Coaching as Benevolence

L' Shawn and Eryn conduct discuss prompt six in section 2 from their journal series focused on exploring heart space and ways of being. L' Shawn imagines her heart space as a luxurious palatial estate with nature surroundings where people could retreat and connect with their bodies. Eryn shares how her recent cardiac CT scan results were unexpectedly positive, leading her to explore how physical and metaphorical heart spaces intersect, while they both discuss how opening one's heart space can lead to healing, vulnerability, and helping others despite the counterintuitive nature of embracing pain to find strength.

L' Shawn and Eryn focus on journal prompt 5 in section 2 of their guided journal. The prompt is about grief and authenticity in supporting loved ones who are grieving. L' Shawn shares a personal story about losing a friend named Angus who died unexpectedly in Italy, discussing how geographic distance made the grieving process more complex and how Eryn's coaching helped her process the grief authentically rather than feeling pressure to be helpful or strong. Eryn reflects on the complexity of grief, particularly how family dynamics can complicate the grieving process and the importance of being seen in one's grief, while also discussing how grief can lead to spiritual transformation and a different relationship with concepts like fate. The conversation explores how grief experiences can be both challenging and transformative, with Eryn sharing how her own significant loss led to personal growth and a deeper appreciation for mystery and spirituality.

Eryn and L' Shawn conduct a guided journal discussion on prompt number 4 in the second section of their guided journal, "Coaching Nuggets of Wisdom to Inspire. Explore. Act. Flourish: A guided journal to live your best life." This section focuses on deeper exploration of their ways of being in the world and the prompt looks at emotional resilience. The prompt introduces the concept of buoyancy as having inner strength and emotional resilience to rise again after challenges, emphasizing that it's not about never sinking but always finding a way to come back up. Eryn and L' Shawn discuss their experiences with staying buoyant during challenging situations. L' Shawn explains how she practices staying buoyant by acknowledging emotions without judgment and focusing on the present moment, using the metaphor of a buoy in water to illustrate how she can realign herself when feeling overwhelmed. Eryn describes a recent situation in a business meeting where she had to recognize and process anger before responding, demonstrating growth in her ability to stay buoyant. They discuss how humor can be used as a tool for disrupting depressive cycles and providing relief after difficult situations.