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The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

By: Lori Sims & David Sims
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Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.All Rights Reserved © 2019-2024 The Nacho Kids Podcast™ by Nacho Kids® LLC Parenting & Families Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • 360: Stepmom Becomes Only Legal Parent to Stepdaughter
    Apr 24 2026

    In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Valerie Mills shares her remarkable story of becoming a stepmom who ultimately adopted her stepdaughter, overcoming immense obstacles and heartbreak along the way.

    Listeners will journey with Valerie Mills as she details the emotional and legal complexities of her family's story, from rescuing her stepdaughter from a difficult home environment at age 7, to navigating the revolving door of foster care, facing her own battle with cancer, and overcoming domestic abuse. Hear how Valerie Mills fought for custody, the surprising ease of the adoption process as a single parent, and the pivotal moments where unconditional love triumphed over adversity.

    This episode covers:

    • The unique challenges of blended families and step-parent adoption

    • Navigating the foster care system and the importance of stability for traumatized children

    • Open, candid discussions about mental health, resilience, and healing after trauma

    • The power of chosen family and how more love supports a child's growth

    You'll also hear touching anecdotes about mother-daughter dynamics, ongoing struggles with biological parents, the importance of extended support systems, and practical tips for anyone considering adoption or dealing with family court.

    Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this inspiring story with someone who needs to know they're not alone on this journey!

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    41 mins
  • 359: Building a Custody Case Against Narcissistic and Abusive Co-Parents
    Apr 17 2026

    Challenging custody battles, high-conflict co-parents, and courtroom chaos, this episode dives deep into the realities protective parents face, with real strategies for fighting for your child's best interests. Join Renee Rodriguez and her expert guest for a powerful and practical conversation.

    In this insightful episode, Renee Rodriguez welcomes a seasoned custody consultant, the creator of The Custody Blueprint, to discuss the complex and emotionally charged world of family court. Listeners will gain clear, actionable guidance on navigating custody disputes with high-conflict or abusive co-parents: from organizing evidence and building a compelling case to understanding the dynamics of narcissistic behavior, dealing with biased or uninformed legal professionals, and securing the best outcome for their children.

    Key topics include:

    • What it really means to be a "protective parent" versus being labeled "high-conflict"

    • Why 50/50 custody isn't always in the child's best interest

    • Strategies for collecting and presenting the right evidence in court

    • The critical importance of clear, specific parenting plans

    • The emotional and systemic hurdles parents face, and how to overcome them

    You'll also hear real-life experiences from both the host and her guest, covering issues like breastfeeding and overnight custody, medical neglect, and the challenges of getting the court to see behind the facade of an abusive co-parent.

    Guest Links & Resources:

    • Website: TheCustodyBlueprint.com

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • 358: Mother's Day Doesn't Have to Suck
    Apr 10 2026

    Mother's Day is almost here, and stepmoms everywhere are bracing for the rollercoaster of emotions that this Hallmark holiday can bring. In this honest, lighthearted episode, Lori & David break down the myths, expectations, and real stories behind recognition, or lack thereof, on Mother's Day and Stepmother's Day in blended families.

    In this episode:

    • Why communication about expectations is crucial (hint: don't assume your partner or stepkids know what you want!)

    • How to navigate feelings of disappointment or being overlooked, and practical tips to prevent "getting butt hurt twice"

    • Real-life experiences with gifts, love languages, and candid stories about not being recognized—and creative ways stepmoms can celebrate themselves

    • The history behind Mother's Day and why even its founder came to regret it

    • Advice on handling grief and mixed emotions if you're missing your own mom or struggling with the holiday

    Whether you're a stepmom, stepdad, or simply navigating new traditions in your blended family, this is your annual reminder to communicate with your partner, lower expectations and appreciate yourself for all you do.

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    22 mins
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