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Happy Sunday Bestie Babes! Welcome to the 'Ladies Lounge' a new mini series apart of the Hanging Out 4ever podcast with Aja where we keke, keep it real and talk everything about dating and dealing with men.

Welcome to the first episode which is one of the first steps you should take in a relationship,
'How To Run a Strict Program with Your Man'

Sit down, pour up, or clean your house, whatever you're doing, put on Ladies Lounge and let's get into it.

New Episodes every other Sunday!

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She's building most controversial product to ever come out of Harvard Business School and it all revolves around women, pleasure and orgasms 👀

Aja sat down with Morgan Hewett, founder of Devins Toys one of the first AI-powered sex tech companies in the world fully centered around women, and we get into what that actually means, how the Devin works and learns you and your body in real time and also roleplays with you, and why she believes women deserve sexual experiences that are fully designed around them.

Which makes us wonder, why is sex only feel like an uncomfortable topic when we start centering women in the conversation around pleasure and desire? Thats the bigger question and part of the backlash she's faced at Harvard from students to professors and in the real world from husbands and male investors.

Morgan believes orgasms and sexual exploration go beyond the experience of sex, they actually teach women about autonomy, confidence and self awareness.

Ladies, this episode is your sign to date yourself, unlearn performance in relationships, find out what it looks like to reconnect with your body without shame and center yourself in the bedroom once and for all.

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This episode was one we knew we had to have, and it was a long time coming. Grant opens up to Aja about the moments he realized he wasn't man enough for the relationship he wanted to have with her. From being emotionally passive, to struggling financially, to putting in the bare minimum, and almost losing Aja completely — Grant shares what the most difficult parts of growing up while being in a relationship really look like, which is something people don't talk about nearly enough.

Aja and I have been together since our early 20s, and you don't realize how far you have to grow until somebody is putting a mirror in your face and showing you exactly what needs to change. Growing to be the man she needed wasn't easy, but it was what it took to become the partner Aja deserved.

In this episode, we get into the years of clashing, the resentment that built up, and the breaking point where Aja couldn't see a future with me anymore and how she felt as someone who refused to lower her standards for love. We talk about what it actually felt like for me to not show up as the man in the relationship, what finally pushed me to change, and how Aja began to trust me again — the small moments, the big shifts, and everything in between.

If you're in a relationship where you feel like you're falling behind, struggling with how to be the man your partner needs, or trying to figure out how to rebuild trust after you've dropped the ball, we made this episode for you.
This is our real experience and relationship advice as two people who lived through it, chose each other anyway, and made it to the other side.

Leave us a comment and let us know where you are in your journey, let's talk it out and hopefully we can help get you to the other side too.

Because we love it over here and want that for you.

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-Grant & Aja

Hey Besties! We’re keeping it light on this week’s episode… but trust us, the next few weeks are about to get heavy.

So before we dive into all of that, we decided to switch it up and ask each other some very serious “Would You Rather” questions. And by serious, we mean the kind that lowkey reveal how you really think about love, loyalty, jealousy, boundaries, and SECRETS.

Let's get into this would you rather couples edition and see if either of us are a red flag 👀

p.s.

Sorry Vegans :(

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Hey Besties! We sat down with pro-sex content creator Lady K to talk about how Women experience pleasure, shame, ego, submission, dominance, and what happens when a Woman stops centering men and starts centering herself in the bedroom.

There’s this weird thing in society where Women are allowed to be sexualized but are made to feel that aren't actually allowed to enjoy sex, not allowed to want more and not allowed to raise the bar. That Women are seen as sources of pleasure for men while being shamed for exploring their own sense of pleasure in the same way men do.

Y'all know we hate patriarchal double standards over here so Aja and Lady K dive deep into all of it from why strong Women desire being dominated in bed to what men get wrong about Women's desire as a whole.

Let us know what y'all think about everything and if you've ever had problems exploring your sexuality out of shame, nervousness or anything else!

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-Grant & Aja

You read that title right!

BUCKLE UP BESTIES WE'RE IN FOR A WILD RIDE!

As promised, we're back with another listener letter straight from our HO4 (Hanging Out 4ever, duh lol) community

This episode feels like that one Wendy Williams shook meme and we have major whiplash.

This might be our favorite episode to date, we let loose, get a lil crazy and read some even crazier stories.

Here's the stories we dive into today,

1. Nasty Toenails
2. I Was Married To A P*rn Addict
3. (WE'RE GONNA LET THIS ONE BE A SURPRISE 🥵🫣👀)

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-Grant & Aja

OK BESTIES WE NEED TO HAVE A TALK..
The news of Kristy and Desmonds divorce is SHAKING the internet and we're here to clear the air and share the truth behind relationship content creators and the SIDE EFFECTS of MONETIZING your love life

Grant goes off on a rant, we discuss gender dynamics in the influencer space and as always, KEEP IT REAL

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-Grant & Aja