Why do so many working dads feel exhausted even when they’re doing everything "right"?

Dr. Matt Campbell believes the problem is not that most people are broken. It’s that they’re depleted.

Matt is a clinical psychologist and creator of the Primal Five Framework, which focuses on five foundational areas that shape how we show up every day: sleep, sunlight, movement, connection, and consumption. His work explores how modern life quietly pulls us away from the things our minds and bodies were built for and how that depletion affects everything from patience and anxiety to parenting and meaningful work.

Matt shares how to:

• Recognize when exhaustion is really a capacity problem instead of a time problem
• Improve work life balance without trying to overhaul your entire life overnight
• Build routines that reduce decision fatigue and make healthy habits easier
• Find practical ways to incorporate movement into an already busy schedule
• Create meaningful connection instead of surface-level social interaction
• Break cycles of depletion, irritability, anxiety, and overwhelm

Matt brings a thoughtful and deeply practical perspective to fatherhood, parenting, and the reality of trying to stay healthy while balancing work, family, and daily responsibilities.

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What happens when your life changes faster than you can process it?

For Mike Weyandt, the shift into fatherhood came all at once. A long, uncertain adoption process suddenly turned into bringing home a newborn in a matter of weeks. At the same time, his career path was in flux, and shortly after, the world shut down.

What followed was a season filled with constant change, new responsibilities, and very little time to step back and make sense of it all.

Mike brings a rare combination of perspectives. As a former opera performer, he understands what it means to be fully present when it matters most. As a talent leader and executive coach, he has helped others navigate uncertainty in their careers. And as a dad, he has lived through the reality of balancing meaningful work, identity shifts, and the everyday demands of parenting.

Mike shares how to:

• Recognize and interrupt reactive patterns in both work and parenting
• Build awareness around the thoughts that drive stress and overwhelm
• Stay present when everything around you feels uncertain
• Balance ambition with the realities of fatherhood and daily life
• Move from constant reaction to more intentional decision-making
• Let go of “should” thinking and challenge inherited assumptions
• Handle career uncertainty without defaulting to ineffective busy work
• Accept that growth as a parent and professional is an ongoing practice

Mike’s perspective is thoughtful, honest, and deeply practical. Especially for working dads trying to figure out work life balance while navigating change, pressure, and the desire to be more present at home.

It’s a reminder that not every season needs to be solved immediately. Sometimes the real work is learning how to stay grounded while everything is still unfolding.

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What does it actually look like to rebuild your life after everything falls apart?

Rob Capili has lived through it. Divorce, career pivots, identity shifts, and the long process of starting over while still showing up as a father. His path has never been linear. From tech to filmmaking to music to entrepreneurship, he has followed curiosity, taken risks, and learned the hard way what matters and what doesn’t.

But some of his most important lessons didn't come from success. They came from failure, from relationships that didn't work, and from the responsibility of raising kids through difficult transitions.

This conversation is raw, honest, and grounded in real experience. Especially for working dads trying to navigate fatherhood, work life balance, and the pressure to get it right while figuring it out in real time.

Rob shares how to:

• Rebuild your identity and direction after divorce
• Balance honesty with protecting your children during difficult seasons
• Let go of perfection and focus on being present as a parent
• Give kids the space to make their own decisions while still guiding them
• Shift from outcome-based thinking to focusing on effort and process
• Recognize what you will and will not tolerate in relationships moving forward
• Use failure, setbacks, and painful experiences as fuel for growth
• Follow curiosity and creativity while still carrying real responsibility

Rob’s perspective is direct, thoughtful, and often unexpectedly funny. A reminder that even in the hardest seasons, there is a path forward.

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