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This is the 2nd day of my 12 day podcast marathon, and I want to wish you a very happy 4th of July, a very happy 250 birthday, America.

I wanted to let you know of a special event I've been invited to in San Antonio. My good friend Sharon Jenkins has created a live, in-person event in a hotel on the Riverwalk and I'm one of the speakers. I'll be teaching about Dating Safety to a room full of daters who are 40+.

But here's also the special thing - I will be taking women out that evening to a couple of places, and I'll be their wing woman. Yes, I'll take you out, watch your game and give some gentle critiques or some attagirls. That activity is a special bonus by paying in full and early.

****And here's the really special part. If you buy today, July 4th, you get a 25% discount. It's already a good deal, but 25%? Who doesn't love that?!

Check out LoveOnPurpose.fun to see the scope of the event and get your deal today.

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Have you ever found yourself trying to date a guy with certain qualities and he originally had them. But something happened, and eventually you discover that he's just like your alcoholic dad or the ex-husband who carried carried secrets or your first boyfriend who cheated on you.

There's a reason for it, and we're going to talk about it on Thursday, July 9th at 7:00 p.m. central time. It's free, and you can sign up for it at https://www.dianebrandonmoody.com/same-man-different-outfit.

And, I'm also announcing a 14 day run of daily podcast episodes from today (July 3rd) to July 14th when Simply Irresistible Collective begins.

Questions? Reach out to me at info@dianebrandonmoody.com.

Enjoy!

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You want something real. Then a conversation turns toward what you actually want, and it gets tense, or you go quiet, or you reach for the tired line. All he wants is a nurse or a purse. All she wants is my money.

Here's what those lines are really doing. Every time you say one, you teach your own brain to expect exactly that, and then you keep finding it. Grown-up dating sounds different, and it gets you to the truth a lot faster.

In this episode:

• Why the cynical catchphrases quietly work against you, and what to say instead
• The two assumptions that wreck good conversations, assuming he understands you and assuming you already know what he thinks, plus the simple question that clears both up
• The month-three conversation: what to actually ask once you're considering building something, from what you each want, to money and retirement in big-picture terms, to houses, kids, and health, to what you're each looking forward to in this chapter
• The truth the nurse-or-purse crowd never mentions: one day you might be the one who needs care. I share what that has looked like in my own marriage, and why a man who shows up in the hard moments matters far more than whether he's six foot four
• The conversation about when sex happens, why the third date is the grown-up place for it, and a short word for the men

None of this has to feel like an interview. Keep it a real conversation. And you would so much rather know by month three than three years in.

A line worth saving: stop rehearsing the worst about people, because your brain is listening, and it will go find the proof.

On the horizon: I'm reopening Simply Irresistible, my small-group program for women ready to go deeper than a podcast can take them, beginning July 14th. I'm putting the finishing touches on a few things, so more soon. If you're already curious whether it's for you, the way in is a conversation. Book a Love Audit at dianebrandonmoody.com/love-audit and we'll see if you're a fit and if I am for you.

A question to sit with: where have you been bracing for the worst in someone before they've had the chance to show you who they are?

Diane Brandon Moody is a dating coach for accomplished women over 50 and host of the Fiftysomething Love podcast. Her love story was featured in The New York Times.

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