What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live?

In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need.

I'm sitting down with the fabulous sex, relationship, and intimacy coach Jamie Azar to unpack the concept of compulsory sexuality. We're talking about why this idea flies under the radar, how it affects everyone (including sex coaches), and why saying "no thanks" to sex can be one of the most radical things you do. Whether you're asexual, going through a dry spell, or just feeling the pressure to perform, this conversation is your permission slip to do pleasure on your own terms.

We talk about:

- what compulsory sexuality is and how it shows up everywhere

- why not wanting sex doesn't mean that there’s something wrong with you

- the difference between sexual liberation and sexual obligation

- how to deal with mismatched desire in a relationship

- expanding your definition of sex and intimacy

- centring pleasure over performance

If you've ever felt like you're doing something wrong for not prioritizing sex, this episode is for you. Let's get curious about what actually feels good and not what we're told should feel good.

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Being a bad bitch isn't just about looking cute and doing self-care. It's about showing up for what you think is right, walking away from what's not working for you, and speaking the fuck out.

In this episode, I sit down with comedian, actress, and Bad Bitch Brunch creator Brittany Brave to talk about what it really means to embody confidence in every area of your life, including the bedroom. Brittany shares how she took back Bad Bitch Brunch from a misogynistic business owner, why she's an advocate for intimate partner violence survivors, and what she'll teach her future daughter about sex, agency, and consent.

This conversation gets real about domestic violence, sexual performance pressure, and betting on yourself as the foundation for everything.

We talk about

• what being a bad bitch actually means

• using comedy as reclaiming power after domestic violence

• Bad Bitch Brunch and creating spaces for women and queer talent

• dropping the sexual performance anxiety and just enjoying yourself

• why "I gave it up too soon" is patriarchal bullshit

• communication and consistency as the ultimate turn-ons

• raising daughters with body autonomy and sexual agency

• teaching consent, not shame

If you've been performing instead of enjoying, people-pleasing instead of speaking out, or wondering what confidence actually looks like in practice, this episode will remind you that being a bad bitch starts with betting on yourself.

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Website: https://www.brittanybrave.live/

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From vibrator myths to dating app disasters, we're breaking down what sex education actually missed.

In this episode, I sit down with licensed psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Sonya Maya to bust myths, challenge performative sexuality, and talk about what real pleasure actually looks like. Sonya breaks down why chemistry does not equate to compatibility, how vibrators actually build nerve endings (not numb them out), and why that whole "if he wanted to, he would" narrative is more nuanced than what other “experts” are trying to put it.

This conversation gets into the science of hormones during sex, the difference between swingers spaces and ethical non-monogamy communities, and why social media is both helping and hurting our sex lives.

We talk about

• why sex is so much more than penis-in-vagina penetration

• why simultaneous orgasms are rare and shouldn't be the goal

• the myth that vaginas get loose from sex (they don't)

• body count, slut-shaming, and why that question reveals more about the asker

• how porn warps our expectations of real sex

• why removing expectations is actually the sexiest thing you can do

If you've been scrolling TikTok for sex advice, watching porn as your primary sex education, or trying to figure out why your dating life feels hollow, this episode will shift your perspective on what good sex actually requires.

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Website: https://www.sonyamaya.com/

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What if understanding your cycle could make you better in bed, more confident in your body, and more connected to your pleasure?

In this episode, I sit down with fertility awareness educator Kate Douglas to explore how tracking your cycle isn't just about baby-making or avoiding pregnancy, it's about understanding when you're at your most creative, confident, and yes, turned on. Kate breaks down how hormones affect everything from your libido to your skin to who you want to have sex with, and why knowing where you are in your cycle can transform your intimate life.

This conversation goes beyond basic biology into why cervical fluid is nature's lube and how becoming cycle literate can help you communicate what you need in and out of the bedroom.

We talk about

• how your hormones affect libido, who you're attracted to, and when you're most turned on

• why cervical fluid is nature's lube and what it tells you about your body

• the two biomarkers you need to track: cervical fluid and basal body temperature

• ovulation as creative and sexual energy, not just a fertility event

• how cervical fluid is literally a sperm snack (you'll never forget this)

• myth busting: day 14 ovulation, feeling ovulation, and textbook cycles

• why hormones don't make you unstable (they make you dynamic and cyclical)

If you've ever wondered why your sex drive changes throughout the month, felt disconnected from your body, or want to understand what your hormones are doing to your libido and confidence, this episode is your invitation to start listening to what your body is telling you.

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Website: https://helloearthbody.com/

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Pussy worship isn't just about technique. It's about enthusiasm, devotion, and creating a space where pleasure is mutual and unapologetic.

In this episode, I sit down with psychologist, sexologist, and host of In Bed with Alexa, Alexa Andre. She talks about what real pussy worship looks like, why enthusiasm beats technique every time, how to identify true eaters versus people just going through the motions, and what it takes to receive pleasure without guilt or performance anxiety.

This conversation is a permission slip to want more, ask for more, and settle for nothing less than worship.

We talk about

• ​identifying red flags versus green flags in sexual partners
• ​how to receive pleasure without getting in your head
• ​the play lab concept for exploring techniques and preferences together
• ​reassurance, communication, and creating safe spaces for pleasure
• ​integrating toys into pussy worship
• ​why "are you satisfied?" is the most important question after sex
• ​raising your standards and refusing to settle for mediocre sex

If you've been settling for obligation when you deserve devotion, or if you've been wondering whether real pussy worship even exists, this episode will change how you think about pleasure, reciprocity, and what you deserve in the bedroom.

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What happens when we stop whispering about desire and start telling the truth about it?

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I’m joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Read Aurore, a platform dedicated to sharing real, confessional erotica. Not fantasy wrapped in perfection, but honest stories about sex, longing, curiosity, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human in a body.

We talk about why storytelling can be such a powerful gateway to understanding our desires, how writing about pleasure can shift shame into self-awareness, and why seeing real experiences reflected back to us can feel both liberating and deeply validating.

This conversation explores how erotica can be more than entertainment. It can be a tool for self-discovery, communication, and reclaiming pleasure on our own terms.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What makes real erotica different from traditional romance or fantasy

• Why writing about sex can be a powerful form of self-discovery

• The connection between storytelling, desire, and empowerment

• How reading real experiences can normalize pleasure and reduce shame

• What happens when women start telling the truth about their sexuality

If you’ve ever been curious about erotica, or wondered why stories can feel so powerful when it comes to desire, this episode opens the door to a whole new way of thinking about pleasure.

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