If we are open to improve, the Scriptures will guide us and God’s family will help by providing the example and godly reproof and correction as needed. There are two types of mourning or shame; (1) Godly and healthy, and (2) Worldly and toxic. The first inspires change and the second causes resentments, guilt, condemnation and escapism.

2 Timothy 3:15-17 doctrine – reproof – correction

Proverbs 12:1; 15:10 the person who hates reproof is stupid

Matthew 19:16-22 the rich man was not open to improve

1 Kings 12:1-19 Rehoboam did not receive wise counsel

2 Corinthians 7:8-11 the Corinthians received reproof and correction and changed. Right sorrow can cause transformation and change.

Two kinds of sorrow – (1) Godly sorrow causes godly change and (2) Worldly sorrow causes guilt, isolation, condemnation and usually escapism.

Biblical education and godly community are important to develop conscience and character.

1 Corinthians 6:2, 3, 9, 15, 16 Paul taught them during the 18 months he was with them so why the negative lifestyle change? The culture of Corinth continued to exert a strong influence on the believers. Rather than transforming their society, many of the saints were being shaped by it. The values, practices, and attitudes of the surrounding pagan culture had begun to infiltrate the church, producing the very problems that Paul was compelled to confront in his letter.

How do we help others to change? Two kinds of shame – toxic and healthy

1 Corinthians 1:1-9 he built them up, did not belittle, tear down, reject; rather he loved them and reminded them of who they really are in Christ.

Luke 10:17-24 Jesus is the example

Luke 10:38-42 Martha, Martha

Hebrews 10:22-25 we need the word and each other

If we are open to improve, God will help through His Word and people.

Rev. Vince uses the Bible version NASB-95