A pigeon pooped in my eye.

And somehow my first thought was “Wow. I’m so lucky!”

In this video, I’m sharing two moments that completely changed how I see luck. From getting pooped on (LITERALLY) to almost getting hit by a car (SCARY!) and why the meaning you assign to things matters more than what actually happens.

In todays episode we talk about:

• Why luck isn’t as random as you think

• How your perception shapes your reality

• The difference between “good” and “bad” events

• How to reframe situations in real time

• Why you create your own luck through how you show up

Because the same situation can feel like a disaster… or a strange kind of gift.

If you’ve ever felt like life is just happening to you, this conversation might shift how you see everything.

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🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA

Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my now 30s and show the world that it's never too late to live your dreams.

#growthmindset#lifeadvice#selfimprovement#storytime

Some days you’re all in, other days you’re asking yourself… What’s the F**king Point?

Whether you’re pursuing ballet as an adult or trying to follow a dream that feels uncertain or even slightly delusional, this episode is for those days!

These are the books that helped me SHIFT my mindset and REBUILD motivation, when I felt stuck, discouraged and ready to quit.

We’re talking about powerful reads like Atomic Habits, The Obstacle Is the Way, and The Artist’s Way, plus a few that go deeper into mental health, relationships, and understanding your own beautiful self!

---> WATCH "How I Became an 'Unpaid Professional' Dancer" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1dRcxeF_i4

---> WATCH Art Therapy Podcast about the Artist's Way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yn89sy8LI_I&t=3235s

Books mentioned:

• Feeling Great - David Burns
• Why Does he do That? - Lundy Bancroft
• Mindset - Carol Dweck
• The Obstacle is the Way - Ryan Holiday
• Atomic Habits - James Clear
• The Artist’s Way - Julia Cameron
• The Let Them Theory - Mel Robbin’s
• Big Magic - Liz Gilbert
• Turning Pro - Steven Pressfield (E-BOOK)
• Spark - John J. Ratey

If you’re an aspiring ballerina, an adult beginner, or just someone trying to stay committed to a dream that doesn’t come with instant results, these books will support you through all the sleepless nights.

🎥 Watch WTFP on YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL89lzsALZuYEvobuqHwHPF2vUO3KOeyzN

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🩰 LOVE ADULT BALLET?

The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up here:

https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-s...

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🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY? ⇢ For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here: E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com

🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA

Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my now 30s and show the world that it's never too late to live your dreams.

Have you ever worried that everyone is already miles ahead of you and there’s absolutely no space left for you?

Today we're going to talk about why you don't have to worry about that. Because in reality, very few people actually start…and even fewer stay consistent long enough to get good.

So in this episode, we break down:

• Why the “competition” isn’t what you think it is
• How most people never even try (or quit early)
• The difference between working hard and comparing yourself to others
• Why not getting what you want isn’t always a loss
• Learning to trust redirection instead of resisting it

Because sometimes disappointment is exactly what puts you where you need to be.

If you’re starting ballet as an adult or struggling with comparison and scarcity mindset, this conversation will help you shift your focus back to what actually matters: your own path.

🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL89lzsALZuYEvobuqHwHPF2vUO3KOeyzN

🩰 STARTING LATE?

Sign up for my FREE guide: The Late Bloomer's COMPLETE Guide to Your First Ballet Class (everything you need to know before, during & after no matter your age or where in the world you are) -

https://mailchi.mp/83da9815d472/late-...

🩰 LOVE ADULT BALLET?

The Slipper Edit is my virtual magazine that explores the intersection of dance & style. Each month we explore a different topic with moodboards, inspiring stories & more every Thursday. It's 100% free so sign up here:

https://mailchi.mp/3b9b39eb3c79/the-s...

🩰 LET'S STAY IN TOUCH

⇢ INSTAGRAM- https://www.instagram.com/veronicavacanza/

🩰 HOW CAN I CONTACT YOU DIRECTLY?

⇢ For business inquiries and all else, please contact me here: E-MAIL - hello@veronicavacanza.com

🩰 HI, I'M VERONICA VACANZA

Hi there! I'm Veronica, welcome to my beginner dance journey. When I was 17, I was told by a teacher that I would never be a ballerina. I let that thought control me for YEARS but now, in my late 20s, I moved to New York City and I'm finally starting ballet late. This is a space for me to document the ups and downs of learning how to do ballet in my now 30s and show the world that it's never too late to live your dreams.