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Weslee Weighs In

Weslee Weighs In

By: Weslee and Bailey Parker
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Weslee Weighs In is where combat sports collide with married life. Hosted by BJJ duo Weslee and Bailey, this podcast dives into MMA, boxing, judo, gym culture, and all things fight-related--with plenty to spicy banter, honest hot takes, and real-life couple debates. Whether you're on the mats or just on the couch yelling at the judges, you're in the right corner. New episodes drop semi-weekly!Weslee and Bailey Parker
Episodes
  • Greg Souders & the Constraint Led Approach (CLA)
    Jun 30 2026

    In this episode, we sit down with the founder of Standard Jiu Jitsu and ecological approach advocate Greg Souders for a deep dive into the constraints-led approach to training and skill acquisition. Greg breaks down why so many coaches struggle to let go of step-by-step instruction, how to design training that actually creates learning, and why the athlete’s responsibility matters just as much as the coach’s.

    The conversation moves from the theory of CLA into practical coaching insights for both adults and kids, including how to adjust constraints, how intensity affects learning, and why not every athlete needs the same environment to improve. We also dig into the differences between beginner and advanced rooms, training for competition, and how to prepare athletes for the uncertainty of high-level opponents without trying to over-control the outcome.

    The episode also explores broader questions around youth sports, long-term development, and the role of desire, maturity, and experience in becoming an "elite" athlete. Along the way, Greg shares thoughtful perspectives on coaching culture, the limits of language, and how to create meaningful learning experiences that keep athletes engaged and improving.

    If you’re interested in jiu-jitsu, coaching, or the science behind how people actually learn, this conversation is full of practical ideas and big-picture insight.

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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • Alysa Couce of Jits & Giggles
    Jun 16 2026

    This week we're joined by Alysa Couce from the Jits & Giggles Podcast for a fun crossover episode full of stories from behind the microphone and on the mats.


    Alysa shares how she got started in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, how the Jits & Giggles podcast was born, and some of her favorite and most memorable interviews.


    We dive into what it was like talking with legends and rising stars such as Gabi Garcia, Ffion Davies, Helena Crevar, and Tom DeBlass, and Greg Souders.


    Of course, we couldn't let Alysa leave without putting her through a couple challenges. We hit her with some hot takes and a blind ranking challenge on gym attributes that goes hilariously wrong.


    Whether you're a fan of Jits & Giggles, love hearing stories from top athletes, or just enjoy a good BJJ conversation, this is one you don't want to miss.

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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Master International Gold + Building Your Best Pre-Comp Routine
    Jun 2 2026

    Bailey is back from Master International with GOLD, so we're recapping the tournament, Adult Worlds, and what it was like reffing a recent local tournament (spoiler: we have thoughts).


    Then we get into the main topic: pre-competition routines. What actually makes a good one, what doesn't, and why trying to copy someone else's routine may not be the move.


    We talk through how our own routines have evolved over time, mistakes we've made, and practical things competitors can experiment with to manage nerves, lock in, and show up feeling ready to perform. We also talk about how the goal is not to get rid of nerves, but to regulate them and get into your own individual zone of performance, a concept supported by studies in sports psychology.

    Whether you're over nervous, too relaxed, overthinking everything, or just trying to feel more consistent on comp day, this episode is packed with ideas to try before your next tournament.



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    1 hr and 21 mins
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