Lessons from My Younger Years

04:47 Creating an Expenditure List

05:15 Financial Discipline for Self-Employed

06:05 Investing in the Stock Market

06:55 Advice for the Next Generation

07:44 Being Vulnerable About Financial Mistakes

08:24 Cutting Costs Without Losing Quality

09:46 Navigating Social Security and Medicare

10:30 Seeking Advice from Financial Experts

11:23 Power of Community and Feedback

12:05 Health Habits for Longevity

13:00 Identifying What Makes You Happy

13:58 Take Action and Final Blessings

Feeling unsafe during a conflict usually leads to one of two things: explosive anger or total withdrawal. Jesse de Leon explores the middle path in this moving episode, documenting his journey from "shutting down" to standing his ground with grace. Jesse discusses the importance of eye contact, active listening, and the bravery required to call out inappropriate behavior in real-time. Whether it's a sibling, a partner, or a lifelong friend, the people who matter most deserve your honesty, not your absence. Tune in to hear how Jesse navigated a heated debate to reach a place of mutual respect and renewed trust.

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00:00 Welcome to The Knowing Podcast

00:48 Power of Empowering Conversations

02:00 Crucial Conversations Book Review

03:00 Childhood Impact on Communication

04:00 Tools for High-Stakes Talking

05:10 The Christmas Eve Conflict

06:45 Managing Anger and Confusion

07:50 Addressing Conversation Hijacking

09:25 Value of Vulnerability

10:45 Breaking Old Habit Patterns

11:55 Handling Abrupt Communication

13:40 Learning Assertiveness Skills

15:05 Repairing vs Running From Conflict

16:40 Role Models in Communication

18:15 Healing Relationships Through Action

20:25 Staying in Important Relationships

21:40 Final Thoughts and Resources

Stepping into a room with confidence doesn't mean you are without fear; it means you are acting despite your doubts. Host Jesse de Leon explores the fascinating gap between how the world perceives us and how we truly feel inside. After a period of feeling uncharacteristically down, Jesse rediscovered his spark by challenging himself to meet one new person every day—proving that most people are just waiting for someone else to be brave enough to say "hello" first. This episode offers a refreshing look at finding joy in the mundane, from hot cocoa on New Year's Eve to the power of a well-fitted pair of Wranglers. Join us for a discussion on why spiritual health and internal joy are the ultimate foundations for a life well-lived.

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00:00 Introduction to The Knowing

00:46 Defining True Confidence

02:03 Observing Confidence in Public

02:58 ChatGPT Definition of Confidence

03:47 Projecting Images vs. Reality

04:20 A Low-Key New Year's Eve

05:58 Overcoming Post-Holiday Depression

06:58 Starting Resolutions in October

08:02 Overcoming Social Anxiety

09:02 The Power of Saying Hello

10:05 Confidence Beyond Designer Labels

11:51 Don't Let the Car Fool You

12:48 Finding Joy Within

14:05 Prayer for Minnesota and Compassion

15:03 Final Blessings and Farewell

In this episode I talk about what Christmas means for me, the highs and the lows of coming home for the holidays, how giving doesn't have to cost a thing, and more.