Ps Candice Chicken continues our Us – Growing Greater Relationships series with a powerful message on the difference between relationship breakers and relationship builders.

In a world that often pushes selfishness, grudges, hurtful words, and distracted listening, Jesus shows us a better way to live and relate. This message unpacks four relationship breakers that damage connection, and four relationship builders that bring healing, strength, and unity.

In this message, you’ll discover how to:
• Put others first instead of living “me first”
• Extend grace instead of holding grudges
• Use words to build up instead of tear down
• Listen with your heart instead of being distracted

Ps Candice reminds us that healthy, life-giving relationships do not happen by accident. They are built as we follow the example and teaching of Jesus. With practical daily questions and simple habits, this message helps you identify one area to work on and start making changes immediately.

This sermon also carries a heartfelt call to reconciliation — not only with others, but ultimately with God. Through the story of a father and son restored after years of distance, we’re reminded that it’s never too late for healing, forgiveness, and peace.

If you’re longing for stronger relationships, deeper connection, and a more Christ-centered way of living, this message is for you.

Let Jesus show you a better way to build.

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Friendship might be one of the most overlooked gifts God has given us.

In this message, Ps Byron Chicken unpacks insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development—an 80-year study that found the single greatest predictor of a good life is not wealth, success, or fame, but friendship. Deep, meaningful relationships shape our joy, resilience, health, and ability to walk through hard seasons well.

But in today’s culture, real friendship is under pressure. We live in what many call a “friendship recession”—a time marked by busyness, disappointment, emotional exhaustion, shallow digital connection, and the breakdown of the natural structures that once helped friendships grow.

Through Scripture and the story of the paralyzed man carried by his friends to Jesus in Mark 2, this message reminds us that friendship is worth fighting for. Real friends carry us when we are weak, help us overcome obstacles, and move us closer to Jesus.

Ps Byron shares practical wisdom on how to build close, life-giving friendships using the acronym C.L.O.S.E.:

Consistency – Show up regularly and stay present
Likeness – Build around shared interests and common ground
Openness – Be vulnerable and honest
Shared Space – Prioritise face-to-face connection
Engagement – Show genuine interest in one another

This message is both a challenge and an encouragement: pray for godly friendships, choose to become a better friend, and don’t let disappointment stop you from receiving one of God’s best gifts.

You don’t need more connections. You need a few people who will walk with you until you become who God has called you to be.

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What comes out of you when life squeezes you?
In this message, Ps Hein Bruyns shares a powerful truth: healthy relationships start with personal healing. Too often we blame others, our past, or our pain for what spills out of us—but Jesus shows us that what’s inside our hearts eventually shapes every relationship around us.

In Us Starts With Me, Hein unpacks how blame blocks healing, why our relationships bear the fruit of what’s happening inside us, and how Jesus invites us into real restoration. This message is honest, practical, and full of hope for anyone wanting stronger marriages, friendships, family relationships, and inner wholeness.

If what’s broken in us can eventually break us, then what’s healed in us can eventually heal us.

In this episode:

• Why blame keeps us stuck
• How inner pain affects outer relationships
• What Jesus teaches about healing the heart
• Why healing starts with taking responsibility
• How to come to Jesus for real restoration

3 practical ways to pursue healing:

• Come to Jesus with authenticity
• Reveal your struggles in safe community
• Keep returning to His presence

Key Scriptures:
Luke 6:43–45
Matthew 7:1–6
Matthew 11:28–30
James 5:16
Psalm 145:18

This message will encourage you to stop fixing your eyes on everyone else, bring your heart honestly to Jesus, and let Him begin a work of healing that overflows into every part of your life.

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